Yay for polls.

[Darcler]

I'll make sure I'm tied down

[brinstar]

voted sexy stuff.

if it turns him on, that's great

if it doesn't turn him on, at least it makes YOU feel sexier..

which will rev up your engine higher, equaling better sex0r for both of you

[leah]

lol belly button quote. i love you darc.

[The Kizzy]

Darcler, wear the lingerie under your clothes, with a lower cut top. Make sure to tease him by bending over, and letting him see mini previews, etc. It will drive hi8m crazy. and then you will get it good and hard for long time (The second time, cuz the first should take about 30 seconds)

[Darcler]

I'm probably just going to blow him the first time so I dont get disappointed, expecting like hours of sex.
Hello TMI, how are you?

What was I going to say...
Oh yeah, I want to tell you all how weird it is for my significant other's parents and step parents like, giving me permission and actually expecting me to have sex with him. I was talking to my step mother in law the other day and she said something along the lines of they were giving us his brothers room and they would put the kids in the spare room and his brothers could take up couches so we could have our privacy.
My mother in law, who lives in my house while her husband takes care of his mother in CT until she croaks (wont be long) said something like she was excited to go to CT, she could see her husband and I could see mine. It would be conjugal visits all around!

[Tuggan]

i think youve blown it up so much in your head youre setting yourself up for disappointment you know your husband better than anyone here i would hope, so you should know what floats his boat.

[Darcler]

Sex. He'd be so fucking happy with sex.
But I asked because I wanted to do something nice for him. Dressing up at night for me was not wearing sweatpants to bed hehe. I have yet to do the whole stereotypical sexy wife shit, like dressing up, yadda yadda. And I have never seen him look at/watch porn, so I have no idea what he likes, other than random conversational info he gave me. I dont want to flat out ask him, that ruins the suprise...at least for me, it does.

I think I'll stick with the stuff I have (because I look fabulous in it).

[araby]

when I read this last night I typed a post and then deleted it (I do this a lot) and it said "I think you should give him a blow job first-like on the way home if the kids aren't with you or whatever."

most guys (you know him best) enjoy a great blowjob as much as sex anyday. he knows he's getting some...bj is the best way to rev him up if you know what I mean.

I also wanted to add that I went a month without my bf and it was hard. and the day he came back was like something I've never felt-even since he's been back. that entire day is like a scene from a movie that I filmed while I was tripping or something.

[Darcler]

A month away... add to that that I have a serious Uniform fetish....should be a good 10 days

[Gargamellow]

i know what u mean....it feels euphoric..like a piece of your life was missing...and now everything is whole again

sigh...missing someone you love is the suck

[Darcler]

Jesus Christ, I cant wait for him to deploy! gogo 16 months away!

[araby]

I know a month wasn't that long but it was the longest ever for myself not to see someone I am used to seeing every day. felt like forever.

when do you see him again?

[Darcler]

I get him on the 21st to the 31st. Then again in early Feb when he graduates. Shortly after that, I move to FL with him unless he deploys, then I wont see him afer he graduates for 6ish months, then 2 weeks home then another 6ish months away.

[Gargamellow]

you are a stronger woman than I am

[araby]

garg is right (you both are strong)

I've never wanted to be with anyone who was in the military and I have never dated anyone that was in the military. it's admirable and if weren't for the people like you we wouldn't have the ability to choose.

[Gargamellow]

k...virra mentioned the army and i said,"see ya...send me and my new boyfriend a postcard"

i am not giving up my life partner..i am entirely too needy

[Darcler]

Before this whole thing, I was intirely dependant on him. We had never been away from each other longer than a weekend, and that was during a fight so I didnt really care heh.

But this experience has really made me a bit more dependant. I HAVE to be for my sake and the sake of my children. He has also realized while he has been away that he really relies on me for things. That paragraph he wrote to me about that is one of the best things he has ever said.

All in all, while the experience sucks hardcore, it really is worth it.

[Gargamellow]

[smiley poster=sad]Come home safe, Gidan, before Darcler makes us all look bad![/smiley]