Having a gf yet fantasizing about sex with other women

Yamori · Post by **Yamori** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 9:22 pm

imo it's fine unless it's interfering with your relationship or is really frequent/obsessive.

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 9:38 pm

Whenever I am in relationships I always fantasize about Yamori :depressed:

Tae-Bo · Post by **Tae-Bo** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 10:10 pm

Tossica wrote:Attention all full of shit guys.

Are you saying that if you are in a relationship you don't jerk off or if you do jerk off, you are thinking only of your girlfriend while you do it?

LAFF

LIARS

straight up

grow some balls and stop being pussies

it's alright to be a man, it's part of our hormones, any guy who says otherwise strikes me as trying to be manipulative

araby · Post by **araby** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 10:26 pm

the problem is that people talk about shit too much. if no one went around blabbing their mouths about how they fantasize then no one would know that all of us do it! everybody needs to stfu. stop telling everything. you're getting us ALL into trouble!

kinghooter00 · Post by **kinghooter00** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 6:46 am

Tossica wrote:Attention all full of shit guys.

Are you saying that if you are in a relationship you don't jerk off or if you do jerk off, you are thinking only of your girlfriend while you do it?

LAFF

LIARS

My chick turns me on all the time. When she's not home and i'm feeling alittle frisky becuase of her, i am forced to go squeeze one off.

Post by **Lyion** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:06 am

There's a reason for that.

http://www.laddertheory.com/

Insanityfair · Post by **Insanityfair** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:32 am

Oh lordy, the ladder theory! /duck

kinghooter00 · Post by **kinghooter00** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 8:10 am

it won't let me view the website from my work. Someone tell me what that means...

Post by **Tossica** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 8:32 am

lyion wrote:There's a reason for that.

http://www.laddertheory.com/

I know it's somewhat satirical but this is pretty much spot on.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 10:23 am

The day Gid stops looking at other women is the day I start to worry. Hey, I married a gay before.... :dunno:

Seriously, I have no problem with him looking at other women, chances are I am looking at her too. As far as I know, he doesnt mind me looking at other menz. But that's as far as it goes. Looking. If he is fantasizing about an actress or whatever when he's in the can, I dont care, but I dont really want to hear about it.
Fantasizing is completely healthy and normal.

araby · Post by **araby** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 1:18 pm

I had a dream about ryan adams last night except it was not sexual, we were best friends.

Post by **Tossica** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 1:19 pm

with benefits?

Evermore · Post by **Evermore** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 1:37 pm

ClakarEQ · Post by **ClakarEQ** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 2:28 pm

I think it is human nature to fantasize. IMHO any attempt to adjust or modify your loved one into something you've noted as "fantasy" is not so good.

It is one thing to introduce new things into your sex play, like role playing (dr & nurse, or french made, or shave your beaver, etc). it is another to say, change your hair, lose some weight, wear different clothes.

Any guy that claims he doesn't spank it is a liar. However you can spank it to your loved one in a "fantasy" and I don't think that is wrong. You can spank it to Paris hilton, etc, or even your neighbor. I just do not agree with any attempt to modify your loved ones behaviors to fit your fantasy is "right", I would view this as a form of cheating.

araby · Post by **araby** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:22 pm

Tossica wrote:with benefits?

Araby wrote:it was not sexual

Yamori · Post by **Yamori** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:29 pm

Dylan wrote:Whenever I am in relationships I always fantasize about Yamori

I fantasize about me too. :eyecrazy:

If I had a clone I'd totally do it with myself. :cry:

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:34 pm

vira doesn't jack off

this..I have proven to myself as I didn't believe it either

so there

p.s. it IS healthy to fantasize

Tuggan · Post by **Tuggan** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:45 pm

how do you prove someone doesn't jerk off? most boys at an early age learn to be like ninjas about that sort of thing.

Spazz · Post by **Spazz** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 4:14 pm

I dont know how youd prove it either but girls can tell if youve been playin with it or not. When I lived with jenn didnt get any soloing done cuz shed find out and talk shit.

If I had a clone I'd totally do it with myself

If i had a clone id get the mmf goin on and tunnel a bitch out.

Post by **Tossica** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:05 pm

araby wrote:
Tossica wrote:with benefits?

Araby wrote:it was not sexual

You thought you all were just friends but even in your dreams, he was being friendly with you so he could nail ya.

araby · Post by **araby** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:11 pm

no! we were friends the whole time!

Post by **Tossica** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:28 pm

araby wrote:no! we were friends the whole time!

He was thinking unpure thoughts...

It's true!

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:29 pm

But he was in araby's dream, making those unpure thoughts araby's unpure thoughts. So in the end, araby is a nympho.

Post by **Arlos** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:45 pm

Do we need another 10 page thread to examine the question of whether she is or is not, though?

-Arlos

Post by **Tossica** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:46 pm