WoW has defeated Juls

[Juls]

Need advise.
So i'm a flame starter. That's what you think i am?
It was all good till your WOW came in. World of warcraft.... what's so good about a game? Tell me! To choose a game and not your girlfriend is soo unacceptable. I accepted it cuz i know how important it is but why push me aside? Why ignore me?

Monday : I called you said " B i'm in an instance can't talk..I don't like you wasting your money calling me always"

Tuesday : I called you said "B im having dinner now and after that i got my game"

Wednesday : I messaged, "It's been 3 days since we chat" Your reply "It's only 2"

Thursday : You came on msn! At last! and asked me to call you at 11pm. I was busy at 11.. i called at 11.15pm you tell me you're playing games and can't talk. I asked you when you will finish?Your reply "6am your time"

Friday : SO i got depressed!pissed!Mad! i messaged you " If you love me call me back" your reply was "whats wrong?" writing so many messages there was no answer to my first question.. DO YOU LOVE ME? So i wrote

"You still haven't answered my first question, I guess i know where i stand"

AND YOU NEVER REPLIED SINCE! What's this? You know i'm sad, you know im mad, and you haven't replied.
Its not fun crying yourself to sleep since friday. It's monday now.

What should i do? dad says "if he really wants you he will call you but if you want to lower your dignity cuz you are afraid to lose him, CALL HIM!"

What should i do?

[Harrison]

Tell the prick to go fuck a night elf.

[Trielelvan]

Hon, do yourself a favor and drop his stupid sorry ass right this minute.

Go find yourself someone who will fall crazy in love with you and not live their life around a stupid video game. Eventually, WoW will lose its luster, but it will be replaced by another game. You will run the same circle over and over again.

You are young, beautiful, cute, and have a wonderful personality.
Don't sell yourself short and don't forget your self-worth - you deserve someone who will not ignore you or push you aside for a pixelated universe.

[Juls]

i don't know what i should do.. should i call him? or wait till he calls me.. what if he never calls back? He lives in Denmark i live in Malaysia...i wish i could afford to fly there to bitch slap him but i can't.

I can't sleep, i can't concentrate at work, i can't lose him. Help!

I cant.. i tried and i can't.. am i becoming desperate?

[Trielelvan]

No, you aren't desperate.
You are heartbroken

Call him if you want to. Tell him what the problem is.
But, mark my words, I promise you - even if his words are sweet now, his behaviour will not change for long, if at all, and you will be sucked into this loop over and over again.

[Jay]

You should go on a slut frenzy and fuck like 8 guys that play Lineage II.

Ok seriously, you're in no shape to be in a relationship with a guy let alone one who is miles and miles away if your gonna be that codependant. Do yourself a favor and concentrate on yourself and build on your self esteem.

[Juls]

Thanks all.. but isn't there another way to still keep him? i really can't lose him.. but i'll try. Jay thanks for the great advise

[Dylan]

Play WoW.

[Juls]

Can't i thought about that too.. He plays European Wow. Every cyber cafe in Malaysia is on US WOW. My WOW account is US wow. And also, I don't own a PC or internet connection at home. Can't afford it too.

[Dylan]

Only option left is to go on a killing rampage.

[Harrison]

You should go on a slut frenzy and fuck like 8 guys that play Lineage II.

I rofled

I haven't slept in awhile, so everything is funny.

[Menlaan]

Let's get more background. How long have you been dating? Did you once live in the same place? When things were good, how often did you talk? What percent of the time did he call you?

With what you've said, I think it's probably time to let this one go. Long distance is tough enough to make work when both people are committed to trying. He's clearly not trying. I know it hurts, but all you need is time and you'll get over it.

[Harrison]

Time, or large amounts of alcohol.

[The Kizzy]

It is of my experience that online relationships do not work. Too many people here can attest to that.

Especially if you (And I don't mean this badly) have dependency issues. Trust me, I have been there. I moved across country to be with someone who I thought I was in love with and I realized later I wasn't I just thought I needed to be with someone. It was one of the biggest mistakes I have ever made in my life.

Take some time off. You are such a pretty girl, and you seem to have a great attitude towards life. Go out, and meet someone!!!

[Zanchief]

Especially if you (And I don't mean this badly) have dependency issues. Trust me, I have been there. I moved across country to be with someone who I thought I was in love with and I realized later I wasn't I just thought I needed to be with someone. It was one of the biggest mistakes I have ever made in my life.

OH SNAP!

[The Kizzy]

Quit stirring the drama pot

[Captain Insano]

Juls just start being an indifferent asshole to the guy... he'll come crawling back... I've used the same strategy with girlfriends who get on my nerves and it works like a charm... I can't imagine it not working in reverse.

[Darcler]

Ugh drop him.
This is the same behavior my ex had before he dropped me.
He was stationed in Japan at the time so we were doing the long distance thing.

After awhile, he started blowing me off to play a game or he just wouldnt log on AIM when he was on break from watch. I had revolved my whole life around him and his schedule in Japan and he would just blow me off.

I had(have) dependency issues so I wouldnt recognize this as him blowing me off, I saw it as him just being tired, whatever.
I finally confronted him about it, and he said he was tired of dragging it out just to save my feelings and he dumped me. He's the only guy to ever dump me so I was crushed, I still have sore feelinsg about it now, 3or so years later.

Get rid of him now before you get hurt.

[Zanchief]

Ugh drop him.
This is the same behavior my ex had before he dropped me.
He was stationed in Japan at the time so we were doing the long distance thing.

After awhile, he started blowing me off to play a game or he just wouldnt log on AIM when he was on break from watch. I had revolved my whole life around him and his schedule in Japan and he would just blow me off.

I had(have) dependency issues so I wouldnt recognize this as him blowing me off, I saw it as him just being tired, whatever.
I finally confronted him about it, and he said he was tired of dragging it out just to save my feelings and he dumped me. He's the only guy to ever dump me so I was crushed, I still have sore feelinsg about it now, 3or so years later.

Get rid of him now before you get hurt.

whiner

[Darcler]

I am bitter and I admit it.

[Gargamellow]

yer a sweet girl..but u sound pathetic

stop calling him

let him call you..and if he doesn't...then someone else will

[Darcler]

P.S. Date someone

IN MALAYSIA

[The Kizzy]

yer a sweet girl..but u sound pathetic

stop calling him

let him call you..and if he doesn't...then someone else will

that was a little harsh, I know you have more tact than that

[Zanchief]

If you come to NT for advice, you're already fucked.

[Darcler]

If you come to NT for advice, you're already fucked.

It's true.