I'm going to Denmark

Maeya · Post by **Maeya** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 9:44 am

'Men marry women hoping they will never change... Women marry men hoping that they eventually will."

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 10:48 am

Darcler wrote:
Phlegm wrote:
Juls wrote:Blah blah blah ...

Since then, he has changed more into being more interested in Wow than me. His excuse to me was because i was pressuring him (along with his whole family) to get a job and find a place of his own. So thats when the problem occured.

Blah blah blah ...

No.2 : To see what are the requirements to get married...etc..

Blah blah blah ...

Why would you want to marry an unemployed guy who still lives at home and has no desire to get a job? All you will be doing is working to support while he stays home and game.

And this is exactly where my face came from.

hits close to home?

Juls · Post by **Juls** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:10 pm

Tacks wrote:1) he has no job
2) you have no job
3) you're moving to another country where you know nobody but him
4) he'd rather play games than spend time with you
5) you're the typical female who's starved for attention and will take any you can get even if it's borderline abuse

1: he is studying again.. government gives him allowance
2 : im on a holiday!
3 : Belive it or not i have more friends in Denmark than he does. And im not moving
4: nope not really... i guess u dont know me enough

Maeya totally agree with that ! So i said IF he doenst change or grow up its the end but at least i know we tried

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:12 pm

Hahaha... what a loser.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:15 pm

Juls wrote:
Tacks wrote:1) he has no job
2) you have no job
3) you're moving to another country where you know nobody but him
4) he'd rather play games than spend time with you
5) you're the typical female who's starved for attention and will take any you can get even if it's borderline abuse

1: he is studying again.. government gives him allowance
2 : im on a holiday!
3 : Belive it or not i have more friends in Denmark than he does. And im not moving
4: nope not really... i guess u dont know me enough

Maeya totally agree with that ! So i said IF he doenst change or grow up its the end but at least i know we tried

Please post back here when it's over so all 328083509 of us can say I told you so.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:30 pm

Tacks wrote:
Darcler wrote:
Phlegm wrote:
Juls wrote:Blah blah blah ...

Since then, he has changed more into being more interested in Wow than me. His excuse to me was because i was pressuring him (along with his whole family) to get a job and find a place of his own. So thats when the problem occured.

Blah blah blah ...

No.2 : To see what are the requirements to get married...etc..

Blah blah blah ...

Why would you want to marry an unemployed guy who still lives at home and has no desire to get a job? All you will be doing is working to support while he stays home and game.

And this is exactly where my face came from.

hits close to home?

When did I marry some unemployed guy who lived at home and had no desire to get a job? Who did I support to stay at home and game while I worked?
You really are losing your touch.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:37 pm

flip it around once

replace "game" with surf NT all day.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:40 pm

I explained this already.No day cares around that will watch children under 6 months. There is one but it is so expensive that I would literally be working to pay for the day care of just him plus a little left over for gas. I'll wait until we move, thanks.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:45 pm

I'm still curious how that's any different than from what she's doing. It's ok for you to judge her for the same thing you're doing basically? I just found that funny. If anything, her situation is less ridiculous than yours.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:51 pm

I'm not working because I CANT. I would if I could but I cant. I would fucking love to get out of the house and make some extra Christmas money, but I cant.
I mean, if you want to watch my son for less than 250 a week, I'll go get a job, until then, I'll stay home.

Post by **DangerPaul** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:55 pm

shut up

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 2:56 pm

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:00 pm

I really don't think you want me to get into this. Do you think you're the only one in the entire world in this situation? And yet you have the balls to sit there and call out Juls for doing what she's doing even though she has no dependants?

Anytime I hear someone say they "can't" do something I just roll my eyes. 9 times out of 10 it's because they don't feel like it, or maybe just like surfing the internet all day and relying on other people who actually work to support them.

Here's an idea, keep your legs closed till you can afford it.

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:04 pm

Video games and taking care of a baby are two completely different things imho.

Stabfase · Post by **Stabfase** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:05 pm

Dylan wrote:Video games and taking care of a baby are two completely different things imho.

why choose when you can do both!

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:07 pm

Dylan wrote:Video games and taking care of a baby are two completely different things imho.

yet both involve people who don't work...one costs $15 a month, the other costs $15 a day.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:08 pm

Well, I can, but what would be the point? I would have so little of the money NOT going to day care for just the one child that it isnt worth it.
I stopped working in the first place because Gid said he made enough that I didnt need to. The only reason we are tight on money this month is because Gid quit his job for the Army, but the Army pushed his BCT date back, which is making us go longer without a paycheck.

I just dont see the logic behind going to Denmark to see a "boyfriend" who has already made it clear that the video games are more important that she is, unwilling to get a job, so much so that he cut people out of his life that were urging him to get one. On top of this, she is looking into marriage requirements.

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:08 pm

Well, what is she supposed to do? Take the kid to work?

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:11 pm

Tacks wrote:
Dylan wrote:Video games and taking care of a baby are two completely different things imho.

yet both involve people who don't work...one costs $15 a month, the other costs $15 a day.

$50 for my son. At the day care I take my daughter to, its $25 a day.

Stabfase · Post by **Stabfase** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:12 pm

turn your house into a daycare omg

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:13 pm

Or eat the babies.

With sauce.

Tacks · Post by **Tacks** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:14 pm

Uh try re-reading what I was saying there.

And it's obvious you think what you're doing is fine, so yeah...

and for 250 a week where the fuck are you working, Burger King?

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:26 pm

For someone with minimal work experience (I've had few jobs but I kept them forever) and no college background, my choice of high paying jobs isnt that great. So Burger King isnt that far off, I was planning on being a cashier somewhere. Or I could go back to being a file bitch at the dentist's office, but thats much further away so more of my paycheck would be going towards gas.

Stabfase · Post by **Stabfase** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:28 pm

time to buy a bike

Insanityfair · Post by **Insanityfair** » Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:28 pm

Darcler wrote:I'm not working because I CANT. I would if I could but I cant. I would fucking love to get out of the house and make some extra Christmas money, but I cant.
I mean, if you want to watch my son for less than 250 a week, I'll go get a job, until then, I'll stay home.

I would totally watch your kid for less than that. My cousin only charges around $150/wk per kid. I don't know what your living situation is (house, apartment whatnot) but could you get licensed for doing daycare? I thought about it but I don't know that legally I could being I live in an apartment. Pretty decent money and you don't have to leave and can keep your own kids there. If you're looking for extra Christmas money it might not be a bad idea if you can swing it.