Why I use women for sex

[Diekan]

Jesus christ man

no wonder you're so soured on women, you're only seeking whores. not that you could get any better than a common whore, but yeesh.

what a sad life you have. not only are you socially inept, materialistic, judgmental, hideously unattractive, and incapable of reason.. your dick leaves paris hilton looking like mother theresa to boot.

who in gods name would be jealous of anything you have? tell me, out of curiosity - what is it that you think is so great about yourself? you really have nothing going for you other than your sad middle management position. as a person, you're woefully behind the rest of the human race.

since I'm only after whores... whatcha doing next weekend?

[Martrae]

Has the world come to an end? I agree with Tikker, Taxx AND Arlos...

[Tossica]

Ahh... you girls are sweet... even if you only love me for my fish.

[Gypsiyee]

Jesus christ man

no wonder you're so soured on women, you're only seeking whores. not that you could get any better than a common whore, but yeesh.

what a sad life you have. not only are you socially inept, materialistic, judgmental, hideously unattractive, and incapable of reason.. your dick leaves paris hilton looking like mother theresa to boot.

who in gods name would be jealous of anything you have? tell me, out of curiosity - what is it that you think is so great about yourself? you really have nothing going for you other than your sad middle management position. as a person, you're woefully behind the rest of the human race.

since I'm only after whores... whatcha doing next weekend?

oh, good one! no more material and anything you used as an insult prior was fabricated - now it's time to resort to calling someone a whore! so now I fucked my boyfriends dad and I'm a fat whore - what's next, you going to yank on my hair and call me a doody head?

[Diekan]

tell the Aussie he came come watch.

[Tacks]

I've heard better flames from 2nd graders.


I'm sure Gyps' feelings are just destroyed right about now.

[Gypsiyee]

Yeah, I'm crying

[leah]

What boggles the mind is that he seems to view that number as a positive accomplishment. Sorry, no. I mean, if you're ramping up for a run at Gene Simmons or Wilt Chamberlain numbers, you got a long way to go. If you're not, then you're insanely lucky not to have picked up anything.

Honestly, I've never been into the whole "meaningless sex with someone I barely know" thing. Yeah, I've done it before a few times (who hasn't, pretty much, Harrisons of the world aside), and you know what? It was shitty sex. Seriously, it was generally about the level of, "You get off yet? No? OK, I'll stay hard a while longer and let you ride while I count ceiling tiles. Lemme know when you're done." I find that, for myself at least, I need SOME kind of emotional connection to the person I'm screwing to really enjoy it. Good friends who fool around works, but someone I met once or twice at a bar or party? Hell no.

In any case, I'm sorry, but mature individuals don't let their lives be driven by their dicks, even in their 20s. 50 people is a stupid number, not something to be proud of. But whatever floats your boat, dude, go on with the shallow and meaningless crap if you want, just don't bitch about relationships. I even agree on some levels that women tend to be more manipulative and cruel than guys are, and yeah, I've been hurt really really badly before. Still doesn't mean I ran around planting my dick in anything that said yes.

-Arlos

EXACTLY!!

[Tacks]

martrae, fuck you and fuck <*BLEEP* again. Taxx is apparently a victim of frothing at the crotch, and has decided a certain naughty word is his vocabulary word of the week. This *IS* a modded forum. He wants to be infantile in that fashion, he's free to do it in EE. So sayeth the voice of Mod.

[Tacks]

hey look, i'm an important <*BLEEP*>
<*BLEEP*>

Voice of mod: Taxx couldn't play nice with everyone else, so he's been given a temporary timeout. Got tired of deleting 20-30 spam racial insult posts. That is all.

[KaiineTN]

I've already been with more women than I would have preferred in my entire lifetime, and I'm no where near 50. Hell, I don't think I've even had sex a total of 50 times yet.

How old is Diekan again?

[10sun]

I've already been with more women than I would have preferred in my entire lifetime, and I'm no where near 50. Hell, I don't think I've even had sex a total of 50 times yet.

How old is Diekan again?

fag.

Sorry, but you've had that one coming for years.

[leah]

I've already been with more women than I would have preferred in my entire lifetime, and I'm no where near 50. Hell, I don't think I've even had sex a total of 50 times yet.

How old is Diekan again?

i'm kind of in the same boat. my number is way higher than i would like (though not in the double-digits, thank goodness), but at least i've found one to stick with. hopefully this is it.

[Lyion]

Diekan's schtick is just psuedo macho single guy posturing. I'm surprised so many take it so seriously, but he does tend to try and get a reaction, in a very Taxx-like manner.

In regards to 'How many', for young guys it's a sign of competition and ego. Most of us went through periods of having lots and lots of sex. Sometimes even with other people. Most of us get into comfortable relationships with depth and partners who know us and are more than just the act.

For girls in relation to guys, it's a simple matter of lying and never discussing your previous sex life. Us guys are shallow, insecure critters with a bit of Diekan in us, and unless one is in denial about coming out of the closet (Hi Flink & Mark!) honestly we never, ever want to hear about another dude and you in any way.

[The Kizzy]

Wow, I've missed alot!!

My age is 33. I have slept with , oh I dunno 200 + men. (Yes, I just made that up)

Taxx is 27, if you care to know.

First off, let me say I have met Gyps at a Fan Faire, and she is beautiful and so much fun to hang around. She was nice to me because of Jay and Cal, she didn't even know me. Doesn't sound much like a snooty bitch, but that is my opinion.

That being said. I can kinda see where Diekan is coming from. The fat girl in me wants to scream out " IF YOU ONLY DATE A GIRL FOR HER LOOKS YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU GET." Which I do totally agree with. But You can't be in a relationship, a serious relationship, if you arent physically attracted to someone. I have tried, and they have all failed, including the one I am in currently. The guy is awesome in bed, freaking fantastic. He tries very hard to make me happy. I just can't see myself settling down with him, that attraction is just not there.

Diekan, stop lashing out at everyone, it isn't becoming of you.

[Tikker]

so break up with him now, and quit wasting his time

(seriously)


that's the kind of shit guys hate

spending all their time trying to work on a relationship while the whole time the chick is thinking about the next guy

[araby]

diekan why did you post that pic of that man was it supposed to look like someone? I thought that without the glasses, it kinda looked like you.

[brinstar]

if you do what you've always done, you're going to get what you've always got

[Diekan]

so break up with him now, and quit wasting his time

(seriously)


that's the kind of shit guys hate

spending all their time trying to work on a relationship while the whole time the chick is thinking about the next guy

BINGO... someone finally sees one of the points I have been trying to make.

I don't have a prob with Kizzy, never have... she's ok as far as I am concerned (she understands my latina fetish)...

But Tikker said exactly what I have been thinking...

Take Narrack for instance. He went out of his way to make that chick happy. He did everything right - all the while she is telling him this and that, playing his emotions only to dump him when she got what she needed.

My situation wasn't much different. If the chick I was with didn't want a relationship, fine, I could have dealt with that. But to sit there and feed me line after line about how much she cared for me... bla bla bla - then to dump me out of the blue with no real reason... is fucked up.

THAT is I have been bitching about. You women slam on men for everything from not holding doors for you, to spending too much time with our buddies - but what we do is far far far less damaging than what you do.

Kizzy, if you're not really into this guy you need to sit him down and have a talk. It's not fair for him to invest more of his emotions and life into something that isn't going to happen. Maybe he'd be fine with being a *special friend* - but be fair to him and let him know where you stand.

The part that Tikker forgot to add was "spending all their time trying to work on a relationship while the whole time the chick is thinking about the next guy -- all the while telling him how much she loves him and how happy she is with him."

[Gypsiyee]

that was moby, that musician who does techno-y stuff and just kind of bizarre music.

not a fan of his.. but i don't think he looks much like toss aside from he's got a shaved head and has dark glasses on.

[Diekan]

That leads me to my question.

Serious question - no flames, no insults, no rants -- I am curious to see how you women reply.

I know that YOU probably don't do this, but you are a woman, so....

Why do you women do that?

You have a guy you KNOW is into you. You KNOW he wants a relationship with you. He goes out of his way to make you happy and prove himself worthy to you. If you know in your heart he is not someone you see yourself with, then why do you do it? Why do you tell them you love them? Why do you lead them on by telling them how happy they make you? Why don't you come out and tell them how it is and move on? Why do you hang onto him and wait for the next best thing to come along then dump him?

Is it an insecurity issue? Do you feel that you should hang onto him in case the next best thing never comes?
Do you get pleasure out of hurting him in the end?
Do you feed off the drama it causes?

What is your take... I'm asking the women here - not the Taxx's, not the Harrisons... I want to know what you women think.

Again I am not saying YOU do it - but because you are in fact a female you should have a better idea of why than do we men.

[Martrae]

I'd say it's a dislike of hurting someone's feelings. I'd like to believe most women aren't cruel but they just don't know how to shut a guy down without either being too nice and unintentionally leading the guy on or coming off as a total bitch ice queen.

[Mop]

I'm posting this from my iPod I hope it gets me laid

[Gypsiyee]

In all honesty, the only times that I've actually done what I guess you view as deliberately fucking someone over is when I wouldn't really see that someone cared about me as much as they did and figured it wouldn't matter to them if the relationship, or 'talking' was over because its not like I was any big loss - it was due to me underestimating the capability of someone caring about me, be it low self esteem or lack of trust in people or whatever else.

With Scott, however - when we officially broke up and had held onto it longer than need be, it was mostly due to me feeling that I owed him to keep trying and stick around rather than just give up at the first sign that it just wasn't there anymore. At the time, I felt that it was the more selfless route, where in all reality I should've taken the route I mentioned above with him, because he probably would've been one of the ones who really didn't give a shit either way. Not that he didn't care about me, but he was just an all around nonchalant guy who couldn't really be bothered with emotion in any sense - it was either happy or angry, there were no other degrees of emotion involved. I don't think I fucked him over, we still talk.. but hanging onto the relationship when it was kind of over (for both of us) could probably be viewed the way you tend to view things. In all reality, I just didn't want to be responsible for someone's pain. In the other example above, I didn't think I was capable of causing pain, and if I did, I never would've done the things I have.

All in all, in my case it's been not knowing the degree of feelings the other side had due to lack of confidence in myself or feeling like I owed the other party better but in the end it just couldn't work out. I don't think that this is exclusive to women by any means, so much as nature of a lot of people in general. I can't really speak for other women, as to be honest there's a very real reason that I don't have a lot of female friends. I'd agree with you about many women - they can't be trusted, and they're manipulative and hurtful. My grandma used to tell me that you can't trust anyone but your mother, sister, and grandma as women go and I still believe that to this day - there are degrees of trust, obviously, but when it comes to full trust, those women are the only ones who will ever have it. That's not to say that I don't trust any women or have women friends - when you find great women friends they're more loyal friends than you will ever find in a man, no matter what your sex. I'd say the ratio for bad to good is 60/40, but the same goes for men. There's not necessarily more manipulation from women, imo - there are just different ways to do it, and women do it one way, and men do it another.

[Narrock]

if you do what you've always done, you're going to get what you've always got

I like the theory of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

That's why I'm officially stopping now to find "the right girl." I'm just gonna have fun for a while until my heart is fully mended. Fuck it.