Why I use women for sex

[Diekan]

holy crap diekan >< no wonder you can't find a woman to make you happy.

maeya looks like she's pretty tall, so 150 is probably pretty darn slender on her, not to mention a HEALTHY weight. besides which, she's beautiful!

and so is ashley, AND her kiwi (besides which, he's from NZ, not australia, so stfu)--he's really, really cute.

stop grasping at straws for insults, and stop putting so much emphasis on appearance and weight numbers.



*waiting for the "wtf do you know, you fat cow?" response . . . /yawn*

NZ/Australia... does it really matter? Do you think he's going to hang on to her ugly ass once he gets his "card?"

Does anyone else here see the iron of what she just said???? ><

She tells me too:

and stop putting so much emphasis on appearance and weight numbers.

Right after she says:

kiwi (besides which, he's from NZ, not australia, so stfu)--he's really, really cute.

I allllmmmmoosssstttt think she did that on purpose.

[10sun]

holy crap diekan >< no wonder you can't find a woman to make you happy.

maeya looks like she's pretty tall, so 150 is probably pretty darn slender on her, not to mention a HEALTHY weight. besides which, she's beautiful!

and so is ashley, AND her kiwi (besides which, he's from NZ, not australia, so stfu)--he's really, really cute.

stop grasping at straws for insults, and stop putting so much emphasis on appearance and weight numbers.

Several points.
A) Maeya looks like she is 5'5" / 5'6"ish which at the weight of 150 is not considered by anyone outside of those who shop at Lane Bryant to be slim, slender, or thin.
B) Diekan is entitled to his opinions and personal attractions. It is a byproduct of his social conditioning & his personal biology.
C) It is similar to yourself and "Mr. Boifriend" or whatever you call him, most people are not attracted to scrawny people.
D) Ashley's situation is bizarre to say the least. Any outsider looking in would have nothing but questions as to the Kiwi's motives, however the fact remains that they have not gotten married so he has not used her for that purpose.

[Diekan]

I don't come here with the intent of insulting people or going on the attack. SOME of you people can't help yourselves and jump on any opportunity you get to sling mud. I would have said anything about Maeya if she had contributed to the discussion without insult and flame attempts. I merely retaliated - as with 99.9999% of the time. The only person here I enjoy attacking first is Harrison.

[Maeya]

5'7"


It's ok Diekan, you're not my type anyway. I think I'll get over the loss.

[leah]

negating your comment about gyps, maeya, and gyps' kiwi being fat/ugly/whatever does not equal putting a lot of emphasis on appearance. i'm just disagreeing with you.

bottom line, i'm saying you shouldn't base so much of someone's worth on their looks. i'm not saying i don't think a physical attraction to someone is important, because it is--i just think you're putting too much emphasis on it, from who you date to how you insult someone. in the grand scheme of things, appearance really isn't that big of a deal.

[leah]

p.s. josh is not scrawny >< plus, he's put on like 10 pounds of muscle in the past month or two since he bought his bowflex. so nyah. :P

[Evermore]

p.s. josh is not scrawny >< plus, he's put on like 10 pounds of muscle in the past month or two since he bought his bowflex. so nyah. :P

but does he use you for sex?

[leah]

lol what?

[Eziekial]

I can't believe I read every post in this thread. I must be going mad with boredom...

[Lyion]

i dunno, i guess that being 23, out of college, in the work force, etc. puts me pretty far ahead of a 20-year-old kid (yes i think someone who is 20 is really, really young hehe) and a lot closer to someone who's 26-28. but everything is relative, i guess.

You strike me as someone who is mature, but in 5 years you'll be amazed at how different you are.

The good news is you somewhat settle down around 30 and just change incrementally.

Plus, damn, do you want to get into a maturity discussion with Taxx? That's like discussing the female orgasm with Harrison, or into a 'how to treat chicks' one with Diekan.

I'm 38, btw. Some days I feel 21. Some days I feel 51.

I still get carded though... When I shave and do not have the Italian hairjob on on face...

[Tacks]

Diekan go ahead and post your picture again so everyone can laugh.

[Diekan]

you just want to toss off to my abs.... don't you?

[Gypsiyee]

Hey, smart guy, I didn't even have a cell phone when I attended 2 of the gatherings for CT (of which there were only 3, btw, one that I organized single handedly FOR EVERYONE and two which weren't even CT gatherings, it was a fan faire.) You tell me how, if I did not own a cell phone, I was sitting anywhere with it 'glued to my head'. I spent a majority of my time at these gatherings with Mik and Vyv as they were constants at all 3.

I think that Jay can attest (or even Shiraz if you don't want to believe him, she drove with me to Tennessee, for petes sake) to my behavior while I was there and anything that was said about me - so before you want to sling mud with your pompous ugly old bald ass who obviously can't even turn the head of an intelligent woman who's looking for anything but to get hers and go, perhaps get your facts straight.

If I was such a horrible person who didn't interact with people, you want to tell me how I landed in a 2 year relationship with someone who *WAS THERE* afterward? Grats on feeding into hearsay, though I'm 90% sure you're full of shit - isn't that one of the qualities in women that you so love to complain about?

As for Jonathan - we've been friends for 6 years, again nothing you'd know about because I'd be surprised if you had an actual friend for longer than it took for you to spout off half a sentence before they ran for the hills. You can take snippets of my life for what you will, but I'll say this - you don't ever see me coming here composing threads complaining about my romantic life - the fact that you do is reason enough for me to laugh at your assumptions of my situation. No matter how 'fat' I am or how self absorbed you think I am, I'm very happy and I'll leave it at that; there's no need for details for the same reason I don't typically post here about my personal life - people like you have nothing better to do but bring it up as a means to insult with vast assumptions and no actual knowledge. I'm very thankful for where I'm at and I consider myself very lucky for the situation I'm in.

I'm sorry that you're such a bitter depressed mass of flesh that you can't understand that, but perhaps one day you'll find your equally cynical and judgmental match - it's a shame you're so ugly, because with your standards physically in addition to your piss poor attitude you're never going to find happiness with anyone, and you'll continue to cycle through the pathetic excuse of a life that you have with only money to comfort you. I'm sorry for the people like you in the world who have no idea what it is to actually feel - all you know is material, and it's despicable.

I'll mark my calendar to countdown to the next Diekan got dumped and hates women thread, because this is just another one in the hundred or so in the past and the many more yet to come. Cheers.

[Diekan]

You'll have your turn soon enough.

Soon as Crocodile Dun Dee gets his card, he'll dump you for something he really wants. Then you'll be here posting about how you hate men and how they're all just a bunch of dirt bags looking to use you.

They very fact you had to go OUTSIDE of the US to get a man speaks volumes about you... but why rub it in?

Didn't have a cell phone huh? Funny, I remember seeing the pics of the gathering - with you and that nonexistent cell phone glued to your head in most of them. I have spoken to someone who was there... opps your story doooeeesssnnn'ttttt quite match what they told me. They have nothing lie about - you on the other hand....

all you know is material, and it's despicable.

Jealousy is a MF'er, aint it?

[Gypsiyee]

Could you post those pics? I'm interested now. Only one gathering did I have a phone, and that I recall, I never took a picture with one.

Oh you've spoken to a source!! You're awesome. Let me guess, you cant say who because you would break trust?

Go on - post the pics. Put up or shut up, old man.

[Diekan]

If I had access to the old boards - which I no longer do and I'm not going to ask Yaxa for it - and IF they even still have those pics on the forum I'd be more than glad to hook your fat-can't-find-an-American-man-ass up.

Really though, you should take a moment and really think long and hard about why this dude is interested in YOU, of all people. You're obviously poor, you're not that pretty, you're over weight... I mean seriously... if it wasn't for the fact that he needs you for US citizenship, do you reeeeallllyyy think he'd be giving you the time of day?

Come on now Gyps... I know you're not the sharpest tool in the shed, but even you can't be that dumb. Desperate! Ahh, that's it... you're letting your desperation cloud your better judgment. Here's a few tips from me to you, you can thank me later.

1. Drop the Aussie - he's just using you.
2. Go to the gym.
3. Find a higher paying job - this might require you learn some type of skill - but I have faith in you.
4. Every morning when you get up... look in the mirror and say: "I am worth something! I can do it!"

[Gypsiyee]

Why in gods name do you think I'm poor?

The other stuff is too pathetic to even address; it's just you being you, and there isn't much sense in feeding your need for negative attention.

[Diekan]

Ohh and by the way... *one* of the photos in question is of you kicked back in a lawn chair, with your head tilted to one side and the nonexistent cell phone glued to your left ear... ring any bells?

And before you say it... yes it was you. I don't recall too many ugly blondes in the guild at that time.

And, here, I'll throw you another bone (which I now you get many bones tossed your way teehee)... the dude that was making fun of you... telling me about how you acted "better" than anyone else there, how you spent the majority of the time on the cell phone... I mean nonexistent cell phone... was one of our lustrous Shadow Knights - I'll leave it your memory and imagination to figure out how it was/is.

[Gypsiyee]

I didn't take any pictures in a lawn chair, I didn't even sit in any lawn chair.. all the pictures I took were indoors aside from the group photo with the guild.

And if it was Jay, I'd go ahead and say he was just being himself talking trash like he did about everyone back then just to get responses. He knows as well as everyone else that I wasn't snooty to everyone - his memories of me there are probably of me jumping up and down on he and Jess to pay them back for keeping me awake the night prior, and of me chugging knobb creek with him, Enuk, Cala, Bark, Vyv and Borael.

Your story keeps getting worse - probably in your best interest to keep details out, because they're really screwed.

[Tikker]

this thread just gets better and better


seriously diekan

why the fuck would someone leave australia/NZ for the US?

US isn't exactly the land of opportunity anymore, and it forces you to live with ....you

[leah]

heee

[Xaiveir]

How in gods name did i miss this thread.

[Diekan]

I just find this whole situation hilarious. I mean really.

Here we have:

Gyps - comes here insults and goes on the attack for someone else's personal opinions - tries to lecture me on relationships when she herself is one of the most obvious cases of being used. Here she is cutting on me for my relationship views while she had to mail order a boyfriend from outside the US.

Then we have Araby - I liked araby and didn't harbor any ill feelings toward her until now. Regardless, she comes here blasting away at me when she herself is in a screwed up situation. Scott walks out on her and she's still dealing with it. This *new* guy is going to end up getting crushed, because we all know he's a rebound. I went out of my way to offer Araby a trip back to the SAV to hang out with her to help her get her mind off the situation. I often dropped notes here and there asking her how she was doing with it. And do I get in return? Scroll through the past few pages. Anyway, she's in absolutely NO position to lecture ANYONE on relationships.

Oh, then there's Harrison. This dude's never had a girlfriend, never been laid, has probably never seen a grown woman naked... porn sites notwithstanding. Yeah, like his *expertise* on this issue really amounts to much.

What about Maeya - well I've never really had a problem with her... I just blasted back at her for instigating me in the first place. However, I will say that, by and large, when the healthier women find a man and get married they tend to get a bit high and mighty...

Now leah just doesn't read the posts all the way through before she starts formulating her replies. If she took the time to actually read them I think she would ultimately get the point. Yet, she's all of 22 - which isn't a bad thing - but when you're that young you have NOT lived long enough to fully understand the mechanics of relationships.

You people are not exactly the role models for quality relationships... here you are mail ordering relationships, still dealing with the scars of previous relationships, have never even had a relationship, finally gets a relationship and allows their ego to swell, doesn't even read the posts in their entirety. And you all want to lecture ME on the ins and outs.

LOL

[Tossica]

Be nice to girls.

[Naethyn]

Be nice to girls.

My older brother told me this when I entered middle school. Boy was he right.