Markarado wrote:Sentro has been dating the girl for just over 5 months now. I know. It's fast! I was completely shocked when I found out. You should have heard everyone at Starbucks look at me when I jumped up and shouted, "WHAT??!Q@#@!!?"
Shocking it may sound, his statistics are actually better. Other advice to offer would be having them live together for a least 30 days prior to marrage to confirm the "real" personality test.
That asside, I've donated as much as 250.00 for a party and as little as 10.00 for parties where I just tag along (i.e didn't really know the bachlor personally). Those costs are not inclusive to my spend on the lap dances /evilgrin.
As for folks that feel they would actually act upon an urge (i.e. bachlor having a sex act with a stripper), then they shouldn't be married at all.
I've always thought the purpose of a bachlor party with strippers is to taunt the fact that the husband to be would be bound to only one women, sort of like hanging that carrot in front of them and say, "look what you'll miss".
drunk, being "high", etc has NEVER passed for allowance to cheat. It is one thing to say, I got GHB slipped in my drink. Ethics MUST hold true regardless of state of mind. If they do not, then your ethics are too low compared to the required bond for a successful marriage.
Lastly, marriage IS the hardest job you will ever have. You will never make as many sacrifices, compromises, etc than you will when you're married.
This spawns another curiosity of mine, out of the married folks (first, second, third doesn't matter), how long have you been married, perhaps a poll is in order
