I don't know why I am blogging about this here

Insanityfair · Post by **Insanityfair** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:08 am

Nothing from his side sounds genuine. He won't leave till you get a better job and wants you to move out by him...because you should have to do everything? You already have two kids, don't invite the third back.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:12 am

Your kids haven't had a stable environment in 3 years. Even thinking about going back is asking for more of the same. What your kids need more than you and him together is a stable environment. Hell Trystin can't even make friends because he's not in one area long enough to do that. My BEST friend I have is from second grade. Trystin is being robbed of those years of his life and if you wait too much longer the same will happen with Kael.

Adivina · Post by **Adivina** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 10:22 am

I agree with Taxx, I think he knows more of the situation too seeing as he was a part of it. You need to think about your children right now, truely think, doing this will just add more chaos to their lives. What you need to do right now is work on making a stable home for your children, you don't need your ex to do that.

Post by **DangerPaul** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 11:43 am

Hang on, Tucker is being serious AND nice to Janet???? Anyone's feet cold, I think hell just froze over.

Ouchyfish · Post by **Ouchyfish** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 12:02 pm

DangerPaul wrote:Hang on, Tucker is being serious AND nice to Janet???? Anyone's feet cold, I think hell just froze over.

Reminds me of when the White Spy and Black Spy collaborated against the Grey spy.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 12:26 pm

No, her kids never did anything wrong, they're just kids. I don't want to see them hurt just because of dumb mistakes. Yeah, I love kids.

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 1:52 pm

Too much nice in this thread.

All of my best friends were made in the 8th - 9th grade range.

Before that friends didn't mean much of anything to me.

Minrott · Post by **Minrott** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 1:56 pm

Really? My 2 or 3 very best friends I've known since kindergarden. Hell they were at my 6th birthday party.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 1:57 pm

Harrison wrote::ugh:

Too much nice in this thread.

All of my best friends were made in the 8th - 9th grade range.

Before that friends didn't mean much of anything to me.

That explains a lot about you.

Ouchyfish · Post by **Ouchyfish** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 1:58 pm

I had one best friend for 13 years. We were like brothers. He died in 1996 in a car accident. I think I would have rather have moved around and done without. Best friends to me are like "best men" in a wedding. It shouldn't be plural. It's like the Highlander.

Minrott · Post by **Minrott** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:00 pm

That's not true. There are maybe 6 or 7 people I even consider "friends" the rest are aquaintences. The 3 guys I'm talking about I've known for 20 years. They're like brothers, and if you can have three brothers, you can have 3 best friends.

Ouchyfish · Post by **Ouchyfish** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:08 pm

Personal opinion/feelings I guess.

:dunno:

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:08 pm

I have 4-5 people I consider friends. The rest are as Minrott said.

One of those 4-5 are my girlfriend, she's been there before all of them.

As a result of our relationship I believe I've lost 2-3 of my "friends" as they were once called I guess.

All of them were made in that 8th-9th grade range.

I moved around a lot as a child as well.

My only benefit was that my parents were still together and I never had to deal with that as a child like all of the rest of my friends on top of moving around. (not one of my friends have their parents together except my girlfriend's)

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:10 pm

Tacks wrote:
Harrison wrote::ugh:

Too much nice in this thread.

All of my best friends were made in the 8th - 9th grade range.

Before that friends didn't mean much of anything to me.

That explains a lot about you.

I don't know what you're trying to imply.

When you're young, you don't have important things friends are usually required for.

I had "friends" before that age. They were temporary and I don't hang out with any of them anymore for whatever reason. My real friends proved their worth through rough times and are still around now. THOSE are friends, not people you've just been around a long time.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:13 pm

I have a brotherhood.

We have been friends for 10+ years, we have our petty fights, someone screws around with another's girlfriend/family member, move out of state, but we all keep in touch and hang out together on a regular basis.

Big event of this year is going to be doing a paintball event in our hometown where we get together and bring some other friends/family/coworkers with us and go after one another. This is the Sunday after Thanksgiving. Three years ago, we buried a little brother who burned himself alive and promised we wouldn't let that happen to any of the rest of us.

Tragedy forms ties that are unbreakable.

-Adam

Spacewoman Spiff · Post by **Spacewoman Spiff** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:35 pm

I've been best friends with my best friend since 1st grade. She still likes to tease me about the time that I wanted to wear lipstick but didn't have lipstick because I was 6, so I painted my lips with nail polish.

Or the time when she pissed me off so I beat her with my umbrella and ripped her new pants. Her mom wasn't too thrilled with that.

Or when we decided to put chapstick on our eyelids and the teacher thought we had pinkeye and sent us home.

We are so awesome. :boots:

Adivina · Post by **Adivina** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:48 pm

No, her kids never did anything wrong, they're just kids. I don't want to see them hurt just because of dumb mistakes. Yeah, I love kids.

Times like this make me remember that you are a decent person beneath it all

Best friends... eh, I have a lot of friends that I have had since elementary school, but right now everyone is at different colleges in different states, so we don't really talk or see eachother at all anymore.

At college I am one of the few girls in my major, so my friends are pretty much all guys, but Aryy says they only want in my pants, so who knows how good friends they really are. LOL

That leaves Aryy

I firmly believe in order to be in a relationship with someone they also have to be your best friend.

Trielelvan · Post by **Trielelvan** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 4:16 pm

AdivinaDarkfyre wrote:I firmly believe in order to be in a relationship with someone they also have to be your best friend.

Truer words have seldom been spoken.

araby · Post by **araby** » Wed Oct 26, 2005 6:17 pm

I've become attracted to my best friend and want to do her but it would probably mess things up.

My oldest best friend moved away, we were very silly together. We used to say "om nom nom prom prom prom" after everything we said so people would think we were crazy. We listened to Heart and Stevie Nicks records over and over and danced like we were strippers.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 3:52 am

My best friend I've known since..uh...6th grade I think. That was nearly 10 years ago I guess. We've been inseperable ever since. Well except this one time I tried to get her boyfriend to break up with her, because she was cheating, but she denied all cheating charges and found out I was the reason Adam was mad and stopped talking to me for a couple months.
I lived with her, her parents took temporary guardianship over me for awhile while my mom was being a Super Cunt. Her mom introduces me to someone as her daughter, I call her mom.
One night about 2 1/2 years ago, she got me drunk and was making passes at me. I dont like her and I told her I didnt want to get with her. She got mad and locked me out of the house. I had to sleep it off on top of the van (mexican family, of course there is a van).

Minrott · Post by **Minrott** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 4:30 am

Wait. Her mom made passes at you or your friend did? Either way is cool I just want clarification :o

brinstar · Post by **brinstar** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 6:20 am

Ashly wrote:I've become attracted to my best friend and want to do her but it would probably mess things up but i'm not sure so i'll send brinstar pics of the whole exchange and let him decide

score

Post by **DangerPaul** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 7:35 am

I don't have any friends anymore... they have all left me or I have left them, will someone come hold me please?

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 7:44 am

I will hold you, of course.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 10:22 am

Minrott wrote:Wait. Her mom made passes at you or your friend did? Either way is cool I just want clarification :o

My friend. Sorry for the mix up