I must have overlooked the barking, that can be another dominance issue where again he is in charge and runs the show, you guys are members of his pack.
Barking is a tough one. My large field lab whom we got from a rescue league failed her tests to become a leader for the blind dog. Her barking is so ingrained because of her training as a pup, she can't be trained to bark on command, that is actually one of the easiest tricks to teach a dog, she was trained to ONLY bark when the phone rang, a doorbell, or a knock. We've been able to correct her on the phone (thank god) but the doorbell and knocking, I'll admit I've given up
. The other 2 dogs, it's a coin toss at times, if Kona (black field lab) barks, it's a 50/50 shot that Buddy or Coco start up, generally I just look at them, project "dominance", and they stop. For Kona, I just acknowledge what she heard, and she'll stop (i.e. walk to the door).
You'd be surprised how poorly negative reinforcement works vs. dominance and "acceptable" behavior. Just as you've seen with your bitter apple attempts. He didn't learn a thing other than to avoid you. Just like hitting a dog, often times you project "evil" onto them and typically one of two things take place
- the dog becomes fearful of you
- the dog becomes more aggressive
Check out his book, you'd probably garnish more off it than weeks of what training would do. Or at least try to check out his show now and again, I think you'd be shocked at what dominance and passive-submissive behavior can accomplish. Even after watching him for a few years now, to see what he can accomplish in just a few hours, its amazing.