Need an outsider's advice

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:07 am

We talked about it last night, and I brought up Vonk's idea, and he said he didn't want me near him. So I brought up the ninja thing, and while he did laugh, he also said no way. He told me he had already taken care of it, and since he hasn't left my side since he found out, I can only guess it was one of the phone calls he made.

Paulie~ oh. nevermind, you really aren't worth it.

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:10 am

Am I Paulie? I don't get the reference at all...

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:11 am

Zanchief, you are not Paulie, Paulie is Paulie, I learned along time ago not to respond to your baiting, run along now.

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:15 am

The Kizzy wrote:I learned along time ago not to respond to your baiting

You just did, sucker.

Post by **DangerPaul** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:16 am

She fears the ownage I could release on her, so she ignores you and neverminds me.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:24 am

Yes, I phear you. Keep thinking that.

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:32 am

Watch out Paul, her boyfriend could make a phone call.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:34 am

No, he isn't worth it. He can own me with shit that happened over a year ago that this whole board already knows about, I really am threatened.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:02 am

Move away. Move far far away.

That's the best advice I can think of.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:03 am

He's being a little bitch today, I am seriously thinking about it.

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:04 am

Pee on him

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:04 am

I don't even want to be near him. I think I should just go buy a pack of smokes, then I won't be so damn bitchy.

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:09 am

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:13 am

The sad part is some people actually think this is actually something more than Kizzy looking for people's attention on a boring day of work.

I guaranfuckingtee this isn't true. Keep giving her advice though, she really needs it.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:15 am

her sisters boyfriend (now husband) and I and my boyfriend would go out and get drunk on Kentucky Deluxe and play mailbox baseball.

Chris was always trouble, and he ended up getting his girlfriend pregnant, and they got married. My boyfriend's mom took custody of their first born becuase they were living in a tent. THis is about when I left town.

Chris just got out of prison for molesting his underage cousin. Chris and Chrissy are still togehter and she is very in love with him, to where she never visits her family 30 minutes away because her husband can't come because he is on an ankle bracelet.

Come to find out, Chrissy has been sneaking her girls down to see their Dad, and he has in fact taken every opportunity to molest them

Now my boyfriend wants to go to Chris's house and beat the shit out of him or worse. His parents think that this is a great thing to stand up for family, and on the one hand I can understand. But on the other hand, we are having a baby in Feburary, we are getting married next summer, and I don't want to raise Another baby on my own while he sits in prison for assault or even murder.

...And I have never seen redneckery more personified as I have in the above quotes. You guys are perfect candidates for Jerry Springer. I would tell you to leave but now you are pregnant so that option is probably an impossibility.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:19 am

My boyfriend is far from a redneck, his family, on the other hand, well I can't debate that. ALthough, today, he really is getting on my very last nerve.

I don't think moving away altogether isn't a possibility.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:22 am

How many kids does this make now? If you want two pieces of advice, here they are:

Move away
Start using condom's or get on birth control

I'm not trying to be a dick but if you continue to live in the situation you are in, you will soon find your life spiraling horribly out of control (if it isn't already).

Post by **Martrae** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:26 am

Tell him to go away for a bit....or go yourself and take a nice long walk or something.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:28 am

Let him kill the douche bag and go to jail. At least you'll be free of his (obviously bad) influence. Then move to the north east like normal people.

OOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooohhh I love taking shots at the south.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:28 am

Sad part is, we used condoms and pills. Its not like we weren't extra careful. Its not like I get knocked up everytime I turn around. This makes my 3rd child, and they are all at least 5 years apart. That sounds better in my head than it does on paper.

Why would I move away, I moved here to be closer to my family.

What situation would that be? IT happens, people get pregnant, even when they aren't trying to, so the choices that I see are I can a.) have an abortion and get it taken care of, and crush him and his family because he tried for 7 years with his ex wife and they couldn't have one. or b.) Have the baby. ANd I don't know about you, but I am pretty sure I have made my opinion on abortion pretty loud and clear.

Its not a bad situation I live in, he has a GREAT job, makes a ton of money, he is awesome ot my son, and to me. We just bought a house, I only have to woprk part time and that is if I really want to. So, again, tell me what situation I am in. We would have had a child sooner or later. I was thinking in 2 more years, obviously, the Lord above wanted it done now.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:30 am

Oh, and while we are on the subject, I am going to sue the doctor who did my surgery when I was 18. He said I couldn't have kids easily, and BAMnow I have 2 and one on the way.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:34 am

Its not a bad situation I live in, he has a GREAT job, makes a ton of money, he is awesome ot my son, and to me. We just bought a house, I only have to woprk part time and that is if I really want to. So, again, tell me what situation I am in. We would have had a child sooner or later. I was thinking in 2 more years, obviously, the Lord above wanted it done now.

Hey you're the one that said:

I don't think moving away altogether isn't a possibility.

So maybe you should answer the question yourself because you seem pretty torn.

And I am drawing my conclusion from what I read in your initial post. It sounds as if you are surrounded by derelicts:

Now my boyfriend wants to go to Chris's house and beat the shit out of him or worse. His parents think that this is a great thing to stand up for family, and on the one hand I can understand.

Not even his parents disagree with the notion of vigilantly justice?

Murder
Molestation
Prision
Ankle Bracelets
Crazy grandparents

I'm just glad I wasn't born in that type of environment.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:36 am

Are you an only child Ginz? Do you have neices or nephews? Every family has the black sheep.

I am torn. The guy is a great guy, but he really gets on my last nerve. It could be because I quit smoking, and I have a VERY Short fuse, or it could be something more.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:40 am

Hey you want advice so I gave you mine. I hope everything turns out for the best.

Post by **Martrae** » Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:45 am

Quit putting up obstacles cuz deep down you're afraid this guy will hurt you too.

My last piece of advice for the day.