I am very loyal which makes me want to stay on this sinking ship, but I also have to think about my wellfare, and the amount of stress this boss puts me through.
Freinds, and loyalty is all good and fine.. when you are happy where you work. It sounds like you are less than thrilled working where you do now.. I would go for the stable job thatpays more, and has more oportunity for advancement. And you said there is a daycare right there next to the office? And you were already looking for an apartment around there? Looks like to me that everything is comething together for you in that area. Just my 2 cents. GL with whatever you choose.