Martrae wrote:You haven't a clue. How do you 'placate' a woman that's laughing hysterically one minute and crying like her heart is broken the next? Pregnancy hormones are a bitch.
I've lived through 3 pregnancies since I was 18 and now a fourth, my younger sister. I know what I am talking about.
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you're comparing being the cool uncle to being the father though, in one situation anything you do to help is probably appreciated, in the other you're responsible for it
I didnt have it done because of the risks to me. As I said earlier, I still have a chance of getting pregnant, though it is etopic and life threatening if it doesnt terminate by itself.
The man has no *real* risks like the female does. That is why I didnt have it done while she was already in there.
Plus, when she (OB) asked me while I was still pregnant about 2 months ago if I wanted the procedure done, I hesitated and she made the decision for me. She wont do it if the woman isnt 100% sure.
Plus who knows, I might lose my mind one day and want another one. It's not like I am driving Gid to the dr. office tomrorrow. We are talking a couple years before any decision is set in stone.
that car sucked and was a total flop because people couldn't park anywhere without getting stuck or hitting other folk's doors..the only reason anyone bought those pices of shit is because they were futuristic...that and the creator was busted for dealing giant amounts of coke..bam..no more cars.
Martrae wrote:You haven't a clue. How do you 'placate' a woman that's laughing hysterically one minute and crying like her heart is broken the next? Pregnancy hormones are a bitch.
I've lived through 3 pregnancies since I was 18 and now a fourth, my younger sister. I know what I am talking about.
there is a big difference when your the daddy sir. a BIG difference
Lets see.........swollen balls for a few days, you get to sit on pain meds and have your wife wait on you hand and foot, or (in some cases) have to take pills for the rest of your life because you don't want hair growing on your chin as a woman. Hmmmm. David had the V snip. He said it was uncomfortable, but didn't hurt. He got to sit around for a weekend and do nothing while I waited on him hand and foot.
I am going in to get the surgery done later this year as David and I arent together anymore and I don't want any more children at this stage. I am way too old
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Harrison wrote:I'm not dead
Fucker never listens to me. That's it, I'm an atheist.
Eh I guess if thats what a guy wants to do, i dont really care, its his choice and there nothing wrong with that. But personally im not getting that done because some a woman wants me to, hell I wouldnt even want something like that suggested to me, they're my nuts and if I wanted it done I would have done it already
Inside each person lives two wolves. One is loyal, kind, respectful, humble and open to the mystery of life. The other is greedy, jealous, hateful, afraid and blind to the wonders of life. They are in battle for your spirit. The one who wins is the one you feed.
The only downside....well I probably shouldnt say only, as there are probably more in his mind....to him getting this done is the SLIM slim chance of him pulling something during recovery that would ruin his career.
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Meh, from *my* point of view *nobody* is going to get me to have that done. If he goes through with it, hes more of a man that me.
Someone earlier said its reversible? Is there any chance of somethin fuckin up and it not bein able to be fixed if I would decides to have more kids? If theres any chance at all, I wouldnt do it. Seein as divorces are dime a dozen and no matter how happy people are, they still for some reason end up in divorce, and could leave me possibly wanting kids in a later marriage. I guess Im weird, but i always think of shit in the worst case scenario.
If he goes through with it, hes more of a man that me.
More of man because he does what someone else tells him to? Sorry, but if the woman doesn't want to have more kids, SHE better be getting the snip no matter how much easier it would be on him.
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