Happy Birthday Harrison!

[Harrison]

I wish I could take off like that. I need it badly.

Everytime I get up something here kicks me down and keeps on kicking. My mom getting Lyme disease, that cunt, me getting sick and thinking it was lyme disease too (odds of that happening are so stupidly low I was seriously thinking God hated me), etc.

All in the same week...

[Maeya]

Terribly belated, but happy birthday. I'm sorry your day/week/month/year has turned out to be rotten so far.

Here's hoping it improves.

[Drem]

sounds like the girl that was interested in me til she got a ride to the airport out of me :p

sux man, some girls are bad news

[Harrison]

The ironic part is she was always begging me to trust her, talk to her more, etc. since I was so walled off at first. I held out for 4-5 months until she slithered her cuntery past my wall.

I almost blame myself for not seeing that coming. I thought I had learned to spot them at a distance. I figure she just changed so drastically there was no fucking way I could have saw it coming.

[Tossica]

The ironic part is she was always begging me to trust her, talk to her more, etc. since I was so walled off at first. I held out for 4-5 months until she slithered her cuntery past my wall.

I almost blame myself for not seeing that coming. I thought I had learned to spot them at a distance. I figure she just changed so drastically there was no fucking way I could have saw it coming.

Turn your heart in to a bear trap. Let them in but when they fuck with you, slam that shit shut and cut their heads off.

[Harrison]

That is quite possibly the best thing I've heard about it lol

[Drem]

The ironic part is she was always begging me to trust her, talk to her more, etc. since I was so walled off at first. I held out for 4-5 months until she slithered her cuntery past my wall.

I almost blame myself for not seeing that coming. I thought I had learned to spot them at a distance. I figure she just changed so drastically there was no fucking way I could have saw it coming.

i don't think she changed at all. it's just like a 3-step process with these types of bitches. i call them hold 'em girls. like poker and like holding your nuts. they say and do anything to get you in their hand, then they play their hand, then they take the winnings and walk away. and maybe they'll come back for another round in the future.

i think they learned this from dudes, because we always try the first step and girls always tell us "haha you stupid hopeless romantic". but when a girl tries it on a guy, he's usually so desperate he'll believe/do anything. girls really are in control of the dating game imo, because most guys will do anything a really pretty, convincing girl tells them to

[leah]

The ironic part is she was always begging me to trust her, talk to her more, etc. since I was so walled off at first. I held out for 4-5 months until she slithered her cuntery past my wall.

I almost blame myself for not seeing that coming. I thought I had learned to spot them at a distance. I figure she just changed so drastically there was no fucking way I could have saw it coming.

Turn your heart in to a bear trap. Let them in but when they fuck with you, slam that shit shut and cut their heads off.

heeee i love this advice :P

[Harrison]

i don't think she changed at all. it's just like a 3-step process with these types of bitches. i call them hold 'em girls. like poker and like holding your nuts. they say and do anything to get you in their hand, then they play their hand, then they take the winnings and walk away. and maybe they'll come back for another round in the future.

i think they learned this from dudes, because we always try the first step and girls always tell us "haha you stupid hopeless romantic". but when a girl tries it on a guy, he's usually so desperate he'll believe/do anything. girls really are in control of the dating game imo, because most guys will do anything a really pretty, convincing girl tells them to

I think it's more, "She's a chickenshit who saw something real, and ran away before it became so. It's easier to fuck it up than to face it."

I know she meant it when she said she loved me. I know she's a chickenshit afraid of getting hurt too. Fuck that "afraid to hurt you" shit, it's code for "I'm a chickenshit cunt and am going to hurt you and run away now so you won't come back."

[Drem]

yeah that's deep down in everyone though. no one wants to be a rampaging whore their entire life

[Narrock]

Happy Birthday Harrison

[kaharthemad]

Im of two minds...
1) just forget about her...however thats hard to do man...


Or
2) take her back... get her so drunk she passes out. While she is out cold strip her naked and place a sheep, spandex, two gerbils and a rubber chicken in the bedroom with her. close the door. and leave her place forever.
Let her mind try and figure out WTF she did.


its not nice but hell you will laugh about it for years to come.

[Harrison]

I just told her to stay away from me for an undisclosed period of time. She called me all upset the other night and I wanted no part of it.

I said what I needed to say and I said I'm not going to put myself through any more childish bullshit. I've fucking had enough of this shit for years. I'm doing much, much better emotionally though.

I'm back in control and she knows she fucked up, hard.

[Harrison]

I didn't resort to any name-calling, angry words, nothing. I did crawl into the hole that is my room for a few days...but, I didn't lash out like I normally do.

If the friendship survives long enough, I'm definitely holding this shit over her head for the duration of it.

[Gypsiyee]

i don't think she changed at all. it's just like a 3-step process with these types of bitches. i call them hold 'em girls. like poker and like holding your nuts. they say and do anything to get you in their hand, then they play their hand, then they take the winnings and walk away. and maybe they'll come back for another round in the future.

i think they learned this from dudes, because we always try the first step and girls always tell us "haha you stupid hopeless romantic". but when a girl tries it on a guy, he's usually so desperate he'll believe/do anything. girls really are in control of the dating game imo, because most guys will do anything a really pretty, convincing girl tells them to

I think this is 100% on the money~

[Harrison]

I don't know, I don't think a girl this attractive would be after me for that long when there's plenty of other victims around readily available.

[Gypsiyee]

from the sounds of it, you weren't the only 'victim' though.. surely you don't think she's not going to fuck over your friend too? same game, different guy

bitches ain't shit, yo o.O

[kaharthemad]

I don't know, I don't think a girl this attractive would be after me for that long when there's plenty of other victims around readily available.

Vampires like to keep with the same diet. Changing diet makes them bilious.

hand thye bitch some tums and tell her to suck the life out of someone else.

[Harrison]

He's not the relationship type. You can't get fucked over if you're just in it for the pussy.

[Drem]

I don't know, I don't think a girl this attractive would be after me for that long when there's plenty of other victims around readily available.

It's because you're the fall guy. You established yourself at one point or another as her emotional safety net. I have an ex that still calls me and hits on me when we're at the same party and she's alone. She makes all sorts of bogus plans and such for later that week and tries to get me to believe her so desperately that after the third or fourth let-down, over a year ago, I stopped taking her seriously. Now she's alone, miserable, friend-less, and actually 86-ed from various bars because she's fucked her life up so much by sleeping around that certain bouncers won't let her into the bars, heh. Do what you do, get what you get, etc., and now she's reeling from it

I learned not to invest so much emotionally and it's really paid off on all my dates since then. Hopefully you learned not to become that guy for the next girl you meet until you're sure it'll be a little more serious.... which isn't something I can tell you how to look for

And I know this might sound really stupid, but for dudes like us that got into physical shape at a later age, we're not used to girls actually giving a shit. Right after I'd lost a lot of weight I basically took everything that came my way, good and bad, because I had no idea.... like I was getting the dating experience most dudes probably got during high school

Just seriously... move on. Talk to her if you see her around but don't go out of your way

[Harrison]

We were friends long before we started hooking up, for quite a while, actually. I didn't just meet her out of the blue at some party and start hooking up with her and hanging out regularly.

What I'm trying to say is, I was the "fall guy" because that's what I am as a friend. People come to me when they have a problem. *shrug* I've always been the one people come to for advice.

[leah]

And I know this might sound really stupid, but for dudes like us that got into physical shape at a later age, we're not used to girls actually giving a shit. Right after I'd lost a lot of weight I basically took everything that came my way, good and bad, because I had no idea.... like I was getting the dating experience most dudes probably got during high school

that's not stupid--i went through the same thing. :\ it's hard!!

[Drem]

ya, it was pretty lame

but really josh, it's fine to be the guy people come to for advice, but when you start to get caught up in their lives and it kinda holds you back from spreading your wings and finding something a lot better, it might be to time to start cutting some ppl out of your life

[brinstar]

better yet, move out of that shithole and find a nice place with good people to be friends with

[Martrae]

better yet, move out of that shithole and find a nice place with good people to be friends with