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Postby Jimmy Durante » Wed Apr 06, 2005 8:59 am

Like many Japanese women, Junko waited until her early 30s to get married. When she and her fiance, an employee of a well-known firm, decided to tie the knot, she set her sights on making a home, putting away some money and starting a family.

Fifteen years later, Junko and her husband are childless. It is not that they cannot have children; it is just that they have never had sex.

The sexless marriage is one of several reasons why experts fear Japan is on the verge of a demographic disaster.

In 2003 Japan's birthrate hit a record low of 1.29 - the average number of times a woman gives birth during her lifetime - one of the lowest rates in the world, according to the cabinet office. The population will peak next year at about 128 million, then decline to just over 100 million by 2050.

The 200 women a year who seek help at a clinic in the Tokyo suburbs have not had sex with their husbands in up to 20 years, and some never, according to Kim Myong-gan, who runs the clinic.

"The women who come to see me love their husbands and aren't looking for a divorce," he told the Guardian. "The problem is that their husbands lose interest in sex or don't want sex from the start. Many men think of their wives as substitute mothers, not as women with emotional and sexual needs."

Mr Kim's short-term solution is unconventional. After an initial 20,000 yen (£100) counselling session, he produces photographs of 45 men, mostly professionals in their 40s, with whom the women are invited to go on dates and then, in almost all cases, arrange regular assignations in hotel rooms.

Mr Kim dismissed charges that his service was little more than a male prostitution ring. "The men volunteer and pay half the hotel and restaurant bills, so legally there is absolutely nothing wrong with it," he said.

He had rescued hundreds of women from despair, he said, but his "sex volunteers" would do nothing to cure the malaise that afflicts the institution of marriage in Japan.

The number of married couples is in rapid decline. In 2000 almost 70% of men and 54% of women between 25 and 29 were unmarried. That bodes ill for the birthrate, as conservative Japanese society frowns upon having children outside marriage.

A survey of 600 women found that 26% had not had sex with their husbands in the past year.

"We are sort of room-mates rather than a married couple," one 31-year-old man, who had not had sex with his wife for two years, told the Asahi Shimbun newspaper.

The government has introduced several measures to lift the birthrate. Fathers will be encouraged to take more than the 47% of annual paid leave they currently use, and their employers will be told to provide more opportunities for them to stay at home with their children.

Local authorities, meanwhile, are devising novel ways to increase fertility. In the town of Yamatsuri women will receive 1m yen if they have a third child, and in Ishikawa prefecture families with three children will get discounts at shops and restaurants.

The absence of children in so many homes is having an impact. Fun parks are closing and there are signs that the "exam hell" teenagers go through to secure places at top schools and universities is less of an ordeal because the competition is less fierce.

The divorce rate has nearly doubled in the past 10 years, with more women blaming their sexually inactive, as opposed to sexually errant, husbands for break-ups.

"The men love their companies; they live for work," Mr Kim said. "Men don't even think it is a problem if they don't have sex with their wives. They have pornography and the sex industry to take care of their needs, but their wives have nowhere to go. They just suffer in silence."

Perhaps the U.S. could provide assistance by sending some emergency "relief".
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Postby Martrae » Wed Apr 06, 2005 9:04 am

So, Japanese men have no sex drive? Probably the result of all the hours they put into work.
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Postby Jimmy Durante » Wed Apr 06, 2005 9:09 am

That's quite possible, but from what I gathered from the article, the conundrum lies in how they view their wives (as "substitute moms"). The men are still getting their jollies elsewhere, according to the last paragraph.
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Postby Tikker » Wed Apr 06, 2005 10:50 am

Friend of mine is in Japan now, and what she says is:


All married men have extra marrital girlfriends. it's a sign of social standing to have the most Gf's, or the most beautiful ones, etc etc. Wives are....like servants? married for home making abilities, not for sex




It's kind of a messed up system, but their island is so overpopulated, they could go thru a couple generations of shrinking~
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Postby Captain Insano » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:04 pm

Asian men are also the least likely to marry in this country. Those little dick yellow bastards have nothing to offer a woman whatsoever. Most of them are more interested in the rampant faggotry that is pimpin out a shitty honda civic and impressing their other equally homoerotic asian-guy friends then macking on some ho's. Tikker is also correct most of them have GF when they are married.

Personally if my company fails I think I am going to move back to Japan and slang my ass for buku bucks taking care of all the lonely japanese housewives. That would be the life. Many japanese women are actually desperate enough to pay for services from a man. Its really a great country.
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Postby Harrison » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:07 pm

To Japan!
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Postby Mop » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:08 pm

You wont sleep with a singular woman, why do you need to go to japan to stil not sleep with women?
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Postby Harrison » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:22 pm

To cuddle of course.
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Postby Captain Insano » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:22 pm

Everytime I have sex with a japanese woman I feel like I am paying tribute to all the soldiers that fell during double-u double-u two, and consequently treat them very harshly.
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Postby araby » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:27 pm

I wondered about this. The Japanese are very sexual people. They are kinky and they have been known to be a very sexual culture for a long time including a lot of acceptable homosexual activity.

I think that men (and women) become desenstitized, for lack of a better word, when they expose themselves to so many sexual possibilities/favors/satisfactions so freely. Not that people should prudish by any means, of course I'm quite the freak. What I mean is that it seems as though it's been acceptable all this time, and I can see how the sex drive within a marriage can die quickly if it's acceptable for him to sleep with other women.

What I gathered from the article is that the women are saying, fuck this, and you and I'm not putting up with this shit. Hooray for the Japanese catching up on the "chick rebellion" or first feminist movement~
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Postby Harrison » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:32 pm

Holy shit is that thought deranged and wrong Araby.

"The women who come to see me love their husbands and aren't looking for a divorce," he told the Guardian. "The problem is that their husbands lose interest in sex or don't want sex from the start. Many men think of their wives as substitute mothers, not as women with emotional and sexual needs."
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Postby Diabolik » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:40 pm

Araby wrote:I wondered about this. The Japanese are very sexual people. They are kinky and they have been known to be a very sexual culture for a long time including a lot of acceptable homosexual activity.

I think that men (and women) become desenstitized, for lack of a better word, when they expose themselves to so many sexual possibilities/favors/satisfactions so freely. Not that people should prudish by any means, of course I'm quite the freak. What I mean is that it seems as though it's been acceptable all this time, and I can see how the sex drive within a marriage can die quickly if it's acceptable for him to sleep with other women.

What I gathered from the article is that the women are saying, fuck this, and you and I'm not putting up with this shit. Hooray for the Japanese catching up on the "chick rebellion" or first feminist movement~


My understanding is that they are very frank about sex, but there is definitely a time and a place for it (except the fucking subway... that shit's just WRONG).
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Postby labbats » Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:57 pm

Diabolik wrote:
Araby wrote:I wondered about this. The Japanese are very sexual people. They are kinky and they have been known to be a very sexual culture for a long time including a lot of acceptable homosexual activity.

I think that men (and women) become desenstitized, for lack of a better word, when they expose themselves to so many sexual possibilities/favors/satisfactions so freely. Not that people should prudish by any means, of course I'm quite the freak. What I mean is that it seems as though it's been acceptable all this time, and I can see how the sex drive within a marriage can die quickly if it's acceptable for him to sleep with other women.

What I gathered from the article is that the women are saying, fuck this, and you and I'm not putting up with this shit. Hooray for the Japanese catching up on the "chick rebellion" or first feminist movement~


My understanding is that they are very frank about sex, but there is definitely a time and a place for it (except the fucking subway... that shit's just WRONG).


Obviously you've never seen "Turd Smugglers XVI - The Subway Connection - Konichiwawawawow!"
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Postby Captain Insano » Thu Apr 07, 2005 12:18 am

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Diabolik wrote:
Araby wrote:I wondered about this. The Japanese are very sexual people. They are kinky and they have been known to be a very sexual culture for a long time including a lot of acceptable homosexual activity.

I think that men (and women) become desenstitized, for lack of a better word, when they expose themselves to so many sexual possibilities/favors/satisfactions so freely. Not that people should prudish by any means, of course I'm quite the freak. What I mean is that it seems as though it's been acceptable all this time, and I can see how the sex drive within a marriage can die quickly if it's acceptable for him to sleep with other women.

What I gathered from the article is that the women are saying, fuck this, and you and I'm not putting up with this shit. Hooray for the Japanese catching up on the "chick rebellion" or first feminist movement~


My understanding is that they are very frank about sex, but there is definitely a time and a place for it (except the fucking subway... that shit's just WRONG).


Obviously you've never seen "Turd Smugglers XVI - The Subway Connection - Konichiwawawawow!"


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Postby Diabolik » Thu Apr 07, 2005 12:32 am

In Nagasaki, they like bukkake.
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Postby Jennay » Thu Apr 07, 2005 3:20 am

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Postby Tikker » Thu Apr 07, 2005 8:43 am

I'd thought about moving to Japan if for no other reason than my very average canadian wang would be known as Cockzilla to the Japanese women
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Postby Captain Insano » Thu Apr 07, 2005 9:16 am

Tikker wrote:I'd thought about moving to Japan if for no other reason than my very average canadian wang would be known as Cockzilla to the Japanese women



bwahahahah....


except in japan they would call it: KOK-ZIH-WA!
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