I'm dating a new girl...

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 1:52 pm

dramalaysia (TM)

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 1:59 pm

Mind the shitballs.

Gypsiyee · Post by **Gypsiyee** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 2:49 pm

Jay wrote:When me and Caladore were at the Fan Faire in Chicago he kept calling Ashley Gypsiyee or Gyps.

Yeah, that wasn't annoying at all.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 3:43 pm

Sometimes Virra calls me Sandi when we are having sex. I like to call him Arcy and Virra both from time to time.

I think EQ jargon is hot.

Naethyn · Post by **Naethyn** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 3:45 pm

Gargamellow wrote:Sometimes Virra calls me Sandi when we are having sex. I like to call him Arcy and Virra both from time to time.

I think EQ jargon is hot.

i get called naethyn all the time!

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 3:47 pm

omg gay sexing

Adivina · Post by **Adivina** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 6:48 pm

Hah hah I have called Harrison Finawin before and Joey Aryylas... It just happens sometimes because you get so used to typing it on NT. I haven't called them it to their faces though, its been when using their names in conversation.

PS. Congrats on the new woman, I wish you all luck.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Fri Nov 03, 2006 7:25 pm

I always almost call Matt Gid when I am talking about him to someone irl.

"Hey Mom, Gi...uh...Matt and I are almost there"

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 9:11 am

Adivina wrote:Hah hah I have called Harrison Finawin before and Joey Aryylas... It just happens sometimes because you get so used to typing it on NT. I haven't called them it to their faces though, its been when using their names in conversation.

PS. Congrats on the new woman, I wish you all luck.

Thx Adi!

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 11:09 am

Awww I wish you the best, Mindia.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 11:22 am

Thx Janet

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 10:47 pm

Recap of dramamalaysia:

Everyone here told me that I would end up being the rebound guy. I couldn't help it. I fell for her hard - very hard. Everything seemed to be going well until she realized she was still in love with her ex. This was after humiliating me in public, treating me like shit, and not appreciating anything I did for her. She admitted that it was all her fault and told me she couldn't help it - she was still in love with her ex.

So we broke up. I quickly found out how much of an insensitive bitch she really is. She immediatley started hanging out with her ex. She seemed to think that there was no problem going out with him to clubs that she knew I would be at. Not only that, but when she saw another girl hitting on me she couldn't resist coming up to me to tell me "fuck you, I hate you."

Anyways, it's been a few months now. I'm moving on. I say I'm moving on because I'd be lieing if I said I was completely over her. Some say it takes at least six months.....

I have many other women to pick and choose from. I'm not worried in the least.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 3:20 am

I just found out tonight that she's separated and the divorce isn't even final yet. They just separated 4 months ago. :ugh:

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 7:09 am

So you gonna date her and risk "living in sin"?

Iccarra · Post by **Iccarra** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 8:32 am

Hmmm.....interesting... how long have you been dating? 5 months? :wink:

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 12:27 pm

Wait...wait...what is your "ugh" face for? honest question, Mindia. Are you judging her?! Either post more details of their separation which I might consider judgement-material, or don't make such a face. There's no way you can become disinterested just because of the fact that she's separated and not divorced yet. What's the scoop.

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 1:10 pm

And this is where his "strong beliefs" get sidelined for nookie.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 1:28 pm

araby wrote:Wait...wait...what is your "ugh" face for? honest question, Mindia. Are you judging her?! Either post more details of their separation which I might consider judgement-material, or don't make such a face. There's no way you can become disinterested just because of the fact that she's separated and not divorced yet. What's the scoop.

I don't know, honestly. It just makes me a bit uncomfortable. I'm not being judgmental... just explaining my feelings.

Post by **Arlos** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 2:38 pm

Well, there's the stigma of sleeping with a married woman. Even separated, it's still technically comitting adultery, which is a no-no, especially on a religious level, which we all know is an important factor for Mindia.

There's also the chance that since they have just separated and haven't bothered getting a divorce that they could get back together.

Third, there's the chance that Mindia is in the same position as Mark: Rebound Guy, which is not a position most any guy wants to end up in, unless they know full well they're just doing it for a couple months of cheap sex and then she'll turn into UberPsycho. (which again, I can't see as Mindia's motive in dating her.)

Fourth, she took significant time after they started dating to drop this little bombshell, where it should've been something she was up front about. If she's willing to hide things like this, what else is she, or would she, be less than honest about?

Do I need to keep providing reasons why someone would have a :ugh:

face upon learning such a fact partway into a relationship? Somehow, I don't think so....

-Arlos

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 3:18 pm

He didnt' post any of that. he just said she's separated-well if he doesn't want to see her for that reason only, seems a bit harsh to me. there's always a reason for everything-he should just ask her what she wants to do and then he can make a decision based on that. I mean, if she's a woman that wants to be single so she's separated, then Mindia is not for her. but if she is leaving an uhhealthy relationship and finds comfort with the time she spends with mindia, then maybe it's a great thing. If he has moral issues with it, then that's that.

Tikker · Post by **Tikker** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 4:20 pm

araby wrote:He didnt' post any of that. he just said she's separated-well if he doesn't want to see her for that reason only, seems a bit harsh to me. there's always a reason for everything-he should just ask her what she wants to do and then he can make a decision based on that. I mean, if she's a woman that wants to be single so she's separated, then Mindia is not for her. but if she is leaving an uhhealthy relationship and finds comfort with the time she spends with mindia, then maybe it's a great thing. If he has moral issues with it, then that's that.

nobody wants someone else's leftovers

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 4:36 pm

Tikker wrote:
araby wrote:He didnt' post any of that. he just said she's separated-well if he doesn't want to see her for that reason only, seems a bit harsh to me. there's always a reason for everything-he should just ask her what she wants to do and then he can make a decision based on that. I mean, if she's a woman that wants to be single so she's separated, then Mindia is not for her. but if she is leaving an uhhealthy relationship and finds comfort with the time she spends with mindia, then maybe it's a great thing. If he has moral issues with it, then that's that.

nobody wants someone else's leftovers

go be a muslim

Post by **Martrae** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 4:47 pm

araby wrote:but if she is leaving an uhhealthy relationship and finds comfort with the time she spends with mindia, then maybe it's a great thing.

That's still rebound guy....

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 5:07 pm

ok honest opinion..........

once a cheater always a cheater..in five years she could be telling this sad story to the next guy she wants to cheat on her man with..you being her man

i know that sometimes this isn't the case...but i don't know any cases where it isn't

have some self respect

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Sun Nov 05, 2006 5:52 pm

Who says she's cheating? They're separated.