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Tikker wrote:I was a football/hockey/rugby/wrestling superstar
she begged me omg
araby wrote:kinghooter00 wrote:Not disagreeing at all, this has all crossed my mind and there is still alot of time. This isn't set in stone. These are just routes we are most likely to make. I might run it by her and she would probably agree. She wants him to pay. She hates that he doesn't give any support to his child.
So thanks for that. I will see what happens.
the father should support the child. if he doesn't want to pay child support outside of the courts, which is how he's better off doing it, then she has the option to take him to court.
the courts will not only tell him how much to pay each month, but they will ask him for back-child support that he's not payed, all along. if she doesn't want to go that way, then she needs to move past the father not financially supporting the child and find other means of support.
if you offer some, that is a great thing for you to do and I commend you for it.
if you want to adopt the child, because you want to give it a father to call it's own, I support your decision.
either way, just remember this. if she takes the father to court for financial support, and he does not pay it, they will put him in jail. he will have to continue to pay the support, yes, while he is in jail. (with no job to pay said support.)
these decisions are your wife's to make. what does she say about all of this?
kinghooter00 wrote:plus i'm not too sure if i want to go through all of that... I don't know... Its gonna be a long discussion.
kinghooter00 wrote:i'd have to see how much child support would be. Jay, i'm glad you are actually talking and not bashing. Thanks bro. That sounds like a good idea.
I would love to see some extra money come in to pay for some thing that are tight right now. But i have afeeling that we would need to go another route, like an attorney or something to get what we really want from him. Which, in the end is money. He's a real dushbag, honestly.
He blames my wife for not doing what he should have done and not seeing Charlee. I'm clueless on how to go about doing this legally to get it done though. I'd have to look into it.
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kinghooter00 wrote:i'd have to see how much child support would be. Jay, i'm glad you are actually talking and not bashing. Thanks bro. That sounds like a good idea.
I would love to see some extra money come in to pay for some thing that are tight right now. But i have afeeling that we would need to go another route, like an attorney or something to get what we really want from him. Which, in the end is money. He's a real dushbag, honestly.
He blames my wife for not doing what he should have done and not seeing Charlee. I'm clueless on how to go about doing this legally to get it done though. I'd have to look into it.
kinghooter00 wrote:i'd have to see how much child support would be. Jay, i'm glad you are actually talking and not bashing. Thanks bro. That sounds like a good idea.
I would love to see some extra money come in to pay for some thing that are tight right now. But i have afeeling that we would need to go another route, like an attorney or something to get what we really want from him. Which, in the end is money. He's a real dushbag, honestly.
He blames my wife for not doing what he should have done and not seeing Charlee. I'm clueless on how to go about doing this legally to get it done though. I'd have to look into it.
araby wrote:kinghooter00 wrote:i'd have to see how much child support would be. Jay, i'm glad you are actually talking and not bashing. Thanks bro. That sounds like a good idea.
I would love to see some extra money come in to pay for some thing that are tight right now. But i have afeeling that we would need to go another route, like an attorney or something to get what we really want from him. Which, in the end is money. He's a real dushbag, honestly.
He blames my wife for not doing what he should have done and not seeing Charlee. I'm clueless on how to go about doing this legally to get it done though. I'd have to look into it.
hrm, not sure you have the right idea.
if you are seeking money from this guy because you and your wife don't make enough money to make ends meet, then I suggest you find different jobs or extra ones.
you don't take someone to court for child support because they are a douchebag.
a few things to consider: does the father see the child? if so, he needs to pay support. he can do that outside the courts. if he doesn't do it outside the courts, and she needs financial support from him, then she needs to hire an attorney to set up a court date so that the judge will order how much he has to pay.
does the father *not* see the child? if not...then why does she want financial support from him? if she's talking about you adopting the baby, then why are you even dealing with the father still? is he out of the child's life or what??
I don't agree with making someone pay for a child they do not have visitation rights to, unless the father abandoned the mother and does not want visitation. in this case, they should just pay and move on with his life. Im not sure that *I* would even WANT support from a father that he would never see.
Jay wrote:How? I agree he shouldn't have to pay child support if he doesn't visit them on a moral level, but he owes the mom something for having a child and not stepping up to take care of her. If KH and the father work out a settlement, KH gets to adopt the child and he gets paid and the guy is out of his life for good. The mom no longer has to deal with the real dad and gets compensated which it sounds like something they both need right now. The child grows up knowing KH as the father (not really sure how good...) I'm missing the downside to this.
What KH DOESN'T want is the actual child support money, which entitles the father to visitation rights. I understand the whole money for personal gain stuff, that's super and all, and I'm glad you wouldn't fuck anyone over for that, but this is what KH's family is entitled to. For everything they've done for the child, for KH doing that douchebag's job. 10g's is the LEAST that guy could do to ensure his daughter is taken care of. It's not like that money is gonna go to new rims or anything. I'm sure a lot of that, if not most, if not all of that will be invested into the child.
araby wrote:kinghooter00 wrote:i'd have to see how much child support would be. Jay, i'm glad you are actually talking and not bashing. Thanks bro. That sounds like a good idea.
I would love to see some extra money come in to pay for some thing that are tight right now. But i have afeeling that we would need to go another route, like an attorney or something to get what we really want from him. Which, in the end is money. He's a real dushbag, honestly.
He blames my wife for not doing what he should have done and not seeing Charlee. I'm clueless on how to go about doing this legally to get it done though. I'd have to look into it.
I don't agree with making someone pay for a child they do not have visitation rights to, unless the father abandoned the mother and does not want visitation. in this case, they should just pay and move on with his life. Im not sure that *I* would even WANT support from a father that he would never see.
kinghooter00 wrote:araby wrote:kinghooter00 wrote:i'd have to see how much child support would be. Jay, i'm glad you are actually talking and not bashing. Thanks bro. That sounds like a good idea.
I would love to see some extra money come in to pay for some thing that are tight right now. But i have afeeling that we would need to go another route, like an attorney or something to get what we really want from him. Which, in the end is money. He's a real dushbag, honestly.
He blames my wife for not doing what he should have done and not seeing Charlee. I'm clueless on how to go about doing this legally to get it done though. I'd have to look into it.
I don't agree with making someone pay for a child they do not have visitation rights to, unless the father abandoned the mother and does not want visitation. in this case, they should just pay and move on with his life. Im not sure that *I* would even WANT support from a father that he would never see.
Thats just it. He hasn't wanted to see her. We have the grandparents visit her but he wont make any attempt to call or ask to see her.
He hasn't paid a dime or cared to see her for 2 yrs. My wife is pissed about that.
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