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10sun wrote:Getting married in like 7 weeks.
I believe everything is all set aside from getting a suit.
I'll probably visit the tailor this weekend to get that addressed.
It is good to hear you are doing well.
I packed my little brother off to rehab two months ago and he had his first family day this past weekend. He is doing well, but he made the commitment to stay for 13 months and we are holding him to it.
brinstar wrote:well you likely know this but a-fib is the top half of the heart freaking the fuck out for whatever reason
it's fairly common in the elderly and those who party hard (it used to be called "holiday heart" because sailors on shore leave would get so shitfaced their hearts would wig out) but mine has no clear cause. a-fib usually isn't a serious condition, it just kinda feels like you're a bit winded
v-fib on the other hand is serious shit, that's when the ventricles (bottom half) that slam out the fresh blood into the body lose their marbles and just do whatever
if you are on a-fib but your Vs are working fine, your blood is still circulating (if a bit unevenly) - but when your Vs take a shit basically your circulation system goes to hell
this all gets traced back to how cardiac cells work - each cell is capable of spontaneously generating its own signal and flexing, but those weak tendencies are (supposed to be) overridden by the big signal coming down the sinoatrial nerve that makes them all work (flex) together. when the big signal gets interrupted or garbled, the cells just kinda do their own thing
here's a gif of what normal sinoatrial signal looks like:
you see the big signal come down and force everything to work together
and here's what a-fib looks like:
big signal gets gunked up or cut off - leaving the atria to just sorta fuck off and the valves just sorta flap around BUT the bottom half still pumps your shit around so you don't die, you just feel kinda weird (i described it as "my heart feels like holding a declawed cat over a bathtub full of water")
on the other hand here's what v-fib looks like:
your ventricles are having a goddamn rave and if you get this you pretty much die within a minute or two
THE MORE YOU KNOOOOW
Tossica wrote:Ha!
Nice one.
Well, I'm married and we're deep in to house hunting.
Narrock wrote:
Grats 10sun! Wow, you guys didn't waste any time since the SCOTUS handed down that decision a few weeks ago eh?
Jay wrote:I've been kinda quiet, a little embarrassed to be honest.
Divorced now, coming up on a year. Things never got back to how they were before the babies. Sold the house and now I live in an apartment. Ex has the kids and we have a nice agreement worked out and live close to each other and are still friends. Neither of us has started dating yet and I honestly feel kinda fine being alone for now. I mostly focus on work and fighting games when I'm not with the kiddies.
I don't feel great about myself, but I don't feel bad either. I've definitely gotten better but have been better too. Just 1 day at a time.
EDIT: On the upside we do both love Seattle. I wanted to stay and especially with how San Francisco's prices have gone up and how there's that big water shortage going on I didn't really want to go back. Thankfully she was in total agreement with staying in Seattle herself.
Drem wrote:Narrock wrote:
Grats 10sun! Wow, you guys didn't waste any time since the SCOTUS handed down that decision a few weeks ago eh?
nicely done
Savanna wrote:You guys are speaking my language ...couldn't help but notice the heart talk when I popped in tonight! I get all the fun of afib pts, heart failure, heart attack/chest pain, open heart surgery, anything that can seem heart related and random critical care overflow but I love my heart patients the most! You never know what you'll get from ER. Afib is soooo common and pretty easy to deal with now a days. Some nights I feel like everyone is in afib! Vfib is the oh sh** shock rhythm. I used to be more scared of whacky heart rhythms and especially chest pain/heart attack type stuff but there's a lot we can do now for hearts. Watching open heart surgery is so fascinating, especially valve replacements! I did a shift in the cath lab so I could practice pulling the sheaths they put in when they do angiograms/stents/ablations etc. Watching them do stents & seeing the arteries flow again smoothly is pretty cool to watch too. I take care of pacemaker pts all the time ...they can do different kinds so some are just defibrillators and others can pace as needed or all the time. People are in n out for them it feels like! sorry I wrote like a book response, love the heart
Drem wrote:Narrock wrote:
Grats 10sun! Wow, you guys didn't waste any time since the SCOTUS handed down that decision a few weeks ago eh?
nicely done
Drem wrote:Nah, my wife and I got a house last December and bought a business a couple months ago. A nail shop. I'm doing the books and being our own CPA and random maintenance/re-modeling stuff and doing everything around the house and watching our boy a lot while she paints nails all day
Big change. It was fun being sous chef at that Japanese spot for the last couple years, and I actually took over a kitchen for a couple months at this cool Italian butcher shop/deli before we bought our business back in May, but it was time to get out of the food service industry. I miss cooking good food, but not the ridiculous alcohol-fueled environment. Now I just get to cook for my friends and family. I was at the typical salary cap for most chefs in this area and it wasn't enough to make me happy down the road
How about you?
Narrock wrote:Drem wrote:Nah, my wife and I got a house last December and bought a business a couple months ago. A nail shop. I'm doing the books and being our own CPA and random maintenance/re-modeling stuff and doing everything around the house and watching our boy a lot while she paints nails all day
Big change. It was fun being sous chef at that Japanese spot for the last couple years, and I actually took over a kitchen for a couple months at this cool Italian butcher shop/deli before we bought our business back in May, but it was time to get out of the food service industry. I miss cooking good food, but not the ridiculous alcohol-fueled environment. Now I just get to cook for my friends and family. I was at the typical salary cap for most chefs in this area and it wasn't enough to make me happy down the road
How about you?
That's cool man. I hope the nail salon stays lucrative for you guys. It's always a big risk owning your own business, but women LOVE their mani's and pedi's so I think you'll be okay.
Still hauling propane. Not a glorious job by any means, but I still like my job and get to see a lot of nice country, and my company has a very nice retirement plan. My wife still works from home for Blue Shield. Lexi starts first grade in about a month. Time's a flyin. We're looking around at other states for retirement... gonna definitely be leaving Commiefornia. We took our vacation this year to Oregon. We loved coastal Oregon and Bend the most.
Narrock wrote:Damn, Brin, I hope they get your afib fixed asap.
brinstar wrote:Narrock wrote:Damn, Brin, I hope they get your afib fixed asap.
oh it's been handled for years now, there's really only been that one major episode and that was what, 07? 08? somewhere around there
brinstar wrote:Narrock wrote:Damn, Brin, I hope they get your afib fixed asap.
oh it's been handled for years now, there's really only been that one major episode and that was what, 07? 08? somewhere around there
Narrock wrote:Grats on your career Sav! Sounds like you really love your job. How's Patrick doing?
leah wrote:i am forever grateful to my gym teacher for drilling that skill into me during drivers' ed
leah wrote:isn't the only difference the length? i feel like it would take too long to smoke something that long, ha.
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