moving back to CA in a couple weeks. Suckas in northern hit me up on Aim (barhoppah) or PM.
If you guys still live off misery of others np I can post the entire why the fuck i got dumped bullshit.
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It's really a long story im pretty much devastated atm. I am trying to give her the space she needs. *type of person that sets a goal and isnt happy til they do it* I am pretty sure that her independence and not having to rely on anyone is a big part of a sort of life goal. With me around she is able to depend on me and thus not completing that goal. At least this is my theory.
I maybe out here again though as i love baltimore and hopefully after some time apart and her being able to live by herself we can figure things out from there. But will give me time to see family, friends, and work on shit that I need to work on for myself. So all in all it's a ok break up just hard to go through.
I maybe out here again though as i love baltimore and hopefully after some time apart and her being able to live by herself we can figure things out from there. But will give me time to see family, friends, and work on shit that I need to work on for myself. So all in all it's a ok break up just hard to go through.
I'm back and forth to different places working a lot but I'll hit you up when I can. You're in South bay right?
leah wrote:i am forever grateful to my gym teacher for drilling that skill into me during drivers' ed
leah wrote:isn't the only difference the length? i feel like it would take too long to smoke something that long, ha.
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so we talked alot this weekend bout stuff, figured out alot of stuff and I realized what the underlying problem was. We worked out a deal and I thought about staying in baltimore, but I don't want to have her feel pressured or have to think about us. I think its best if we are friends for a while and she gets to live alone, we've already made plans so that new years ( or around that time ) we'll get together in CA and we'll talk bout us as a relationship. From there we can figure it out. She needs space and I'll have time to not be in a relationship to work on stuff I need to work on for myself. At that time we can work on us. if I stay here she knows im staying just for the chance of us, which imo is just added pressure to the situation.
It'll also give me to time to spend iwth my family as my grandparents are getting older.
And ya SouthBay Sunnyvale ( 101 / fairoaks to be exact. )
so we talked alot this weekend bout stuff, figured out alot of stuff and I realized what the underlying problem was. We worked out a deal and I thought about staying in baltimore, but I don't want to have her feel pressured or have to think about us. I think its best if we are friends for a while and she gets to live alone, we've already made plans so that new years ( or around that time ) we'll get together in CA and we'll talk bout us as a relationship. From there we can figure it out. She needs space and I'll have time to not be in a relationship to work on stuff I need to work on for myself. At that time we can work on us. if I stay here she knows im staying just for the chance of us, which imo is just added pressure to the situation.
It'll also give me to time to spend iwth my family as my grandparents are getting older.
And ya SouthBay Sunnyvale ( 101 / fairoaks to be exact. )
Tacks wrote:Just be careful. 99% of the time when chicks "need space" it's so they can fuck other guys.
I didn't want to say it first but yeah...."needs space" is code for wanting to test the waters to see if she can get someone better - makes more money...better connected...etc. And if she can't, then will come back after a year or 2 and hope you're still waiting.
Only once in my life have I ever seen someone need space come back around within 6 months and not see anyone else, and that was basically just because his best friend was in his ear every day about not fucking up the best thing he ever had.
we've already have had that talk, we are * broken up* so it really doesnt matter if she sees someone else at this point. But I trust her enough that this isnt the current case. I know her well enough to know what she says is true, so its fine. I am not going to sit around crying over her - in January we will talk about *us* again. Until then we're friends. After pissing me off alot about how it was handled she has gone out of her way to be friends with one another in the past 4 days or so. we just got back from lunch and the movies.
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Mop wrote:moving back to CA in a couple weeks. Suckas in northern hit me up on Aim (barhoppah) or PM.
If you guys still live off misery of others np I can post the entire why the fuck i got dumped bullshit.
Oh man.
I hope this is a joke, if not sorry bro. let me know where you end up, I'll drop you some peanut butter.
Get some weed dude. It costs less, never bullshits you, and in general is a lot less of a hassle than a woman.Youll feel better and be able to think clearly about what you should do with your new found time.
WHITE TRASH METAL SLUMMER
Why Immortal technique?
Perhaps its because I am afraid and he gives me courage.
Why Immortal technique?
Perhaps its because I am afraid and he gives me courage.
You might turn into a goobering retard If you smoke but a lot of people dont. For very stoner you know you prolly also know one whos in the closet and youd never expect. Pots like beer homie just bout everyone i involved with it in some way or another. I do think more clearly when I smoke otherwise my brain has a stutter.
WHITE TRASH METAL SLUMMER
Why Immortal technique?
Perhaps its because I am afraid and he gives me courage.
Why Immortal technique?
Perhaps its because I am afraid and he gives me courage.
spazz wrote:You might turn into a goobering retard If you smoke but a lot of people dont. For very stoner you know you prolly also know one whos in the closet and youd never expect. Pots like beer homie just bout everyone i involved with it in some way or another. I do think more clearly when I smoke otherwise my brain has a stutter.
WTF? you type like a stupid stoner
spazz wrote:You might turn into a goobering retard If you smoke but a lot of people dont. For very stoner you know you prolly also know one whos in the closet and youd never expect. Pots like beer homie just bout everyone i involved with it in some way or another. I do think more clearly when I smoke otherwise my brain has a stutter.
i'm glad you said "just about everyone" because seriously, not everyone has poked the smot. i haven't. i don't think i will ever, either. just not interested. *shrug*
lolz