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Darcler wrote:As I am reading some of the comments, I am changing my mind a bit. Jose is dead, let them get together.
Fair game, I agree.
Yamori wrote:Think it depends on what the nature of their relationship was, and how close a friend he was to your friend.
Moving in after a serious romantic relationship with a good friend that you truly cared for would probably be a bad thing (unless you wanted a serious romantic relationship also).
If the two were more or less just screwing around (2-3 months makes this sound at least likely) and the two guys weren't particularly close friends - just buddies, it's a different story... imo.
Erodalak wrote:The Kizzy wrote:I will agree with Martrae on all but one point. I think that if he did pursue a serious relationship with her, it would not be a bad thing. His friend loved this girl, and I am sure that the deceased would be pleased in knowing that he is taking care of her, even after he is gone.
Well, I wouldn't say that they were in love, but they were working in that direction. They hadn't been together long enough to be love. Jose was with her like...2 or 3 months ish.
Xaiveir wrote:The Kizzy wrote:I don't agree, Tikker, I feel he is betraying his friend.
His friend that is Dead and probably doesnt give a shit?
Red DwarfI dont think the relationship will work, her being dead and all. Unless it snows and you need something to grit the pathway with.
Xaiveir wrote:I doubt very seriously Mr. Jose is going to haunt anyone that decided to date or fuck a girl he was interested in.
He is dead................
I doubt he cares...............
Remeber the dead, dont live your life scared of what the deceased will think. You have to live YOUR life.
If he was looking down, he would probably be happy that his friend was hooking up with someone he was interested in. If they get together and have a good relationship then Jose would be comforted in knowing that his death had a purpose, and that said lady would be happy and well taken care of.
Jesus this is a dumb question, some people amaze me with their sniveling ........oh thats not right, Jose would not have wanted that. Its not fucked up, its not bad morales, its not deceitful, its not harmful in any way. There is NO issue.
Hook it up.
Minrott wrote:My girlfriend is a widow. Her husband was best friends with one of my friends, and a whole bunch of aqaintences(wtf sp). But I never knew him. There were times in the beginning that were fairly uncomfortable, and I never asked for anyone's "approval" because all that mattered to me was what she thought. However, we were together maybe 2 months when the congruent friend said he was happy she was with me. Of course, I wasn't just looking for some ass.
If all your friend is looking for is some play, gtfo. There's plenty of action without going there. But if they dig each other, it's cool. That's how I see it anyway.
However, if one my friends (while still alive) gets a divorce or breaks up with his chick and asks me not to chase her... well... what can you do but respect his wishes?
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