Question:

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Sep 23, 2008 7:35 am

Grandfather's funeral or best man at best friend's wedding?

Discuss.

Gypsiyee · Post by **Gypsiyee** » Tue Sep 23, 2008 7:43 am

A question that can only be answered with a question, my good sir.

How close were you with your grandfather?

I would say attend the wake if they have one, and be your best friend's best man. Nothing more can be done for your grandfather, and there are other ways to mourn than to attend the funeral. Life is much more worth living if you grieve where appropriate but celebrate as often as you can.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Tue Sep 23, 2008 7:54 am

I spent a lot of time with him.

The difficulty lies in the fact that he died and will be interred in Seattle and I live in Ohio.

I think that I should not be the dark cloud on my friend's wedding day and instead default my position to the other guy who could have gotten the job earlier.

Trielelvan · Post by **Trielelvan** » Tue Sep 23, 2008 8:18 am

That sounds to me like your heart is pulling you to Seattle.
Your friend will understand I'm sure, and though being part of his wedding is a special, memorable thing, you only get to say your last "goodbye" once.
Whatever you choose to do, don't feel guilty about your decision.
My condolences Adam. I hope he went peacefully.

KaiineTN · Post by **KaiineTN** » Tue Sep 23, 2008 11:07 pm

If you could ask your grandfather, what do you think he'd say? If I was your grandfather, I'd say get your ass to that wedding and forget about me.

Nusk · Post by **Nusk** » Tue Sep 23, 2008 11:22 pm

dead is dead and there is nothing you can do about it...while a wedding is a beginning of a new life

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 12:32 am

You can always make a new best friend to be the best man for. But your grandfather only dies once.

10sun · Post by **10sun** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 5:56 am

Picked up the tickets. Flying out Friday to Seattle for the weekend to have sex with Dylan.

Talked things over with my friend & his fiancee and they wanted me to go to Seattle.

Lionking · Post by **Lionking** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:34 am

Your best friend is a good best friend.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 8:20 am

Being a best man at a wedding sucks anyway.

Eziekial · Post by **Eziekial** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:01 am

Yeah but you get a chance to fuck the maid of honor though :vv:

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:27 am

Just like anyone else does...

Eziekial · Post by **Eziekial** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:31 am

True, but at least you get first crack at it.

Post by **Tossica** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:54 am

I was best man at a wedding 2 weekends ago. Not only could I have banged the maid of honor but the brides MOM was hitting on me all night as well!

Eziekial · Post by **Eziekial** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 11:36 am

Something about weddings get girls all worked up.

Evermore · Post by **Evermore** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 11:54 am

Tossica wrote:I was best man at a wedding 2 weekends ago. Not only could I have banged the maid of honor but the brides MOM was hitting on me all night as well!

so did you hit either?

Kramer · Post by **Kramer** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 2:07 pm

good choice, and you have a good friend

Post by **Tossica** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:32 am

Evermore wrote:
Tossica wrote:I was best man at a wedding 2 weekends ago. Not only could I have banged the maid of honor but the brides MOM was hitting on me all night as well!

so did you hit either?

Not exactly. The maid of honor dropped her pants and had me whip her with a belt so I did in fact hit her.

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