Gargamellow wrote:Women go out dancing because it feels good to get dressed up and go dancing. It is fun to hang out with the girls.
Why do men play golf, go to bars, play poker, drink beer in the yard...err..why do men anything?
Women go dancing...big fucking deal.
And if you are such a prick that you don't let your girl get some girl time..then you are only fucking yourself.
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Tossica wrote:Girls go out because they get attention from men.
Bingo
ling, my brother... 99% of this board does not agree with my position on women in general, which is fine. But, please listen to me carefully... if the chick you're going to marry is going out clubbing all the time "with the girls" - brother man, do NOT marry her. You're just asking for some serious fights, head aches and pain. A clubber is the worst possible woman you could get involved with - let alone marry.
If this was a once in a very blue moon thing, maybe it'd be cool.... but all the time?
Obviously it bothers you - and I would suspect that she knows it bothers you. You may or may not have come right out and said it, but she knows. The fact she does it anyway - should tell you something.
Here's a little insider info for you (and I'm sure 99% of the board is going to come running telling you how wrong I am... whatever). Chicks don't go out dancing all the time for sake of dancing. They go out "dancing" all the time because they thrive on the attention they get from other dudes.
Let me say again.... if she wanted a girl's night out once in a great while, sure I'd buy that it's probably just to cut loose, talk about each other's men, dance and have a good time. But all the time? Naw - it has nothing to do with "dancing," period.
Has she cheated yet? Maybe so, maybe not. Will she eventually cheat? You can bet your ass she will. Sooner or later, she's going to get drunk, she's going to get hit on by something that's sparked her hormones and she'll give in. Count on it.
[They] say men cheat more than women. I think, personally, that's a load of horse shit. I think it's either about equal, now-a-days, or women stray a little more often. It seems like men do, because men are dipshits and get caught more so than women.
You gotta live your life according to your rules and do what YOU think is best, but me? There's not a chance in hell I'd marry a club chick.
You've been to night clubs - you KNOW what goes on there, you KNOW how dudes are, you KNOW how women act when they get drunk... you gotta know... sooner or later...
That's just me.
Garg, there's a HUGE difference in the guys going to the golf course, drinking in beer in the yard, etc where they are surrounded by nothing but other men - and chicks going to night clubs where they're going to get slobbered on and approached by every swinging dick that walks through the door. HUGE difference.
Oh and one more think King - if she's getting all dressed up? Like short skirts or "little black dresses" or even tight fitting "look at my phat ass" jeans to go out to clubs in WITHOUT you... dude... run.... run like the fucking wind... deal with your pain now. It's a hell of a lot easier than waiting till she does eventually cheat, or you find out she has, AFTER your fucking honeymoon.
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p.s. club chicks are typically immature as hell and extremely selfish. It's usually "all about them" and they don't give a fuck who they hurt - long as they can drink, dance and get hit on by tons of guys.
~fucking whores.