Birth father information.

Post by **Lyion** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 12:23 pm

Zanchief wrote:Ginzburgh has such a way with the ladies.

It's inner agnst because he knows eventually his present girlfriend will trade up the ladder, if she isn't already secretly fucking another guy, or some 15 year old at school.

Then he'll be back to fat chicks. :dunno:

Naethyn · Post by **Naethyn** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 12:53 pm

Thats an awsome site

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 1:00 pm

It's inner agnst because he knows eventually his present girlfriend will trade up the ladder, if she isn't already secretly fucking another guy, or some 15 year old at school.

Then he'll be back to fat chicks. Dunno

Says the almost 40 guy with no prospects of a relationship with any substance on the horizon.

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 1:01 pm

*popcorn*

Post by **Martrae** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 1:04 pm

Diekan and Ginzburgh wrote it didn't they?

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 1:53 pm

Ginzburgh wrote:
It's inner agnst because he knows eventually his present girlfriend will trade up the ladder, if she isn't already secretly fucking another guy, or some 15 year old at school.

Then he'll be back to fat chicks. Dunno

Says the almost 40 guy with no prospects of a relationship with any substance on the horizon.

I thought he was married with a new kid :dunno:

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 2:01 pm

Married? Then I stand corrected.

araby · Post by **araby** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 5:48 pm

We're all brothers and sisters in God's eyes.

Tuggan · Post by **Tuggan** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 5:54 pm

are your adopted parents asian? that would be fucking awesome, chinks adopting a white kid.

araby · Post by **araby** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 5:57 pm

"you can go to America, pay big money for a white baby and they don't make you stay in the country or stick around...just take the white baby back and tell your infertile friends too!"

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 9:05 pm

My birth mother is my mom's sister. I've grown up knowning her as my Aunt until I was told who she actually is. Finding that out provided me with one less cousin and a new half brother. She won't give me the information about my birth father though. He has a family with one daughter that don't know I exist. When I eventually find him I'll make the effort to not fuck up his family, but I can't resist the chance to meet yet another half sister of mine (makes 5 lol). Other than that I know nothing about him.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Thu Sep 21, 2006 10:03 pm

How old were you when you found out your aunt was actually your mother?

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Fri Sep 22, 2006 12:06 am

5 or 6? Not exactly sure. I was living in Reno, Nevada at the time.

And no, my adopted parents aren't Asian ;p

Juls · Post by **Juls** » Fri Sep 22, 2006 12:30 am

Mark... i know this story.. but still gives me the headaches

Jazendar · Post by **Jazendar** » Fri Sep 22, 2006 12:47 am

Taxx is fucking his way through NT, this is classic. Watch it women, and Jay, you're next.

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Fri Sep 22, 2006 1:56 am

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Mon Sep 25, 2006 5:13 pm

Whats your birth certificate say?

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Mon Sep 25, 2006 9:07 pm

My birth certificate only has my brith mom's name on it. From what I understand, the only way for me to find out more information about my birth father is either to go to court or get it from my birth mom.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Sep 26, 2006 5:36 pm

Maybe she doesn't know who your father really is because she was a gutter tramp and thats what prompted the whole adoption by family members in the first place?

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Tue Sep 26, 2006 5:40 pm

Gutter-tramp, great word. I shall use it as often as I can.

araby · Post by **araby** » Tue Sep 26, 2006 6:51 pm

10sun wrote:Maybe she doesn't know who your father really is because she was a gutter tramp and thats what prompted the whole adoption by family members in the first place?

ever since the first day this was posted I've replied with this very post or something like it, and have hesitated and changed my mind every time. thank you for having the balls to say what I didn't.

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Tue Sep 26, 2006 11:06 pm

My brother and I pretty much figured out that she must have been a slut back in the day. According to her, she does know who my birth father is. She's the one that told me he has a family with a daughter. She gave me a picture of him when I was 17, and the resemblence was very strong. Unfortunately, I lost that photo years ago. That's proof enough that she knows who he is.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Sep 27, 2006 7:29 am

Ginz...LOL on the Darth Vadar!

Mark,
There are a billion ways to find birth parents all over the internet. :google:

But I would like to add that there could be a reason this is being kept secret. Perhaps she was raped or something and does not wish to disclose that information in an effort to protect you from an ugly truth? Be sure that you will be able to handle whatever comes to you when you beckon blindly.

Markarado · Post by **Markarado** » Wed Sep 27, 2006 9:08 pm

When I was 17 I asked her about my birth father. Actually, she took me out to lunch and asked me if I had any questions. She briefly told me the story. She definately wasn't raped, and there is no ugly truth to hide. She gave me a picture of him (not a mug shot!). Of course it could easily just be a random photo, but she'd have to have searched long and hard to find a guy that looks THAT much like me. The photo was taken when he was 26 years old, and just like me he looked very young for his age.

Even if there is some ugly truth... I'm ready to handle it. Garg, you know of these ways to find this information?

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Wed Sep 27, 2006 10:47 pm

MArk, I am assuming your father was in the military. You can look it up starting there. It may cost some money, but you can get your DNA tested and they can run a match through a computer system and give you a list of possible fathers.