by Arlos » Thu Oct 04, 2007 2:35 pm
What boggles the mind is that he seems to view that number as a positive accomplishment. Sorry, no. I mean, if you're ramping up for a run at Gene Simmons or Wilt Chamberlain numbers, you got a long way to go. If you're not, then you're insanely lucky not to have picked up anything.
Honestly, I've never been into the whole "meaningless sex with someone I barely know" thing. Yeah, I've done it before a few times (who hasn't, pretty much, Harrisons of the world aside), and you know what? It was shitty sex. Seriously, it was generally about the level of, "You get off yet? No? OK, I'll stay hard a while longer and let you ride while I count ceiling tiles. Lemme know when you're done." I find that, for myself at least, I need SOME kind of emotional connection to the person I'm screwing to really enjoy it. Good friends who fool around works, but someone I met once or twice at a bar or party? Hell no.
In any case, I'm sorry, but mature individuals don't let their lives be driven by their dicks, even in their 20s. 50 people is a stupid number, not something to be proud of. But whatever floats your boat, dude, go on with the shallow and meaningless crap if you want, just don't bitch about relationships. I even agree on some levels that women tend to be more manipulative and cruel than guys are, and yeah, I've been hurt really really badly before. Still doesn't mean I ran around planting my dick in anything that said yes.
-Arlos