Diekan wrote:Ok, you all want to know why I am hard on women?
Here's a little background for you. But, first... no.. I don't "hate" women. But I will admit I don't trust them as far as I can throw them.
A very long time ago I was a "dad" for a very short period of time. It was an accidental thing that neither of us were ready for. But, despite that we decided to make it work... our son didn't see his first birthday because of what the doctors had written off as SIDS... but there were a lot of us - BOTH on her side of the family and mine that suspected something a LOT more sinister. She ate the attention up... the sympathy... the flowers... all the attention. I'm not getting into anymore than that.
Then some time later I meet a single mom. I thought everything was going great. Here was the family I always wanted... the role I wanted to fill... until I overheard a phone conversation she was having with one of her sisters about how "she didn't really love me, she just needed a sucker to help pay the bills and take care of her daughter." Lucky for me I caught it before I got royally screwed.
Regardless of what you people think - I do get hit on quite a bit, maybe no more than the average person I dont know - but what I can tell you is that the MAJORITY of women who hit on me are fucking MARRIED. Married women looking for some side action.
I met another single mom who really caught my eye... we talked and talked and talked - and it was one head game after another. She strung me along for TWO fuckign months before I finally got tired of it and pulled the plug. Something I never do.... something I should have seen coming.
Oh and let's not forget the one that I really fell for, who I let move in with me. Helped her with her bills, took care of her - only to find out later that she was fucking some guy from her work during lunch breaks and nights when she had "meetings" to attend. Fucking whore. I found out later she caught the simplex and laughed my ass off. Bitch deserved AIDS, but I can only dream.
Now a day most of the women I date, I date for sex and nothing more. Game after game, promises they never fullfill, lies and deciet.
I see women manipulate men all the time. Shaking their ass in a tight pair of jeans and some dumbass running around doing her bidding cause he "might get some" some day.
I have yet to see anything.... anything positive from a woman. I have yet to see anything from one in which there wasn't a some underlying agenda bubbling under the surface.
The one's I really liked? Oh yes, I held the door for her, listened to her, treated her with respect and consideration... treated her right. Did it last? Fuck no it didn't because deep down inside I didnt fit what they saw as a real man. Real men treat women like garbage. They bitch about it, but deep down inside they're drawn to it.
So you know what? That's exactly how I treat them all now. Take them out, if they don't put out by the third date at the latest - bye bye. If they put out on the second or first date - good - now I can move on to the next.
I don't want to hear your whiny sob story.. I don't give a shit about the condition of your life. Just come over, fuck and go away.
you got
~ftw~
