I am having a laprascopic RNY Gastric Bypass probably sometime at the end of April or May of this year pending insurance approval. Mop came with me to the consult on 1/31 at John Hopkins Obesity Clinic at JH Bayview Hospital.
We have been talking about it for a long time. He was dead set against it from the time we met and is supporting me today but only because he knows that it is my ultimate decision in the end. Matter of fact, I discussed even posting this subject here with him first because he is a very private person. I make my journey public only with hopes that it might help someone else. Maybe it will educate those who are suffering or just the average person open to understanding this decision. If it helps just one person that reads this forum then it is worth the 50 that might flame it. Maybe it will also dispel some of the mis-information out there.
MY STORY..........
Most of you know how active I am and that I work out almost every day. I also lift more than 90% of the women in my gym and have exercised consistently the last three years. For the most part I eat healthy with the occasional splurge here and there. I am fanatical about living a healthy lifestyle as much as Mop. I created my own health and fitness message board and have helped lots of other people looking to get healthy. Fitness and nutrition is a passion.
WLS is an absolute last resort decision. Many risks are associated with it and it does not promise that you will keep the weight off unless you make the lifestyle and behavioral changes. There are tons of rules you need to follow for the rest of your life including taking chewable and sublingual supplements/vitamins, not drinking when you eat, eating protein first, and getting labs every year.
The pouch (mini stomach) that is created from WLS is to be thought of as a "tool" only and not some miracle. Statistics do show that more people keep the weight off with WLS then other methods but as the article says it is only for people who need to lose more than 100 lbs., have other health issues, and have gone through an extensive screening process by multiple specialists.
I need to loose more than 100lbs and have other related health issues including arthritis, hypertension, ammenoreha, history of fibroids, and a back issue (disc bulge L4-5). Part of it is probably hormonal and I may have something called PCOS - Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome that contributes to my issues with losing weight. However, a big part is also the years and years of yo-yo diets and misinformation that floods the fitness industry. Perhaps the greatest contributing factor is the cycle that Mop mentions. It is a catch 22. I workout like crazy, I get injured because of the weight (ankle, joint, back injuries), I gain some back, I recover, start all over again. I've done that about 25 times in the last three years. It's a killer mentally and physically. I proved that I can lose 30-40lbs time and time again and have been on diets since age 13. I just can't keep it off and lose more. I always gain some of it back.. sometimes the all the weight plus more. It is a vicious cycle. I have a beautiful life and am very happy but I feel like this is the one area that I have not been able to achieve long term success. I am not doing it for vanity purposes but more so because I want to live an active lifestyle pain free and hopefully get rid of some of these other issues.
You are welcome to read and follow more of my detailed story here:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesit ... 1104686271
The Procedure Today:
Many of the top clinics today such as the Hopkins center offer a very comprehensive program. It isn't like the "Stomach-stapling" procedures in the past. You are required to go to support groups, nutrional counseling, have a psyc eval prior to surgery, and go through a lot of tests prior to the procedure. It is by no means an easy or lazy way out. It's the hardest thing a person can do and it drastically changes your plumbing for the rest of your life. While it is a reversable procedure in some cases typically it is dangerous to do that reversal. You can visit my surgeons site here:
http://www.smallscar.com to learn more details about the procedure or research it. He has a video if it as well on the site.