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should I get married?

araby wrote:should I get married?

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ok ash, i'll marry you <3

they don't allow that in my state.

i'm already married araby,....sorry.

k

thank god he ain't queer

there was a myspace link here...that someone deleted. lyion.

Marry me!

You have a girlfriend! Besides I can't live up North. You'd have to move here.

araby wrote:they don't allow that in my state.

=p

araby wrote:thank god he ain't queer

there was a myspace link here...that someone deleted. lyion.

that was mine, i was trying to get my pictures off of it but i have to bypass my security thing at my work by following a link on nameless...

araby wrote:thank god he ain't queer

there was a myspace link here...that someone deleted. lyion.

¿Que?

I thought you posted the myspace link and deleted it. but you didn't. it was kh.

araby wrote:should I get married?

I mistakenly thought you were single, and hadn't met a guy you want to spend the rest of your life with..

He knows who he is. He asked me to marry him last year but I had a boyfriend.

Hi, stop being a crazy woman.

Ok...my answer is NO...not right now.

If this guy is worth it he'll wait. You need more time to figure yourself out.

I'd agree but it's not so crazy. In fact it's making a lot of sense lately.

Maybe to you, but I gaurantee EVERYONE else who knows you will disagree. You're still plenty young.

Martrae wrote:Ok...my answer is NO...not right now.

If this guy is worth it he'll wait. You need more time to figure yourself out.

yah time is here, I'm taking it. it's nice.

I've spent about a year and a half wondering about this guy, wondering if he's right or just a distraction. (from he that shall not be named.) I haven't been able to stop thinking about him for a long time and I wasn't sure if it was what I wanted. Even he said, "you have to know what you want."

well I didn't really, not then.

if I wanted to be with him I think marriage would be in the works. hence my thread. I have a feeling if we hang out a lot, I'll end up marrying him. I think it's what I want for myself. as opposed to what I've been doing.

make sense?

No, still doesn't make sense. You haven't been "normal" since the breakup and you're still in rebound mode.

Are you living with the guy, Araby?

I have spent the last two weekends with my family. They are the only people that help me feel normal. I don't live around them though, so throughout the week I just kind of wander around aimlessly. Well, that's not true. I've been working on this book.

Saturday morning I woke up and had coffee before going to our family reunion. I felt a strong urge to say, "it's time" for that. It feels right. This man is my best friend. He has been for a long time. I would like to love him. I'm ready for it.

but yah, you're right. I'm taking more time and getting better every day. It's just something I feel. I always come back to thinking of him.

That's fine that you feel that way but it's still blatently obvious you're still miss rebound at this point. You're still young and hawt so you've got to slow down or you're setting yourself up to get hurt again, trust me I know.

No, I don't wanna live with him unless we're married. or close to it. I don't wanna live with anybody right now. I ask all of this for the future, you people think I am talking about Saturday at noon.