So my recently Ex girlfriend was found dead today by her mom

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 6:50 pm

Do I go to work tomorrow?

Diekan · Post by **Diekan** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:02 pm

Maeya · Post by **Maeya** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:03 pm

Would you be going to a memorial service or wake? Or just taking advantage of the situation to be a bum?

Diekan · Post by **Diekan** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:06 pm

where you at again? marysville, or celina?

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:20 pm

I'm in NJ now, she died in Mt Victory, OH at her mom's house.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:39 pm

Damn, that sux man. :ugh:

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:39 pm

My alibi is airtight mostly.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 7:41 pm

You will probably be called by investigators.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 9:07 pm

I'm taking the day off I think. Finished off my big projects for the week already at work.

Tikker · Post by **Tikker** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 9:40 pm

10sun wrote:Do I go to work tomorrow?

depends on if you did it or not, I guess

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 9:49 pm

Maeya wrote:Would you be going to a memorial service or wake? Or just taking advantage of the situation to be a bum?

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 10:01 pm

Sorry to hear that

araby · Post by **araby** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 11:06 pm

don't go to work tomorrow and then fly or drive whichever you're able to do there on tomorrow or whatever.

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Tue Oct 24, 2006 11:14 pm

Go to work, money is more important than some cockmitton of your past.

Menlaan · Post by **Menlaan** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 6:53 am

Wow, that's awful. What happened?

Spazz · Post by **Spazz** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 7:53 am

Go to work, money is more important than some cockmitton of your past.

Arent you like 17? How would you know what its even like to have an ex let alone one that got killed?

Post by **DangerPaul** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 7:54 am

Is this the stalker? If so, I do not believe your alibi. PM me your Eve info, in case you go to prison. On that note, thank you, I logged on for 30 minutes last night and got my Ferox. Much <3 and sex.

Oh yeah, stay home from work for emotional distress.

Minrott · Post by **Minrott** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 8:36 am

Death as an excuse to miss work is only valid in the case of it being your death or your dogs.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 9:01 am

I am sorry about your friend. I don't know exactly what happened, but I think you should relax and think about your good times with her. I also think this would be a good time to review what is really important to you.

Again, I am sorry for your loss. I don't know your relationship with her family. But it is my opinion that you should show them some compassion if you and she were very close.

kaharthemad · Post by **kaharthemad** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 10:26 am

go to work. what are the circumstances of the death? homcide? OD? too much sex? depending on what the circumstances are best thing to do is to call the PD(if it was foul play) and either either turn yourself in(if you did it) or offer any information you can.

Menlaan · Post by **Menlaan** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 11:00 am

kaharthemad wrote:go to work. what are the circumstances of the death? homcide? OD? too much sex? depending on what the circumstances are best thing to do is to call the PD(if it was foul play) and either either turn yourself in(if you did it) or offer any information you can.

I've watched enough TV shows to know that you should keep your mouth shut! j/k

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:16 pm

Go kill some dragons in WW.

Gypsiyee · Post by **Gypsiyee** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:32 pm

whoa, wow

ClakarEQ · Post by **ClakarEQ** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:59 pm

How "ex" was she? I mean if this was like 6 months ago, I'd say fuck it, go to work, if this was a couple months ago or she was a frequent fling, then you shoudl rethink it and possibly attend the funeral.

Another valuable tid-bit to know is for how long you dated?
Was the break up good or bad?

Regardless, if you had feelings for her, then you have my condolesnces(sp).

Just know for most religions death is a good thing as it brings you your final step to the end all objective. I've always liked how the O'leans folks "celebrate" death.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Wed Oct 25, 2006 2:10 pm

We broke up in the middle of September when I found out about my new job which required me to relocate. Prior to that, we had been living together and she kept living at my house until just a few weeks ago.

The breakup was bad for her, she was a very dependant person who had a past of drug and alcohol abuse, but had stopped the drug abuse entirely and kept drinking to a minimum.

After the breakup, she relapsed pretty bad to my understanding. I kept telling her to seek help from a professional as I couldn't provide the help she needed, especially when I was living so far away.

I also asked her to respect my boundaries as she called me on average 7 times a day for 3 weeks immediately following my move.

At this point it looks like it was not a suicide which was what most people thought when I first mentioned it, but instead just an accident with painkillers and alcohol. I was told that the autopsy has not been completed yet and probably will not be for another week or so and so the funeral has been put off...

Her family is blaming me for this. I just got off the phone from getting a full update as to whats been happening.

-Adam

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