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wow, this thread did a 180, didn't it???

Tacks wrote:Men just want to fuck those women and nothing more.

I just thought I'd cross reference that point after that last comment

Maybe iit's a compliment in your realm or circle, but I can't imagine ever being flattered by the man I'm in love with saying 'She's hot and just knowing that i'm banging her makes me feel good.'

I mean yeah, you want your bf/gf/husband/wife to think you're sexy and to love being with you, but for me it certainly wouldn't be the point I'd want focused in on if I was the topic of discussion. It just kind of sounds degrading and discrediting to any love in the relationship.

That's just my view on it, though.

haha ash good one!! I must have expected it from KH but then again I was just scrolling you know, like I had something else to read. you guys are quick today.

Gypsiyee wrote:

Tacks wrote:Men just want to fuck those women and nothing more.

I just thought I'd cross reference that point after that last comment

Maybe iit's a compliment in your realm or circle, but I can't imagine ever being flattered by the man I'm in love with saying 'She's hot and just knowing that i'm banging her makes me feel good.'

I mean yeah, you want your bf/gf/husband/wife to think you're sexy and to love being with you, but for me it certainly wouldn't be the point I'd want focused in on if I was the topic of discussion. It just kind of sounds degrading and discrediting to any love in the relationship.

That's just my view on it, though.

I'm saying that i'm comfortable with her dressing like that because i know how beautiful she is and "Knowing" that she is with me makes me feel good.
I put it into guy terms the first time. But that right there is the same. I love her, so don't get it twisted...

kinghooter00 wrote:wow, this thread did a 180, didn't it???

Welcome to NT!

lol, it's crazy, Riddles turn into wife/girl B\S.

That's what they call a thread derail KH

Someone just gave me 40 von dutch energy drinks at work because they are allergic to them .... They are all in one of the draws in my desk... I'm a happy camper...

now this thread is a blog.

blog by araby

today it's raining and it's warm, around 70F which is perfect weather if you consider that I've been freezing for two weeks. I don't mind the rain in fact it was helping me to sleep, which is what I've not done in several days. now that my eyes are open (and a little swollen too but it's okay) I am going to sort through my suitcases full of things and put my life together again in this house. this is my house. that is my bed. this is my kitchen table that has been moved from the kitchen into the living room and is now being used as a computer desk. the computer desk and table chairs sit in the corner of the kitchen, where the table *should* be and there also is my coffee table. my bedroom is different, a picture has been turned down, my jewelry moved to my son's room. I am going to put my things back where they belong. I welcome change but this wasn't a change that I am happy with so I will make it so that I am happy again. In my house. I am listening to sufjan stevens, having vegetable beef soup with saltines for dinner and a glass of water. It's dark in here, I used to like that a lot. My house as I would have it was fitting for a vampire it was so dark. I like the light now, I want more light so I am going to put more light bulbs everywhere I can find a place for one. My cats are happy that I'm home, they are no longer in hiding and they are lying with me and at my feet when I'm at the computer like they always have. writing helps move the time along and reading does too, mostly it is nice to just be here in my thoughts when they are good. one step at a time.

Did you kick your bf out?

I asked him to spend his nights some place else.

araby wrote:I asked him to spend his nights some place else.

I see. I thought as much but figured I missed something in a thread somewhere. Sorry to hear. Relationshits for the loss.

thanks for your sympathy. we are actually very much in love with each other. I'm not angry. He's just a mess and since I'm not as much of a mess anymore, we aren't compatible. He doesn't see that he's a mess though. I would like to help him but he doesn't think he needs it. so, that's that. plus he totally has a new girlfriend. he says she's not his gf but she textstststs him forty times a day including at 4am. it's his new jamb partner. she's cute.

Ummm...that sucks?

araby wrote:thanks for your sympathy. we are actually very much in love with each other. I'm not angry. He's just a mess and since I'm not as much of a mess anymore, we aren't compatible. He doesn't see that he's a mess though. I would like to help him but he doesn't think he needs it. so, that's that. plus he totally has a new girlfriend. he says she's not his gf but she textstststs him forty times a day including at 4am. it's his new jamb partner. she's cute.

That's the definition of relationshits.

yup. must think positive though.

/agree

Sorry for the mess you're going through Araby. I'm glad you are at peace though. Better to understand this now and move on than to have it drag out longer.

Just keep it real though. If you're really in turmoil but you're putting up this huge front and ignoring it then you're just hurting yourself.

so

I missed the biker hooker

help

Oh the Irony in Taxx. He's on his second relationship, his second piece of ass, and his second biker bar heroin addict prostitute. Don't listen to him Mr. He's just mad because the only thing he's been fucking is a warm glass of milk.

gross

I think you just called me a prostitute, I no longer like you Jaz.

You're a smelly pirate hooker.

Jay wrote:Just keep it real though. If you're really in turmoil but you're putting up this huge front and ignoring it then you're just hurting yourself.

I'm trying not to hurt myself with everything I have, with every bit of strength and love I have for myself, and sometimes it doesn't work and I don't know why but that's when it sucks. the crying sucks. my eyes are swollen. my heart hurts. I dont' know if it's healthier to try not to cry or to just let it all out. I dont' know if I start crying if it will get better or worse. I don't know if when I lay down to sleep that I can go to sleep without having a bad dream so today I had to think of baby animals in order to go to sleep.

then I woke up, saw scott next to me staring at me and I smiled. he said "it's good to see you smile" and then I smiled bigger. when I got out of bed after that though I was sad again. I can't stop crying and am wondering if I should take the antidepressants I have.