Dating co-workers. Disaster or possible?

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Postby Harrison » Tue May 10, 2005 10:33 am

ralfmacchio wrote:
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ralfmacchio wrote:Even the closest married couple would probably kill each other under those circumstances.


Then why in the flying holy fuck did they get married?

I disagree completely.



Your opinion on women/marriage/sex means about as much as Martha Stewart's on nuclear fusion scrote-itch.


Go get laid by something other than miss 5 fingers and come back and talk.


:rolleyes: Says the man who has been 16 year olds for more than a decade. Grow the fuck up.
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Postby Stabfase » Tue May 10, 2005 10:47 am

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maybe you two smacktards should meet on the blacktop after school and slap it out.
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Postby Captain Insano » Tue May 10, 2005 12:40 pm

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Postby Rust » Tue May 10, 2005 1:08 pm

ralfmacchio wrote:Next, don't listen to Harrison. Women aren't worth shit compared to money. Focus on the job and focus on your bankrole.

Money is the most important thing on this planet and the equation below should help clear up a few things....


Money=power=respect=sluts beggin for your nuts on their chin.

So what should you do? Don't waste time fucking girls at work. It only leads to drama. Work on getting more money and a promotion.



Ralf is wise. If you have a messy breakup with a co-worker, work becomes like hell. All her friends will turn on you to boot.

Sure it can work, but the downside potential and ensuing pain is huge.

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Postby kaharthemad » Tue May 10, 2005 1:58 pm

Martrae wrote:Kahar and I worked at the same place for over 6 months and had no problems. We were in different areas tho.

Let me point out the type of office we worked at.

I was the Network admin for a large chain of smut stores in the Atlanta area.

Sex was our business.
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Postby Agrajag » Tue May 10, 2005 1:59 pm

My father gave me some sound advice when I told him I was thinking about dating a woman I worked with. It was this: "Never dip your pen in the company ink!"

I didn't follow that advice with this woman and after I broke up with her, it was awkward to be at work. I do follow that advice, now.
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Postby kaharthemad » Tue May 10, 2005 2:03 pm

Rust wrote:
Ralf is wise. If you have a messy breakup with a co-worker, work becomes like hell. All her friends will turn on you to boot.

Sure it can work, but the downside potential and ensuing pain is huge.

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Stick with the Ralf plan. Stay away from the women at work. Me and Martrae were one of those odd chances that worked out. Most times Husband and wife/boyfriend/girlfriend coworkers dont work out. they will end up killing each other. Trust me work will become hell once the glamour is over.
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Postby kaharthemad » Tue May 10, 2005 2:04 pm

Agrajag wrote:My father gave me some sound advice when I told him I was thinking about dating a woman I worked with. It was this: "Never dip your pen in the company ink!"

I didn't follow that advice with this woman and after I broke up with her, it was awkward to be at work. I do follow that advice, now.


See your dad is as wise as I am :) atleast on this point.
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Postby Captain Insano » Tue May 10, 2005 2:20 pm

Rust wrote:
ralfmacchio wrote:Next, don't listen to Harrison. Women aren't worth shit compared to money. Focus on the job and focus on your bankrole.

Money is the most important thing on this planet and the equation below should help clear up a few things....


Money=power=respect=sluts beggin for your nuts on their chin.

So what should you do? Don't waste time fucking girls at work. It only leads to drama. Work on getting more money and a promotion.



Ralf is wise.
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... and hell just became a hockey rink with flying pig cheerleaders :wink:
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Postby Captain Insano » Tue May 10, 2005 2:25 pm

kaharthemad wrote:
Rust wrote:
Ralf is wise. If you have a messy breakup with a co-worker, work becomes like hell. All her friends will turn on you to boot.

Sure it can work, but the downside potential and ensuing pain is huge.

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Stick with the Ralf plan. Stay away from the women at work. Me and Martrae were one of those odd chances that worked out. Most times Husband and wife/boyfriend/girlfriend coworkers dont work out. they will end up killing each other. Trust me work will become hell once the glamour is over.



Yah you hit on a big big point... IF the relationship doesn't work out... It is fucking annoying/miserable seeing the person every single day. I had to deal with a situation like this once a long time ago.

One time I let this slutty but cute Marine girl take a ride on my "Bo-staff" and I just happened to work with her... Well after a few times of shaggin I got rid of her because she really was just a ho-bag and shit went way downhill from there.

On a good day she made me ask myself:

Is Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a bitch?
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Postby Diekan » Tue May 10, 2005 2:26 pm

wait a minute you're saying martae working at a porn store???? ohh do tell!
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Postby Yamori » Tue May 10, 2005 2:35 pm

My parents have worked at home together for 20 years. They don't seem to have any problems spending that much time together. Seems like it depends on the person. :dunno:

Thats about all I can say on relationships. I know little of this subject. ><
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Postby Captain Insano » Tue May 10, 2005 8:06 pm

Diekan wrote:wait a minute you're saying martae working at a porn store???? ohh do tell!



Yah... I got very jealous everytime she had to go in back and give a 5 dollar lapdance to every dirty old man that came into the pr0n store.
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Postby runamonk » Tue May 10, 2005 11:28 pm

Don't shit where you eat. That being said, I married a coworker. :P
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Postby kaharthemad » Wed May 11, 2005 7:38 am

Diekan wrote:wait a minute you're saying martae working at a porn store???? ohh do tell!

At the time I was a Network admin there. The place was rather interesting, for starts the Owner was in jail for 1st degree homicide(killed his mother in law, not sure if this should be a crime) and was running the company from prison on his afternoon phone calls. The President of the company was arrested for the biggest drug bust in Atlanta history total of 60kilos, and the vice president...well he was the nephew of the owner and his wife was on of the store managers.
We promote family values here, almsot as much as the family

Hell for the first 3 months the President would not talk to me because he thought i was a narc.

They needed someone who was drug free(killed everyone in the store at the time save me)and could count with out taking his or her shoes off for inventory(also everyone save me). Martrae being inteligent and actually knowledgable in inventory control was perfect for the job.


She got her education in drug items, dildos, and latex.

Those living in Atlanta might know this chain of stores....Starship Entreprises of Atlanta.
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Postby Captain Insano » Wed May 11, 2005 11:14 am

hahahah.... that is exactly what I would expect in Atlanta.
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Postby Martrae » Wed May 11, 2005 11:22 am

Yeah, it was quite a place. With all the theft, mismanagement, drugs and idiots that went thru there it's amazing it's still open. Amazingly, we did manage to come away with a couple of really good friends, tho.

The owner never would talk to me....I think Kahar intimidated him. If I answered the phones and no one else was available he would hang up and call again later. This is the same man that grilled the girl that made sales labels for over an hour about what everyone in the office had done that day.
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