So a friend calls me tonight

Jazendar · Post by **Jazendar** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 12:36 am

Ok, I took two summer classes this year. This girl, 29 years old, sat next to me in math class. Lives with her boyfriend who's a firefighter (36 years old) and is always out and about. She almost never sees him, but he asked her to move in with him (she lives about 30 minutes away, in arbuckle, i live in woodland, by sacramento). I recently broke up with my girlfriend, am 20 years old, she's 29. She's really good looking too, we bullshitted a lot in math class as friends, she bought me a few drinks to give her test questions, etc etc. I didn't think i'd ever have a chance with a girl like her, aside from her age and her boyfriend, she's just really out there.

Being that she's new to the area, she hasn't met a lot of new people. She knows her huge lonely house that she often lives in by herself in arbuckle, and the way to the college in sacramento, that's about it.

She calls me tonight, out of the blue, i haven't talked to her in a few days, and she says "So basically andy, i've decided you're going to have sex with me tomarrow." At first I heard it as "My boyfriend is coming over to have sex with me tomarrow." I had to reask her what she said like 3 times because I didn't think id heard her correctly. She asked me if I was up for it, and asked for no strings attached, obviously. I hesitated a little, and she said "Well, you're legal." So she asked me to drive over tomarrow morning before her classes around 10, I told her that I wasn't going to go to the house her 36 year old boyfriend could randomly end up.

Anyway, so she is coming here tomarrow morning before her classes, i'm 20, she's 29. It'l be interesting.

I don't know why i'm posting this, just a big shock and i'm still kinda debating it, if her 36 year old boyfriend somehow found out, well, asta la vista NT.

Tikker · Post by **Tikker** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 12:46 am

need a web cam feed

Diekan · Post by **Diekan** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 12:53 am

With all the women out there you have to ask yourself if it's worth it. Do you REALLY think she's going to keep it a secret forever? All it takes is for one huge fight between them and she tells him she fucked some guy from school to get back at him.... then they'll make up and she'll come clean with everything and probably even tell him who you are.

There are too many single women out there... you have NO IDEA how this dude is going to respond once he finds out - and he will find out sooner or later.

Jazendar · Post by **Jazendar** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 12:57 am

But she's a little different than the one who would blow up and tell him everything. He's the one kind of answering to her almost it would seem, she's been on her own since she was like 17 from the east coast, moving around different places, was in the army as a medic or whatever, she's an ambitious beautiful girl, and is very upfront about most things. But I mean, she vented or whatever sometiems about her boyfriend and how he can never be home and how lonely she is. She just kinda wants it and that's it, no obligations or anything, she's using me =/

Maeya · Post by **Maeya** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:36 am

You're a bad person. And so is she. I can't believe you're both so casual about having an affair. She has a boyfriend and like it or not, she is involved in a relationship. If she's so lonely and unhappy, she needs to break it off with that man.

And people wonder why 50% of marriages fail today. No honor, no committment, no loyalty.

Damnit I hate people who cheat.

Evermore · Post by **Evermore** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:40 am

nail her hardcore.

and post pix

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:35 am

whoa.....she has a case of the mrs. robinsons

bang away jazz

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:37 am

Don't listen to these bitches. Fuck her. It's not as if you have a girlfriend. If a girl wants to have sex with you and she's in a relationship, it's her fault, not yours.

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:38 am

Ginzburgh wrote:Don't listen to these bitches. Fuck her. It's not as if you have a girlfriend. If a girl wants to have sex with you and she's in a relationship, it's her fault, not yours.

I tend to agree with Ginz.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:39 am

And I expect a full report sparing little detail.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:39 am

ok I was joking..you are right to question your actions...it isn't moral to fuck someone else's woman. what comes around goes around...if you start fucking other people's old ladies, then don't be shocked when someone fucks yours someday.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:41 am

That wont happen if he picks the right girl and he's good to her. Obviously the firefighter failed, it doesn't mean that Jaz will.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:42 am

I think it will make Jazz more apt to be jealous of his woman in the future. Every action has a reaction.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:43 am

I've hooked up with girls who have boyfriends and I couldn't conceive of my girlfriend cheating on me. Maybe I'm just a shallow prick though.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:44 am

LOL maybe:P

Guntaag Gorefeast · Post by **Guntaag Gorefeast** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:20 am

You're a bad person. And so is she. I can't believe you're both so casual about having an affair. She has a boyfriend and like it or not, she is involved in a relationship. If she's so lonely and unhappy, she needs to break it off with that man.

And people wonder why 50% of marriages fail today. No honor, no committment, no loyalty.

Damnit I hate people who cheat.

What comes around goes around

This girls living with this dude. Shes moved in with him. That is a big commitment. Her pussy is lonely so she meets you and a few days later decides hey, wanna f? If she was worth anything she would leave him or try to make it work if she really cared about him. Instead shes going to go fuck around with a guy a decade younger than her. And for the record, im 20. I can see this thru your eyes and how obviously tempting it would be on a certain level.

Youll find more real satisfaction in life if you dont give in to meaningless sex/affairs. Go ahead and boink her, youll be just as lonely when youre done and that much less trusting of women. And she'll be worse off for it too. This shit makes me sick. Goes on all around the place. Every day i doubt more and more I will ever find a worthwhile woman. How common is it for girls to fuck around like this ladies? Not asking for confessions (but it would be funny to hear you confess to fucking around on my aten ;P) But yall have friends. Enlighten me. Is dieken right in his post the other day about always picking up married chicks? I mean,i guess i dont doubt him but how common is it really?

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:40 am

I laugh at all of you who are judging people you don't even know.

Guntaag Gorefeast · Post by **Guntaag Gorefeast** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:50 am

Obviously the firefighter failed

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:56 am

Every day i doubt more and more I will ever find a worthwhile woman.

You are 20. You will have a tough time finding a worthwhile girl at 20 because most girls your age are dancing on bars and looking for hookups. Just go with it. By the time 27-30 comes around, people start to buckle down, it's more likely you will find a worthwhile girl at this time.

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:58 am

God I give good advice.

leah · Post by **leah** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:01 am

Maeya wrote:You're a bad person. And so is she. I can't believe you're both so casual about having an affair. She has a boyfriend and like it or not, she is involved in a relationship. If she's so lonely and unhappy, she needs to break it off with that man.

And people wonder why 50% of marriages fail today. No honor, no committment, no loyalty.

Damnit I hate people who cheat.

amen.

i have never cheated, and will never cheat.

i've been cheated on, though, and it's the worst feeling ever. nothing hurts more than that kind of betrayal.

do what you want, and i'm sure you will, but it's most certainly not the right thing to do.

-edit for spelling mistake hehe-

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:15 am

Women are so irrational.

Zanchief · Post by **Zanchief** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:23 am

leah wrote:
Maeya wrote:You're a bad person. And so is she. I can't believe you're both so casual about having an affair. She has a boyfriend and like it or not, she is involved in a relationship. If she's so lonely and unhappy, she needs to break it off with that man.

And people wonder why 50% of marriages fail today. No honor, no committment, no loyalty.

Damnit I hate people who cheat.

amen.

i have never cheated, and will never cheat.

i've been cheated on, though, and it's the worst feeling ever. nothing hurts more than that kind of betrayal.

do what you want, and i'm sure you will, but it's most certainly not the right thing to do.

-edit for spelling mistake hehe-

But it's not really his moral quandary, it's hers. The only thing he should be asking himself is whether he wants to sleep with a chick thatâ€™s immoral.

A married woman on the other hand is different.

Gargamellow · Post by **Gargamellow** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:24 am

ya..it is pretty common for women to cheat..but then it is pretty common for men to cheat..that is why they say that true love doesn't exist..but i think it does...it is just that cheaters can never find it because they have fucked their head up so badly they can never trust in that way

lord knows virra is the most loyal guy i have ever been with in my life and he pays the price for the cheating my ex did on me..it is rough getting over that kind of shit..i feel sorry for this fire fighter guy..who, might i add, spends his days caring for others and saving lives, homes, and businesses..this woman needs her face kicked in..and he deserves better...so go ahead, jazzy..fuck the cunt..she deserves to get dumped like a whore...but you will pay the price when you find someone you love..you plain won't trust her

Ginzburgh · Post by **Ginzburgh** » Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:29 am

i feel sorry for this fire fighter guy..who, might i add, spends his days caring for others and saving lives, homes, and businesses..this woman needs her face kicked in..and he deserves better

Like I said earlier, I laugh at people who judge people they don't know.

You feel bad for the firefighter?? You don't even know the people involved? What if he treats her like shit, what if he cheated on her and she is pulling her "get dick free card". What if he beats the fuck out of her every other day. There are so many factors involved that you can't form a logical opinion from the information in this thread. That's why I said that "women are so irrational". Your opinion in this thread is based on your own history rather than the matter at hand.