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Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 11:13 pm
by Darcler
Makes me laugh now, but it hurt my feelings real bad when it first came out.
I finally learned to say "fuck them, they dont know me" and now all is well in the virtual world.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 11:04 am
by The Kizzy
Great, him and my mother are planning a wedding.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:06 pm
by Martrae
Did he even ask you?
I'd stop that boy in his tracks and make him ask you proper, if not!
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:19 pm
by The Kizzy
He says when he is ready he will ask properly after getting my father's permission. My mom is insisting we get married next month before I start to show. Her exasct words were "I can't believe you are bringing another child into this world without a proper last name" No matter what I do she makes me feel like shit. I am never good enough for her. I hate her. I am not getting married. I don't want to get married just because I am pregnant. I did that once, and it was a horrible marriage. I am in such a bad mood now.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:29 pm
by Martrae
Ok....deep breath....don't panic
It's amazing how our parents can still turn us into children, isn't it?
Forget the baby (and your mother) for a bit and focus on the relationship.
Did you want to marry him before you found out you were preg?
You know the horror-to-come signs....do you see any? Does he treat you well? Does he treat your son well?
Decide what you want to do based upon the total package and plan accordingly. You'll be fine.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:33 pm
by Zanchief
You probably can't do any better Kizzy, so you should try and lock this guy up.
I mean, you're not getting any younger.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:35 pm
by The Kizzy
Martrae wrote:Ok....deep breath....don't panic
It's amazing how our parents can still turn us into children, isn't it?
Forget the baby (and your mother) for a bit and focus on the relationship.
Did you want to marry him before you found out you were preg?
Yes, we were planning on getting married next year.
You know the horror-to-come signs....do you see any? Does he treat you well? Does he treat your son well?
He's awesome to me and to my son
Decide what you want to do based upon the total package and plan accordingly. You'll be fine.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:36 pm
by The Kizzy
Zanchief wrote:You probably can't do any better Kizzy, so you should try and lock this guy up.
I mean, you're not getting any younger.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:17 pm
by Darcler
I'll go ahead and post this in the pregnancy thread, even though it isnt about my own.
Found out today I'm having a boy. 100% sure. Very pronounced penis
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:18 pm
by Martrae
Ok....so if you were planning on it anyway the baby doesn't really make a difference. You can choose to get married now or wait until after the baby is born.
You're just reacting badly cuz your mom is pushing marriage on you. If she hadn't done that I'd be willing to bet you'd not be so upset about it.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:19 pm
by The Kizzy
Awww, so he doesn't take after Gidan's side of the family then. Sorry too easy. /giggle. GRATS
I hope I have a boy.............or a girl.........
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:23 pm
by Darcler
The Kizzy wrote:Awww, so he doesn't take after Gidan's side of the family then. Sorry too easy. /giggle. GRATS
I hope I have a boy.............or a girl.........
burn
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:23 pm
by Martrae
The Kizzy wrote:I hope I have a boy.............or a girl.........
That made me giggle.
Gratz Darc (and Gidan, even though she's having the boy and not you
)
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:31 pm
by The Kizzy
Someone has to carry on the family name.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 3:51 pm
by Darcler
My family name dies with me. Unless I take away the hyphen (sp?) in my daughters name and give her two middle names and do the same with this boy.
So now I need help with a first name for a boy, yall.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:02 pm
by Jay
Jay.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:05 pm
by Darcler
Doesnt go well with the middle name already picked out.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:06 pm
by Jay
Sure it does. It's just Jay.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:08 pm
by Darcler
Jay Cole? ew.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:09 pm
by Jay
HAWT
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:19 pm
by The Kizzy
Brendon
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 5:07 pm
by Harrison
Name it Harrison. FTW
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 5:09 pm
by leah
or joshua
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 5:10 pm
by Harrison
Both work!
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 5:25 pm
by Darcler
I dont want a name every other little boy has. I didnt like it in school, being named Ashley, I had at least 3 others.
So no Josh, and probably not Harrison. That's my sister's dog's name.
I dont like Brendon either.
The only things I could come up with are Parker and Jackson. Not terribly common but still common enough.
But I'm not set on those.
Oh, and Jackson would be naming him after Gid' s family.