OK question

[Diekan]

So I have been dating this chick...

During the course of our "night" she asks me if I trust her and if I did would I take "it off" - referring to the rubber I am wearing.

This is like the second or third different woman that has made this request.

Wtf gives?

I'm not sure what to make of this rather odd request...

[Tuggan]

i knew a bitch that enjoyed the feeling of cum "draining" "leaking" whatever term you want to use from her vag. maybe she's one of them.

i would be pretty freaked out if she asked if i trust her, then wanted me to take off the condom. all i would be thinking is "IT'S A TRAP!"

[Jay]

Some women don't like the feel of latex (or Polypropelene) and want it bare. That really shouldn't be an option until you've been a ways into your monogamous relationship, and even then you're taking risks (especially if you're charming like Sir Diekan).

[Harrison]

I sometimes think Diekan is masquerading as an adult.

He's really 17.

There's no way you have to ask this shit to a forum at your supposed age.

[brinstar]

tell her "tough shit"

also you're a moron for posting this

[Spazz]

Skeet skeet skeet.

[Gypsiyee]

even as one of those women that hates the feeling of latex, I gotta say you'd be a moron to take it off with a woman you're casually dating - at your age especially, there's all sorts of red flags going off.

[leah]

this makes me glad for my stable monogamous relationship ^^

also, spazz's "skeet skeet skeet" made me lol and tuggan's comment made me want to barf a little.

other than that, i don't really have much to add here except to agree with "don't do it, man!!" hehe . . . even if it kills some romance, there's still such a chance for bad consequences that it's not worth sparing her the feeling of latex or whatever or hurting her feelings because you don't "trust" her. maybe if you'd been dating for a while, you know? otherwise this just smacks of suspiciousness and at the very least is probably just risky.

[ClakarEQ]

Before my now wife and I did the deed, we both demanded medical documents to show we're "clean". The deal is, unless you go and check, you don't know what you've got, so my response to the question you were asked, would be "Sure, not this time though, for the next time you'll just need to provide your urine and blood test results".

EDIT
Monogomy doesn't keep you away from some things though. At the end of the day, you are still in a strange way fucking any of his or her prior loves, so just keep that in mind regardless what relationship you're in or the length of it. Unless you know you took their virginity you're running a risky game IMO. Men and some women will lie to your face to get laid. Some nasties don't even show up right away and could take years / months before "symptoms" appear.

[Gypsiyee]

I wouldn't even be as worried about the STD's as the apparent (and by apparent I mean blatantly obvious) sneaky sneaky "make me a baby" issue.

[Tuggan]

i bet it's that slick whip you be pickin' these hos up in diek. they want a sugar daddy, and what better way to guarantee a monthly check than a baby from a dude with $$$$.

[Darcler]

[Maeya]

Going through a microbiology class and being in the current lecture where we're discussing all the nasty little buggies involved in STDs DO NOT DO IT.

I can share this PowerPoint with you if you want a refresher in it. Especially since with women, many times they can be asymptomatic and not even realize they are carrying an STD.

Not to mention what Leah mentioned, with pregnancy. ESPECIALLY since this is you and you've shared what types of women you date. I can fully imagine she's just looking for a golden ticket to fat child support checks. (Although in Georgia they've changed the law on those to take the mother's salary into consideration too. Finally.)

Any way you color it, I can't begin to express what a TERRIBLE idea that would be to let her talk you into it.

[Harrison]

Why take the time to answer such a ridiculous question with any sincerity? He's what? 40+?

You'd have to be full-blown retarded to have to ask it at that age.

[brinstar]

i bet it's that slick whip you be pickin' these hos up in diek. they want a sugar daddy, and what better way to guarantee a monthly check than a baby from a dude with $$$$.

he convinced himself long ago that the only/best way to get women is to look rich

small wonder he keeps picking up the scum of the earth lol


one of these days he's going to get scammed hard, and then he'll have even more fuel for his already blazing misogyny

[araby]

he stole this from yahoo!answers. right?