I am not reading through this all but I have a suggestion.
You do not need to get the info from your birth mother, adoptions have legal paperwork. Being that you were to person adopted you can go and request access to this paperwork. Perhaps through a phone call to the area you were adopted in even since you are in another country right now.
Donnel wrote:
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Were your birth parents married? I dont feel like looking on page 1 to see ifyou said they were or not.
If they weren't, and your mom didnt put him on the brth certificate, there is nothing you can do unless your mom wants you to know.
If they were married but he still isnt on the birth certificate, you can possibly try going to a family tree site and looking it up by your birth moms name. Its how we tracked down my cousins brother.
I think you're fucked as far as searching goes. Only your mom can do something now.
At least if they were married, you *might* be able to track down a marriage license, but I dont think there is anything you can track down that would connect him with your mom.
I have an idea Mark. Start a rumor about how you got 20 million dollars from a good investment and how you learned everything you know from the Malaysian parents that adopted you and spread the word throughout wherever you think he is. He'll get in contact with you.
I think the way i see it, your birth dad might be thinking that you never did existed. Maybe your birthmom told him she was pregnant but he didnt bother and thought ..damn i think she wants money for an abortion.. and thought she did just that. Just a presumption.
Also, i doubt there is any adoption paperworks right? I'm thinking your mom just passed you to her sister without any paperworks.. i could be wrong...
Even if there was paperwork, his dad doesnt have to be on it. He isnt on the birth certificate and he didnt have to sign off on him since they werent married.
I could be wrong, but just handing your kid over would be illegal. There has to be paperwork, but as mentioned previously that won't get me anywhere.
Juls he knows I exist;p He was the one who informed my birth mother about 5 years ago that he had a family that has no idea I exist. That was when I first inquired about him.
There's your answer then. She must have mentioned you to him and his way of declining was to tell you his family didn't know you existed.
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Markarado wrote:I could be wrong, but just handing your kid over would be illegal. There has to be paperwork, but as mentioned previously that won't get me anywhere.
Juls he knows I exist;p He was the one who informed my birth mother about 5 years ago that he had a family that has no idea I exist. That was when I first inquired about him.
Yeah, if he is talking to your mom who has the ability to contact you or get contact information from her and he still hasnt called you or anything, I would take that as a hint.
I'd like to meet him and my half-sister some day, but I'd start out by emailing him. If he's really not cool about meeting some day then fine. We won't meet.
