leah wrote:my thoughts on the jealousy issue:
i am jealous because i think she is prettier than i am.
I disagree too.
There are hot girls, cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls. All 4 can be combined as long as one of the final 3 is the primary. If hot is primary, it generally cannot be combined with the other as hot girls are simply.. hot girls. They will never be regarded as beautiful girls, pretty girls, cute girls, because hot girls are just that - one dimensional, hot. Imo, your primary is beautiful because you have the combination of your looks and how you carry yourself in addition to a thoughtful personality and the type of soul people can see and respect, and then depending on the day or how you're feeling you're laced with aspects of the other 3.
When a girl is regarded as the hot chick, she'll always be regarded as I'd bend that over, but typically will never be regarded as wow, she's beautiful. Or omg she did the cutest thing today. It's always associated with the naughty because hot girls in the most definitive sense of the word also carry themselves as hot girls and don't want to be viewed as much else other than hot.
I've always had this theory.. I think a dating ad was linked here (not sure if it was here) where it verified that a guy had the same type of outlook on things and cited examples of typical hot girls and typical beautiful girls.. hot girl examples he put carmen electra as one example, a beautiful girl example was Rachel McAdams - that's pretty accurate, imo, and I view Rachel McAdams in such a higher multi-dimensional light than Carmen Electra, because she has so much more to offer than damn I'd do her.. although if I was a guy, I'd happily stick my penis in Rachel McAdams, because she's hot when she wants to be.. if that makes sense >.<