need good 1st date ideas

KaiineTN · Post by **KaiineTN** » Mon May 14, 2007 11:39 am

Obviously DDR is the best option.

Menlaan · Post by **Menlaan** » Mon May 14, 2007 11:48 am

Dinner is a great first date. If it goes badly, just talk about yourself until it's over. If it goes well, go out for drinks. If it goes really well, you'll know what to do :wink:

Gypsiyee · Post by **Gypsiyee** » Mon May 14, 2007 11:57 am

Jay wrote:Nothing too extravagent Duck. Keep it simple. Wow her with you, not with the date. My first real date with my gf I took her to a comedy club, drinks, dinner and watched a movie at my house. Simple, fun and she got to know me. That's the idea. It's hard to conversate when you are hanging from a wall.

did you just say conversate

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Mon May 14, 2007 12:03 pm

D. Duck wrote:i need ideas for a first date for a good girl (and by good girl i mean non-slut non-crazy normal girl)

How's your chloraphorm supply?

Post by **Arlos** » Mon May 14, 2007 12:05 pm

Or roofies?

-Arlos

Juls · Post by **Juls** » Mon May 14, 2007 12:22 pm

Why don't you ask her what her hobbies are.? That way, try to find one that you think might suit you as well. Then go do it together and then go for a drink and chat after that in a nice cafe.

Or you could settle for simple dinner and get to know each other better but you did say you want something different.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Mon May 14, 2007 12:25 pm

Sorry, I was thinking that you two had hung out and studied together.

It is pretty forward to make someone dinner at your place unless they've been over before.

-Adam

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Mon May 14, 2007 1:12 pm

Yeah, no dinner at your place.

Naethyn · Post by **Naethyn** » Mon May 14, 2007 1:20 pm

Making a meal at my place on the first date works for me. But I'm probably going for an entirely different type of women. <3 starving college females!

Insanityfair · Post by **Insanityfair** » Mon May 14, 2007 1:38 pm

Gypsiyee wrote:Maybe I'm strange but I'm not a big fan of a dinner date with someone you're not comfortable with - it leaves too much room for uncomfortable silence, and I, personally, much prefer a setting that gives you something to talk about, especially where there's competition involved, ie silly sports like mini golf, bowling, batting cages, arcades (airhockey ftw) etc.

Live music is also always great.. first dates should be fun, not intimate.

Awesome ideas here. Keeps it fun and not all serious.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Mon May 14, 2007 1:56 pm

One of the best first dates I ever had was lazertag.

If you live near NY take her to Cafe Wha!

Araby will agree with me.

Tae-Bo · Post by **Tae-Bo** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:01 pm

im the hardest socal thug in here

Maeya · Post by **Maeya** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:02 pm

If you had an arcade/restaurant in your area, like Dave & Busters, that would be fun. They serve meals right there, then you head over to the arcade area where you can win tickets & buy her silly prizes.

Alternately, it might be kind of fun to go to a park and do nostalgic type stuff that not everyone does very much anymore - fly kites (extra points if they are the cheap plastic superhero variety), play Frisbee, have a picnic. However, that sort of stuff might be saved for later in the dating process when there are less awkward silences.

araby · Post by **araby** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:04 pm

Yes I will, I had a great time there.

I've been thinking about the kind of date I'd like to be taken on since I first posted and now I really want to eat outside, drink and then see music. I might just stomp my foot if I don't get it.

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:04 pm

Ginzburgh wrote:One of the best first dates I ever had was lazertag.

YES, single handedly the best first date there is, Laser Tag or Paintball.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:06 pm

goats says D Duck comes back here in a day and replies with some stupid fucking SA comment of his like "lolz nm guys i didnt feel like going"

araby · Post by **araby** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:11 pm

Tacks wrote:goats says D Duck comes back here in a day and replies with some stupid fucking SA comment of his like "lolz nm guys i didnt feel like going"

that is why we lurv him.

Tae-Bo · Post by **Tae-Bo** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:20 pm

Tacks wrote:goats says D Duck comes back here in a day and replies with some stupid fucking SA comment of his like "lolz nm guys i didnt feel like going"

sorry.. unlike you i actually like girls bwahaha

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Mon May 14, 2007 2:46 pm

oh lol gud 1

runamonk · Post by **runamonk** » Tue May 15, 2007 8:31 am

Diekan · Post by **Diekan** » Tue May 15, 2007 9:04 am

Ginzburgh wrote:Yeah, no dinner at your place.

I actually agree with him on this.

Dinner at your place on a first date is a bad idea. She'll be spending more time wondering if you're cheap (not willing to take her out and splurge a little) or if you're just trying to get in her pants. Dinner at your place is down the road, after you've been dating for a while.

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Tue May 15, 2007 9:07 am

Diekan wrote:
Ginzburgh wrote:Yeah, no dinner at your place.

Dinner at your place is down the road, after you've been dating for a while.

I agree with both of these. It would be alittle too intimate for a first date. That is unless she has been to your house before.

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Tue May 15, 2007 11:32 am

Insanityfair wrote:
Gypsiyee wrote:Maybe I'm strange but I'm not a big fan of a dinner date with someone you're not comfortable with - it leaves too much room for uncomfortable silence, and I, personally, much prefer a setting that gives you something to talk about, especially where there's competition involved, ie silly sports like mini golf, bowling, batting cages, arcades (airhockey ftw) etc.

Live music is also always great.. first dates should be fun, not intimate.

Awesome ideas here. Keeps it fun and not all serious.

Yeah because arcades are the way to make women want to fuck you.

Insanityfair · Post by **Insanityfair** » Tue May 15, 2007 11:45 am

Jay wrote:
Insanityfair wrote:
Gypsiyee wrote:Maybe I'm strange but I'm not a big fan of a dinner date with someone you're not comfortable with - it leaves too much room for uncomfortable silence, and I, personally, much prefer a setting that gives you something to talk about, especially where there's competition involved, ie silly sports like mini golf, bowling, batting cages, arcades (airhockey ftw) etc.

Live music is also always great.. first dates should be fun, not intimate.

Awesome ideas here. Keeps it fun and not all serious.

Yeah because arcades are the way to make women want to fuck you.

A lot of your bowling/arcade type places do have bars...they aren't all a kiddie type setting. Or hey, maybe she doesn't just want to get drunk and fuck? Get too serious/in your face romantic etc. too soon and he may not get any at all, might just scare her away.

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Tue May 15, 2007 11:59 am

Hey I was wondering if you're busy tonight. If not maybe we could go to Aladdin's Castle and try to beat my high score on DDR.

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