I'm dating a new girl...

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Sat Nov 18, 2006 10:24 pm

I think at her age (which is around mine) you should know if you love someone in 3 months.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:15 am

I don't think love is on a timer.

Spazz · Post by **Spazz** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:17 am

And that kizzy is why no one can stay together. No one knows each other before they make the long term.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:21 am

spazz wrote:And that kizzy is why no one can stay together. No one knows each other before they make the long term.

Uh... I lived with my ex-wife for a year before we got engaged. Then I found out a couple months after we were married that she was bangin some other guy on the side. Like I said... love is not on a timer.

Spazz · Post by **Spazz** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:25 am

Your right but you gotta better chance takin the time and doin it right than rushin. You shoulda chopped her fuckin neck bone mindia." I DIDNT DO ITT BUT IF I DID THIS IS HOW IWOULDA DONE IT "

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:36 am

spazz wrote:Your right but you gotta better chance takin the time and doin it right than rushin. You shoulda chopped her fuckin neck bone mindia." I DIDNT DO ITT BUT IF I DID THIS IS HOW IWOULDA DONE IT "

haha OJ style. I hate that guy. I know he can't be re-tried in court if he confesses based on the "double-jeopardy" rule, but I heard on a radio show that he can be convicted in Federal court on a loophole to that rule. Oh, and you're right about having a better chance if you wait a while, but there are always exceptions to the rule.

Spazz · Post by **Spazz** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:39 am

I wish someone would just shoot him

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:56 am

I'm having trust issues right now and it's freaking me out ><

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:04 pm

araby wrote:I'm having trust issues right now and it's freaking me out ><

Unless he was bangin other chicks while on tour, you should trust him.

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:07 pm

actually it has nothing to do with him being on tour, but yah the banging chicks part is almost right. it's a super-long and horrible story that I'd never post here so I have no idea why I even made the comment. I'm just going to go suck for a while...

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:14 pm

you never suck unless it was a sexual thing

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:46 pm

araby wrote:actually it has nothing to do with him being on tour, but yah the banging chicks part is almost right. it's a super-long and horrible story that I'd never post here so I have no idea why I even made the comment. I'm just going to go suck for a while...

Well, if he was having sex with other girls after supposedly committing himself to you, then you have every reason to be angry. And if it is indeed true, then you have every reason to dump him.

Spazz · Post by **Spazz** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:48 pm

But if he didnt do anything lay off. Nothing is more annoying than gettin acused when you love someone.

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:49 pm

spazz wrote:But if he didnt do anything lay off. Nothing is more annoying than gettin acused when you love someone.

Yeah, that too. Girls love band-guys so they will flirt with them, kiss them, hug them, throw themselves at them, etc. but it doesn't mean he's taking girls into the back room and slamming them up against the wall.

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 3:02 pm

Post by **Tossica** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 4:00 pm

Relationshits.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 4:04 pm

i am never getting married

Trielelvan · Post by **Trielelvan** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:21 pm

Girl #1 = ringleader and extremely jealous immature little bitch who used to be able to get attention from your bf and can't anymore because he has you, and won't let up due to amusement gained from drama set upon you.

Girl #2 = sheep following #1's every word and doing her dirtywork so that #1 doesn't look too bad

Girl #3 = see girl #2 + slut hanging for the ride

Regarding the previous drama, I am going to go out on a limb and say that they were purposely trying to setup your boyfriend to look bad. Little psycho chickies with an agenda are willing to do quite a lot to oust the "offending" party and retrieve their prized possession, yanno?

And this:

according to my boyfriends cousin/best friend who is still in contact with girl #1 and her bf (who's in a band with girl #3-girl #2 now lives in NY) they just wish the "drama would stop."

... is a crock of shit. That's pretty good, trying to convince everyone else they are "so tired of the drama omgz" but it's utter bullshit.

Yes, they are that fucked up.

Unless your boyfriend has given you other reason to believe that he's using you or playing you, I think you have nothing to worry about.

That's my take and my 2 cents.

Phlegm · Post by **Phlegm** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:25 pm

Holy craps Triel, you actually read all that?

Jazendar · Post by **Jazendar** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:32 pm

Damn Doctor Phil, Triel has spoken! Ms. Czar of 'right' over here out of a few paragraphs.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:43 pm

Tossica wrote::(

Relationshits.

Agreed.

Trielelvan · Post by **Trielelvan** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 7:34 pm

Phlegm wrote:Holy craps Triel, you actually read all that?

Yes. I am bored sitting here with a sleeping baby in my lap that will NOT let me put him down lol.

Jazendar wrote:Damn Doctor Phil, Triel has spoken! Ms. Czar of 'right' over here out of a few paragraphs.

or I could be completely wrong, her boyfriend is a worthless cheating liar, and she is being played 360.

Keep in mind, my take on the situation has everything to do with exactly what she said, not taking into account the other side's story, and is going on the basis that she was completely truthful and accurate.

... and I could kick Dr.Phil's ass any day. Ask anyone that knows me IRL. :argue:

araby · Post by **araby** » Sun Nov 19, 2006 9:03 pm

triel you're a sweetie for reading all that, baby and all, hehe. it was pretty long.

I respect what you said about it all, it's also been my take on everything from the beginning. thanks for your post, and yah it is only my take on it all. I did try to be fair and include what I did know about them and quoted as accurately as possible. I do realize that there are many other takes on the entire thing. I will say, it felt kind of good to get all that out. I've only been able to vent about it to my best friend.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Mon Nov 20, 2006 1:03 am

Guess you ahev to ask yourself a few questions, but before we get to those, I should say that it is obvious that all the girls are jealous because you are smoking hot, and you have the guy that they obviously want.

First question.........if he did cheat on you so early in the relationship, would you be willing to forgive and work on it? I think that the answer is yes, because it is obvious how you feel about him, and if this is so........then forget about that. Don't let it bother you. But, you should owrry about WOULD HE DO IT AGAIN. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone.

Second question....to what degree are they in your lives now? Is he still in the band with them or their boyfirends? and if so, can't the men do anything to control their women? ANd if your boyfriend is in the band, and theris aren't get them taken off the guest list or something.

You can't let their jealousy run your life. It is their problem not yours. Sounds like you guys should sit and have a talk and try to figure out how to write them off. If the slutbags show up where you guys are, "accidently" trip the whore.

Going to bed, good luck!!!

Narrock · Post by **Narrock** » Mon Nov 20, 2006 3:28 am

I think Scott is telling the truth, and that the girls #1-3 are lying bitches.