oh help

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:18 pm

i strongly dislike my roommate's boyfriend. no concrete reason, i suppose... he just makes me feel negatively towards him somehow.

what do i do?

Phlegm · Post by **Phlegm** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:21 pm

Go kick him in the nuts. It'll make you feel a lot better.

Vincenti · Post by **Vincenti** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:22 pm

Invite him over when she isnt there, fix him a nice meal and spike it with roofies, when he passes out superglue his sack to his leg and superglue his asscheeks together, he won't bother you anymore after that

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:22 pm

>< seriously i want a constructive way to deal with this. i don't want to make things hard for her, he makes her really happy. but at the same time, i hate having him around.

crappy times

Vincenti · Post by **Vincenti** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:25 pm

Seriously it isnt your boyfriend you dont have to deal with him, if you dont like him then go to your room when he visits. Sometimes the simple shit eludes people :dunno:

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:26 pm

and i DO that, but the problem is, our bedrooms are connected by a door and i have to walk through hers to get to mine. being around him is inevitable because i can't just lock myself in my room and never leave.

Tuggan · Post by **Tuggan** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:26 pm

Vincenti wrote: Sometimes the simple shit eludes people

Tae-Bo · Post by **Tae-Bo** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:38 pm

why does he bother you?

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:49 pm

i dunno, he's just kind of a loser. he's 26 years old and still holds the same restaurant job he's had for ten years... his only real hobbies are smoking pot, playing poker, and kissing really loudly. i've actually known him for a really long time--longer than i've known ashlie, even--because we used to work together at the village inn here in hastings. we actually went on a few dates, even, and then his general loserness got to me so i lost interest. he moved to lincoln the summer after my freshman year of college to work at the village inn there, and he called me this summer to see what i was up to and i just so happened to be with ashlie in lincoln visiting joshua, and so we all went to VI to say hi, and i introduced them, and the rest was out of my hands.

maybe it's not so much him that bothers me (which he does bother me, i won't discount that) but maybe the fact that she never has time for our friendship anymore. if he's not here visiting, she's in lincoln visiting him, or she's talking to him on the phone or she's talking to him on MSN. any other time is filled with work and sleep and school. maybe it's just that i miss her.

that and they're all obnoxious, giggly, shriek-y, and PDA-ridden when they're together hehe

Phlegm · Post by **Phlegm** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:51 pm

Basically, you are jealous of him.

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:52 pm

Jealous hater you are.

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:07 pm

ugh i was afraid of that

how do i get rid of it?

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:14 pm

By having a 3some with them, taping it, then posting it on NT.

That or double date with those 2 and Mr. Boyfriend. Then have some mad swinger sex, tape it, then post it on NT.

Seriously, the double date thing is not a bad idea. Also, those times she spends extra with her new guy, spend your time with Mr. Boyfriend. When you make plans with her, make em ahead of time.

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:22 pm

there are only two problems to that:

mr. boyfriend doesn't really like him either (really, he's kind of creepy hehe)

and

mr. boyfriend lives in lincoln and is rarely in hastings except on weekends... usually not when brandon is around, so generally when brandon is here i'm left ashlie-less. that's not the case so much when joshua is here because i somehow still manage to spend a lot of time with ashlie, especially since she gets along well with joshua.

Post by **Martrae** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:33 pm

Weren't you the one complaining about your friends not liking mr. boyfriend?

Tuggan · Post by **Tuggan** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:37 pm

indeed she was. everything in this post is the same crap she was whining about in the other.

straight up retardation comin outta this thread, women are pyschotic.

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:47 pm

different friends...and the real difference is, i would never EVER tell ashlie that i don't like her boyfriend. i know how happy he makes her, and he treats her really well, so that's good enough for me. i will just internally stew over all this stuff until i figure out how to deal with it. it helps to have it pointed out that i'm just jealous though. now i know it's more or less my problem, not hers or his.

but yes, woman logic is the worst thing in the world. sorry for partaking in it so blatantly.

brinstar · Post by **brinstar** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 10:57 pm

that sleazeball is older than me? jeez

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 11:02 pm

You should fuck Ashlie's boyfriend behind her back and when she catches you tell her "I did it for us!".

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 11:03 pm

yeah he turned 26 in september :ugh:

and ashlie is 19

sleazeball = good description

Goose_Man · Post by **Goose_Man** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 11:05 pm

Here is a thought.

Don't worry about it.

Tae-Bo · Post by **Tae-Bo** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 11:05 pm

try to organize and make girl only plans with ashlie maybe??? without trying to insinuate that you want that time because you dont like her bf of course

i dunno i aint got nothin but if it's just because you dont like that you can't hang out with your friend anymore because he's around maybe try to make plans wit her when he won't be around or somethin

leah · Post by **leah** » Thu Nov 03, 2005 11:27 pm

thanks duck <3

Post by **Lueyen** » Fri Nov 04, 2005 12:32 am

Take her to Pioneer Village, it's west of you on highway 6 and 34 near Minden, besides the driving time you can spend a day there and still not see everything, and that way he can't drop in on your girl time with her.

leah · Post by **leah** » Fri Nov 04, 2005 12:50 am

hehe pioneer village

actually i've wanted to go to stuhr museum a lot lately