Markarado wrote:When I was in Shanghai we started having problems. When I got back it was OK for the first week. After that she started treating me like shit. She'd get upset over every little fucking thing I said. Fpr example, my car needed some repairs and I asked her if I could drive her to work and use her car for the day. I knew that she might need the car to meet a customer for legal documents and such. I had a week off from school, so I told her that it would be no problem to come pick her up and take her to wherever she might need to go. I could live without a car for a day, but I wanted to be able to get to the gym. She went off on me, saying shit like I was trying to spend more time with her at work. WTF?
It got much much much worse than that. She humiliated me in public, treated me like shit, etc.... Finally she brought up the topic. She said that she realized she was treating me like shit, that she wasn't appreciating me like she should, etc... She then told me that she didn't want to continue hurting me, but that she couldn't help it. She said it was because she realized she was still in love with her ex. OUCH! That fucking hurt.. really hurt...
After we broke up she immediately started hanging out with him. I couldn't go to a club without running into them. For fucks sake, there are several clubs in the city... we just happened to go to the same places on the same nights. You can imagine how painful that was, and how it ruined my nights out every fucking time. I then hooked up with another girl. This chick was all over me in the club. I kept my hands off her out of respect for Amy (my ex). I didn't want to cause any drama, and I've realized that Amy truely is a drama queen. She saw this chick holding me hand for a brief second. She came up to me and said that she hates me. WTF?
So I hold hands with a girl for a brief second as I pull her through a crowd and I'm doing something wrong? I have to see Amy with her ex all over the fucking place. I have people come up to me ALL the time asking what happened to Amy and I. And OF COURSE they mention that they've seen Amy with her ex a lot. Does that bitch have ANY idea how that makes me feel?
Fucking bitch cunt... I fucking hate her.. Respect her? Fuck that.. fuck that bitch.. She threw me out like yesterdays trash. Her loss - not mine. I'm the good guy throughout this.
Dude... seriously... don't take this the wrong way or as a personal "attack." Think of it more as tough love (not in that gay man love kind of way either).... but seriously bro... you really gotta grow a pair.
You sound like you've been locked in a room and forced to watch Oprah, We, Lifetime, and Oxygen for hours upon hours upon hours on end until you cracked.
There is far to much poon out there to let ONE chick act a fool on you and get away with it. Women are funny creatures - they'll test the water and if they can get away with giving you shit - if you prove that they can get away with it they'll do it every chance they get and will lose that much more respect for you each and every time until they finally have zero respect for you.
You don't have to be a complete dick to her - but you've gotta act like you've got some nuts and tell her to get straight or she's gone.