Darcler wrote:P.S. I would take every second I was paying for at day care. I love Hailey, but I want to sit alone every once in awhile. That is why i cherish Saturdays. My mom takes her for the night.
When they're gone all day from 7-4 (and decide to work about 50% of the time) and then you go into work from 5-10 pm and they're asleep when you get home?
Kizzy wrote:He never paid one penny for anything for them, unless it was the occasional pizza. The rest, I assure you is an exaggeration. He is trying to get under my skin, and make himself look E-cool. Good for him, maybe it will help himland another internet chick.
Yeah, i mean I only paid exactly what we agreed to split the funds as. Oh I'm such a jerk for paying what we agreed upon!
Glad to know money is more important to you than love is.
Darcler wrote:P.S. I would take every second I was paying for at day care. I love Hailey, but I want to sit alone every once in awhile. That is why i cherish Saturdays. My mom takes her for the night.
Honestly, I wouldn't. I don't even like the idea of bringing my kids to day care as it is. My older son gets his dad forgetting to spend time with him or passing on taking him enough, I won't make him feel like his other parent doesn't want to spend time with him. Just my opinion, not trying to insult.
My job is Hailey. I dont work. I would love to have a break.
Matt would never forget to get her, put her in there for the sake of doing it, he works and he looks forward to coming home to her. I go stir crazy if I am with anyone for too long.
Not saying I dont love her, but a break is nice. Too bad we are poor.
My son loves day care. He gets to play with the other kids his own age instead of watching TV all day. I could leave him with my friend now while I am at work all day or at school for free, but I prefer to pay to have him with kids his own age.
Taxx, I have already forgiven you before for your shortcomings, but if you need me to do so again, I will. I don't hate you at all, I just feel you made some bad choices, and needed some time to grow up. I am sure you will, one day fall in REAL love, and get married and make babies. I hope you do. You deserve your own children, and not two that are not yours but you feel burdened with.
Zanchief wrote:
Harrison wrote:I'm not dead
Fucker never listens to me. That's it, I'm an atheist.
Oh I know the feeling Darc, that's why I say no insult intended, I do get small breaks here and there - I stay at home with my boys too, it's a hard job, and I think my comment was more because my older son's dad is retarded in forgetting etc. which makes him (my son) harder to part with.
I feel so bad for my youngest because his father has no interest in him. He only takes him every other weekend because I threaten to sue him if he doesn't. The sad part is he so wants to be accepted in his father's eyes. It makes me very upset.
Zanchief wrote:
Harrison wrote:I'm not dead
Fucker never listens to me. That's it, I'm an atheist.
Since you oh so love to use the tired old pot kettle remark then I'll use it~
Speaking of bad choices, you've been dragging your children around the country. They haven't even seen a remotely stable environment for any more than a year at a time. Yet you tell ME to grow up? Sometimes I think that I cared more about your kids than you did.
And of burdens? You treat your own children like burdens. When you were with me you hardly saw them, you don't deny not working full time, you don't deny not picking them up from day care, you don't deny that I watched your own children more than you did, you don't deny that you saw people at your work places more than you saw your own children (and me) yet say *I* am the one who felt burdened? Give me a break.
Kizzy wrote:I feel so bad for my youngest because his father has no interest in him. He only takes him every other weekend because I threaten to sue him if he doesn't. The sad part is he so wants to be accepted in his father's eyes. It makes me very upset.
Then let the dumbass dad go. It's not going to be good in the long run to force him to spend time with his child if he doesn't want to. If I had the option between the situation I have now and my son's dad left and I got no child support, fine he could f'in leave. Better than disappointing my son when his dad doesn't give him his time love etc.
Why with him like that would you want to leave your son with him anyway? And don't say because it's his dad.
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Foutty wrote:I took the class, it was excellent. Well worth the money. Still looking for a bike, checking craigslist daily. Will check out that link Runamonk, thanks
Crotch rockets just dont appeal to me, nothing against them, or those who ride them.
I want the new Suzuki M50, black, blacked out frame and rims. Looks smokin. I just want to get some experience under my belt before I drop $5k.
The class was awesome. My wife and I took it at the same time had a blast doing it. Most of the folks at the link are modders so you'll see some custom stuff and alot of stock stuff.
That suzuki is a great choice one I looked at myself.
Kizzy wrote:I feel so bad for my youngest because his father has no interest in him. He only takes him every other weekend because I threaten to sue him if he doesn't. The sad part is he so wants to be accepted in his father's eyes. It makes me very upset.
I had the same experience with one of my Ex's. Her son didn't know any father figure because the guy was worthless and could never hold down a job. He never paid his support or anything, which didn't really matter to me I just wanted him to spend some time with his kid, it was just too much ask from the lazy fucker.
Some guys just can't handle spending some time with their own damn kids.
I would wake her up to play with me some.
