Why I use women for sex

[leah]

A) i'm 23, reading comprehension ftw (way to fuck up the exact thing you are ragging on me for, lol)

B) whether or not i "read all the way through" your posts, which i do, has nothing to do with my relationship or my ability to have a relationship and/or give advice, so stop using that to negate the validity of my opinions/advice/comments

C) for the last time, gyps' bf is from NZ (again, reading comprehension) and there was no mail-ordering involved

D) sitting around pointing out how dysfunctional you think the rest of us are doesn't make you any less dysfunctional--you are still incapable of maintaining or nurturing an emotional connection with a woman or getting past their jeans size, hair color, or what's in their bra to even establish a connection in the first place

E) shut up

[Gypsiyee]

I don't think I've ever seen such a display of foaming at the mouth and vast feeling of self empowerment in my life

And thank you Tikk.. precisely - it's not like he left a country like Mexico to be with me, he left one of the most beautiful countries in the world, equivalent to Canada in safety. There is nothing in this country for him. He feared coming here due to stereotypical Americans like you - boisterous, greedy, self righteous, materialistic, and judgmental. His lifetime friends, all his family, his entire life is back there.

You avoided about 80% of the responses I gave you, including asking why you thought I was poor. You're grasping for straws, insulting anyone who disagrees with your ridiculous outlook, which is certainly to leave you to die a lonely old man.

You really are an idiot, aren't you

[Xaiveir]

Hey Diek, im not going to argue that there are a TON of crazy, self absorbed, narcissistic, image driven girls out there.

Where you are meeting these girls in all your rants, you have statistics working against you. You are looking for the proverbial, needle in a hay stack. At clubs etc, that is where those type of women hang out at. If you are looking for a keeper at those places, your chances are slim that you will find one. Statistically, you have a very low chance because those places are full of the type of women you despise.

"If you keep doing what you are doing, you are going to keep getting what you are getting." Great quote there, cannot remember who said it. It holds very true to your situation.

[Yamori]

Allow me to break down the bizarrity of your reasoning process:

1) I only use women for sex, the best way to deal with women is to treat them like shit, if their appearance isn't perfect I don't give them the time of day, ect, ect.

2) Why can't I have a decent, genuine lasting relationship?

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I know next to nothing about relationships, but I do know that having a lasting mature, adult, sane relationship with someone isn't particularly probable if you have the mating strategy of a 20 year old frat boy.

[leah]

Allow me to break down the bizarrity of your reasoning process:

1) I only use women for sex, the best way to deal with women is to treat them like shit, if their appearance isn't perfect I don't give them the time of day, ect, ect.

2) Why can't I have a decent, genuine lasting relationship?

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I know next to nothing about relationships, but I do know that having a lasting mature, adult, sane relationship with someone isn't particularly probable if you have the mating strategy of a 20 year old frat boy.

THANK YOU. this is exactly what i've been trying to say--albeit not quite as succinctly or clearly. :P

[KaiineTN]

"Suck what?"

"Succinctly. It means perfectly."

"Oh, yeah. I knew that."

"Excuse me, Don Giovanni... your lizard seems limp."

[Martrae]

You people are not exactly the role models for quality relationships... here you are mail ordering relationships, still dealing with the scars of previous relationships, have never even had a relationship, finally gets a relationship and allows their ego to swell, doesn't even read the posts in their entirety. And you all want to lecture ME on the ins and outs.

You can't say any of that about me. Kahar and I will be married 10 years next spring. My ego has been battered enough by life to reduce any swelling there may have been there and I've read every post in this thread.

Diekan, you focus too much on the stuff that changes and not enough on the inner core of the women you're dating. You may find a hot little momma now but even if she maintains her figure she'll still age, get wrinkles, grey hair the whole shebang. What will you do then? Dump her for a newer model? The 'good' women avoid you because they know you're too shallow to make a relationship last past the first laugh line.

[leah]

"Suck what?"

"Succinctly. It means perfectly."

"Oh, yeah. I knew that."

"Excuse me, Don Giovanni... your lizard seems limp."

dead. D-E-D, dead. :P

[Tacks]

you just want to toss off to my abs.... don't you?

So you're pussy, i figured as much.

[Diekan]

You people are not exactly the role models for quality relationships... here you are mail ordering relationships, still dealing with the scars of previous relationships, have never even had a relationship, finally gets a relationship and allows their ego to swell, doesn't even read the posts in their entirety. And you all want to lecture ME on the ins and outs.

You can't say any of that about me. Kahar and I will be married 10 years next spring. My ego has been battered enough by life to reduce any swelling there may have been there and I've read every post in this thread.

Diekan, you focus too much on the stuff that changes and not enough on the inner core of the women you're dating. You may find a hot little momma now but even if she maintains her figure she'll still age, get wrinkles, grey hair the whole shebang. What will you do then? Dump her for a newer model? The 'good' women avoid you because they know you're too shallow to make a relationship last past the first laugh line.

I wasn't talking about you, I was talking about those members of the "Sisterhood of the Tampon" who came running here frothing at the mouth declaring war on anyone who dares point out the obvious... that women are fucked in the head and are no more masters of love and or relationships than the men they use to get what they want.

Again, women like Gyps and the like have no place to judge someone else's relationship values. Yet here she is floundering in her attempts to put me down - like she actually knows me or something - which is borderline laughable at best.

This the last time I am going to say this...

Over the past two or so years I have been out with roughly 100 different women. Doctors, teachers, nurses, secretaries, physical fitness trainers, bankers, waitresses, whatever... out of those hundred I have only boned MAYBE 45 to 50 of them.

I haven't always been adversed to *settling down,* but I like to fuck. It's that simple. I am not going to turn away a good time to maintain some ridiculous sense of purity while I wait for the *right* one.

I have met women at the gym, the grocery store, my bank, at the club(s), hell even picked up a few from MySpace back in the day. However - with every single one of them... yes EVERY SINGLE one of them I was up front and honest. If I thought they were relationship material I took it slow and spent time with them until one of us decided it wasn't to be. If I didn't feel the chemistry, but still wanted to nail them - I told them as much. "You're a lot of fun, beautiful and intelligent, but I'm sure if we'd make a lasting couple. If you're still interested in seeing each other on a more casual basis, cool, if not I understand." That's all it takes. Some of them were down with that, some weren't. I held no grudges toward those who weren't. I had a lot of good times with those who were. But, I have never once lied, or intentionally made empty promises to anyone just get to some action. You don't have to. There are plenty of them out there who are perfectly fine with being your "friend with benefits." I see no need in ruining the moral, or crushing the heart of someone just so that I can bust a nut.

When I take someone out for a date, I always hold the door, let them order first, listen to them, treat them with respect and dignity. What I do not do is call them 10 times a day, or follow them around like a lost Harrison. What I do not do is cancel pre-made plans with the *guys* or other plans I had already made otherwise for a date. I expect the same from them. I expect them to have their own set of friends and their own lives, to come and go as they see fit, to do as they see fit. If and when the time came for us to become more serious, then I applied certain expectations - just as she would.

I will say that out of all those women 99% of them came with emotional baggage. 99% of them came into the *relationship* not knowing what they really wanted in the end. You cannot sit there and tell me that out of all those women, from all different walks of life, with different upbringings, different background - that my assessment of women generally being some what fucked in the head doesn't hold water.

My initial bitching in this post was that women are exponentially more sinister with their intentions then men. They'll play your emotions, play on your sense of trust, play on your desires to get what they want. Whether [it] is a month's of free rent, helping you pay her bills, helping her get over a past relationship, or simply getting her off... [it] is irrelevant. Most of the men I know, including myself, do not do this. We see no need in playing with her needs, weaknesses, emotions just to fuck her.

You women sit around and bitch, cry and moan about how shitty men treat you. Then you find one who's willing to lay out for you, who's willing to allow you into his world, who's willing to open his trust to you and what do you do? You look him in eye one minute, tell him how much you love him, then 10 minutes later you off flirting with the next cute guy that pays you any attention. Then you dump him when something *better* comes along.

I've seen it time and time again. It's happened to me, it's happened to other males on this board - they know who they are.

Women do this because they know deep down inside they've got the power. ESPECIALLY if they're attractive. They know they can walk into a room and have 10 phone numbers within an hour... and they know that their male counterparts (unless said male happens to be Brad Pitt) probably can't even get 1 number in that same hour. They don't care if they hurt your or not, because there's 40 other men just waiting to take your place - and they know it.

Today's woman is self serving, materialistic and very superficial. They'll not hesitate to destroy you if it will help them achieve their ends. And, they won't lose one wink of sleep in doing it.

Now, before Leah comes here and starts screaming about me generalizing. Of course there are women out there who aren't like this, who are honest, who seek real stability. But, by and large the vast majority of women out there are psycho to one degree or another.

Is this too hard for you to understand?

Gyps will learn soon enough what it's like to be used... soon as her AUSSIE gets what he wants. But, right now she's too high and mighty, too busy preaching to everyone else to see it coming.

[Tacks]

TLDR, looks like someone is either pissed or had his fragile ego hurt.

[Diekan]

TLDR, looks like someone is either pissed or had his fragile ego hurt.

Yeah... do we really need to get Kizzy in here to remind us of just how masterful you are with love and sex?

[KaiineTN]

I'm glad I don't go through as many women as you Diekan. I couldn't handle it. I suppose it's a good thing that I'm lazy, cheap, and emotionally distant, then. It serves to protect me from a lot of the shit you've dealt with. Obviously, you should be more like Kaiine, and your troubles will disappear.

[Gypsiyee]

hey jackass - do you want to show me where I ever said how he's getting his green card? way to assume you know.

brush up on your immigration laws dipshit, only way he's getting one through me is if we're married

his dad is here, you know.

[Diekan]

That's nasty...

you did his DAD and now him?

there's a word for women like you...

let's play hangman...

W_ _ R_

please tell me this guy doesn't have a son...

[Xaiveir]

That's nasty...

you did his DAD and now him?

there's a word for women like you...

let's play hangman...

W_ _ R_

please tell me this guy doesn't have a son...

Now you are reaching too far for insults, lol.

[Diekan]

That's nasty...

you did his DAD and now him?

there's a word for women like you...

let's play hangman...

W_ _ R_

please tell me this guy doesn't have a son...

Now you are reaching too far for insults, lol.

She's not giving me any new material... she just keeps saying the same thing over and over....

[Tossica]

You've fucked 50 different women in the last 2 years? LAFF. Yeah right.

[Tikker]

You've fucked 50 different women in the last 2 years? LAFF. Yeah right.

he makes more $$$ than anyone else on the board remember

he can afford to pay for that many!

[Tacks]

TLDR, looks like someone is either pissed or had his fragile ego hurt.

Yeah... do we really need to get Kizzy in here to remind us of just how masterful you are with love and sex?

Oh wait, that has anything whatsoever to do with this thread?

Keep trying.

[Diekan]

You've fucked 50 different women in the last 2 years? LAFF. Yeah right.

what makes you think I need to impress you or anyone else here? not a single one of you have any impact on my real life. not a single one of you will ever meet me in person.

sounds like you're jealous more than anything.

and ahh.. p.s. 50 women out of 730 days isn't a big deal. it's pretty sad if you think that's a high number.

[Arlos]

AHHHHHH! I know who Diekan is now!

He's an alternate alias for Sam "Da Man" Deathwalker! Anyone who's read FOH boards knows exactly who I am talking about. The "50 women in the last 2 years" is what clinched the identifier!

Well ladies and gentlemen, here is an honest to goodness picture of one of Sam's, er, Diekan's fabulous conquests!



Way to go Diekan!

-Arlos

[Diekan]

still have that mask.... good times

[Tacks]

You've fucked 50 different women in the last 2 years? LAFF. Yeah right.

what makes you think I need to impress you or anyone else here? not a single one of you have any impact on my real life. not a single one of you will ever meet me in person.

sounds like you're jealous more than anything.

and ahh.. p.s. 50 women out of 730 days isn't a big deal. it's pretty sad if you think that's a high number.

Yet here is a 9 page post of your life story and raging e-gina.

[Martrae]

Nice socks...