I'm dating a new girl...

[Jay]

I would consider fucking my way through an outdated MMORPG message board full of desperate single mothers pretty drastic, but that's just me.

I would consider sending a picture of my erect penis to a married woman a little crazy. (Yes, I know that you didn't know she was married. It doesn't make it any less weird. In fact, maybe it makes you more weird than someone fucking their way through NT.

I think your other comment was funny. I am just saying that you shouldn't throw stones in glass whorehouses.

Psst, Jazendar made that comment. Not I.

[Gargamellow]

i was talking to jay...i saw the j..sorry iw as kinda afk when i wrote that///going to edit it now

[Gargamellow]

LOL might as well not change it


here is what i should have written:

who cares who taxx wants to poke? i don't

[Tacks]

obviously jealous since thats all they can flame me about and go on and on about it~

[Ginzburgh]

[Gypsiyee]

Hasn't Taxx only dated 2 people on this board..? I mean considering the volume of relationships between people who've met in mmo's, I really don't find it that bizarre, myself. I'd hardly classify him as a relationship loser because of it.. I mean, I'm thinking if he's going to be in that group certainly there has to be a better reason.. I mean he *did* date kizzy. (omg I'm kidding kiz, but someone was bound to throw something about you in there sometime, I figured I'd beat them to the punch <3)

[Ginzburgh]

Yes and the fact that Tacks thinks we're jealous is hysterical to say the least. He claims to have had sex with only three people and two of them are from this message board.

What a waste of a man in his 20s.

[Gypsiyee]

I don't think the number of women you've slept with is relevant to how great at relationships you are.. in fact, I'd go so far to say having sex with excess amounts of women would make you even *less* qualified to speak on relationships. I also don't think it's a "waste" to not whore yourself out just because you can and it seems like the age to do it. I've only been with 4 people, 1 a one night stand with a friend and 2 of them I met through EQ.. guess that makes me a big loser too.

I dunno Ginz.. that's a kind of mentality I haven't heard since high school really.

[Ginzburgh]

It's a regional mentality.

99% of the people in my area, both girls and guys between the age of 20-28(ish) have NO hankering to "settle down". rofl.

Most people around here find their wives/husbands when they are 30+. Until then, it's the dating game.

Take you for example, you're a young girl and you already have kid(s). I, nor could any of my friends even conceive (no pun intended) of having a child(ren) right now.

I'm 28 and just found "the right one" about a year ago. So I am an early bloomer.



And my post in regards to taxx's wasting his 20's is commonly referred to as an "opinion".

[Arlos]

Gypsiyee has kids? Did I miss something?

Oh, and judging someone a "waste" based on how many different people they've fucked is a juvenile and high-schoolish attitude at best, even if it IS an "Opinion", and I'm about the last person you'd find defending Taxx.

-Arlos

[Ginzburgh]

I just assumed that the kid in her avatar was hers.

You know what they say about assuming, If I'm wrong I guess I'm as "ass"! rofl!

[Ginzburgh]

Gypsiyee has kids? Did I miss something?

Oh, and judging someone a "waste" based on how many different people they've fucked is a juvenile and high-schoolish attitude at best, even if it IS an "Opinion".

No wonder I like Laguna Beach so much.

[Arlos]

Pic Title: Me and my niece

-Arlos

[Jay]

Gypsiyee doesn't have kids. Maybe nieces and nephews but no kids. That or she's been lying to me for years.

[Gypsiyee]

Yeah, that's my niece =p not mine, I just borrow her and give her back! Hell if I want kids yet.

[Jay]

Just lemme know when

[Tikker]

I've only been with 4 people, 1 a one night stand with a friend and 2 of them I met through EQ.. guess that makes me a big loser too.

names, details and video if you have it, please~

[Ginzburgh]

You'll have to excuse me, I was leaving work when I made my last post and was unable to address the issue properly.

I think that the reason most people get divorced is because they marry too young. Most women out there have been planning their big wedding day since they were 10 years old. As a result, I think they are more caught up with the wedding and the idea of being married than being in love with the person they are suppose to spend the rest of their lives with. A couple years into it they realize they made a mistake and they get a divorce.

I don't know about you guys but I want to reduce my chance of divorce by any means necessary. If that means playing the field for awhile until you are old (and wise) enough to know what you want in a partner, you'll be better off in the long run.

I don't think there is anything juvenile or high school about that. There is no need to rush into the family thing, know yourself first, people are living 80-100 years, it's a long road.

That's just my opinion, some people are different and want to rush right into a family right out of high school. Maybe they'll live with their partner their whole lives and be happy and I am glad for them. Although, In this day and age, the case that those little love stories actually work, are few and far between.

[Jay]

I would agree but moreso marry too soon than too young. According to this: http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=363986 which is taken from a government page, marriages of people under 20 have a stronger chance of surviving than of those between ages 20-24, however it's also not just black and white like divorce or not. Sometimes it's no divorce, but the 2 married people live together miserably.

[Arlos]

There's nothing juvenile or high school about wanting to delay marriage until you're absolutely sure about it. I think most everyone of Gen-X or later either had split parents or had multiple friends who did, and as a result are generally much more careful about getting it right the first time.

However, you don't have to be a slutmonkey and fuck eveyrthing that moves just to avoid marriage. There's a HUGE gulf between calling someone a "waste" because they've not fucked around with mass numbers of women and wanting to be careful about settling down and making a relationship permanent.

I know for me, I never had much interest in one-night stands, especially with someone I didn't know. Sure, yeah, I did it once, and honestly, it wasn't anywhere near as enjoyable as sex with someone I actually had some kind of emotional or personal attachment to was. I know I don't consider my 20s a "waste" because I didn't hit some quota of "babes I screwed"...

Anyway, as I said, it's not the desire to be sure of a relationship before making it permanent that people were calling juvenile and high school, it was your direct criticism that since he'd only slept with 3 people that he was a waste. Judging value by sheer volume, THAT'S high school.

-Arlos

[Jay]

Volume does have somewhat of an effect though arlos imo. I'm not saying more chicks nailed = more experience, but for sure if a guy has only been with one girl for a long time then I think that guy is missing out of the various different types of people that are out there. Doesn't mean you have to be a slut to learn the ways of the world, but I think it's better to be social and "get around" a bit to learn what you want and what you don't want. I do agree that jeering poor Tacks for his volume is somewhat high school though but then again maturity isn't a prerequisite here.

[Gargamellow]

high school is sex drugs and rock and roll..with some minor felonies

[Ginzburgh]

Well sex is usually the result of dating, sure. IMO people should experience the whole package so they know what kind of a partner works for them, rather than putting on the full court press early on.

My points are typically veiled behind a thick mask of dickery, which I have perfected throughout my tenure here at the Nameless Tavern.

[araby]

I think I got flamed and something about my son...but I saw that coming taxx you are predictable...and you bring up a good point. The way you are in a relationship is undoubtedly what someone expects and for that I am happy you have been able to achieve. I know what a healthy relationship is and mine is good. We had something bad happen, and that was it, and it was really bad and it really hurt.

I don't expect you to have sympathy for me, or any of you-I just told a story and it's actually been really neat to hear what you guys have to say. and the negative stuff I also like-keeps me honest. thanks for the msgs/pms/posts...and Mindia I am sorry I hijacked your thread =\

dating is fun though-I really should have spent more time dating instead of being with one guy. (now that I'm 30 and I am a biological time bomb.) I agree that most people marry too young.

[Gargamellow]

they should put an age thing on getting married that allows for more time to grow up