Hard family times

Post by **Martrae** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 2:13 pm

araby wrote:
Martrae wrote:Oh baby you
you got what I need
but you say he just a friend
you say he just a friend.....

nah he really is. unless he's super-shy or something. this is the fourth time we've visited in eight years and we've never touched. /shrug.

Is his name Matt?

:lol:

araby · Post by **araby** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 2:14 pm

I don't get it. like, door mat?

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 2:15 pm

It went over my head :dunno:

Post by **Martrae** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 2:17 pm

I meant his real name....nm

Just sounded like someone I knew a LONG time ago...

araby · Post by **araby** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 2:21 pm

Martrae wrote:I meant his real name....nm

Just sounded like someone I knew a LONG time ago...

oh, okay. I thought it might have been a funny joke I was missing. his real name is brian. and seriously, he doesn't seem to have any interest in me at all other than as a friend. we've always had a flirtatious way of joking but niether of us takes it seriously that I know of. I told him that if we were 30 and still unmarried I'd have his baby but since he turned 30 in Jan and me in Sept we've not conceived a child. he says he's asexual. then he says he's not. who knows. I try to be quiet here and not bother him.

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:45 pm

araby wrote:
Martrae wrote:I meant his real name....nm

Just sounded like someone I knew a LONG time ago...

oh, okay. I thought it might have been a funny joke I was missing. his real name is brian. and seriously, he doesn't seem to have any interest in me at all other than as a friend. we've always had a flirtatious way of joking but niether of us takes it seriously that I know of. I told him that if we were 30 and still unmarried I'd have his baby but since he turned 30 in Jan and me in Sept we've not conceived a child. he says he's asexual. then he says he's not. who knows. I try to be quiet here and not bother him.

How can he not!

araby · Post by **araby** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:51 pm

Xaiveir wrote:
araby wrote:
Martrae wrote:I meant his real name....nm

Just sounded like someone I knew a LONG time ago...

oh, okay. I thought it might have been a funny joke I was missing. his real name is brian. and seriously, he doesn't seem to have any interest in me at all other than as a friend. we've always had a flirtatious way of joking but niether of us takes it seriously that I know of. I told him that if we were 30 and still unmarried I'd have his baby but since he turned 30 in Jan and me in Sept we've not conceived a child. he says he's asexual. then he says he's not. who knows. I try to be quiet here and not bother him.

How can he not!

perhaps he's happy with the way things are. plus, I've always had a boyfriend, for as long as I've known him. he's never dated anyone that I know of, since I've known him at least.

Tikker · Post by **Tikker** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:55 pm

clearly gay

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:58 pm

Fagalis

Post by **Tossica** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:59 pm

Tikker wrote:clearly gay

For sure. I'd have stuck it in ya a long time ago.

Hylissa · Post by **Hylissa** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 4:01 pm

Tossica wrote:
Tikker wrote:clearly gay

For sure. I'd have stuck it in ya a long time ago.

In Tikker?!?! :eyecrazy:

Post by **Tossica** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 4:06 pm

haha

Ooops. Watch yer butt Tikker. I'm coming for ya!

kinghooter00 · Post by **kinghooter00** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 5:01 pm

Jay wrote:If you were smart you'd not adopt the girl and jack baby daddy for child support. That combined with your income with have you comfortably living WITH day care. However due to your stupid feelings and mental ineptitude you're gonna give a guy a get out of jail free card, relieve him of his responsibility and remain broke.

Not disagreeing at all, this has all crossed my mind and there is still alot of time. This isn't set in stone. These are just routes we are most likely to make. I might run it by her and she would probably agree. She wants him to pay. She hates that he doesn't give any support to his child.
So thanks for that. I will see what happens.

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 5:05 pm

We will be sending you a bill for all the advice we have given you. You can pay us the money you save on not taking on someone elses kid via adoption!

araby · Post by **araby** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 6:13 pm

kinghooter00 wrote:Not disagreeing at all, this has all crossed my mind and there is still alot of time. This isn't set in stone. These are just routes we are most likely to make. I might run it by her and she would probably agree. She wants him to pay. She hates that he doesn't give any support to his child.
So thanks for that. I will see what happens.

the father should support the child. if he doesn't want to pay child support outside of the courts, which is how he's better off doing it, then she has the option to take him to court.

the courts will not only tell him how much to pay each month, but they will ask him for back-child support that he's not payed, all along. if she doesn't want to go that way, then she needs to move past the father not financially supporting the child and find other means of support.

if you offer some, that is a great thing for you to do and I commend you for it.

if you want to adopt the child, because you want to give it a father to call it's own, I support your decision.

either way, just remember this. if she takes the father to court for financial support, and he does not pay it, they will put him in jail. he will have to continue to pay the support, yes, while he is in jail. (with no job to pay said support.)

these decisions are your wife's to make. what does she say about all of this?

kinghooter00 · Post by **kinghooter00** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 6:22 pm

Okay guys, well i'm gonna go and put some Jonny Cash on my Ipod. I'll see you guys later.

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 6:27 pm

Tikker · Post by **Tikker** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 7:17 pm

Hylissa wrote:
Tossica wrote:
Tikker wrote:clearly gay

For sure. I'd have stuck it in ya a long time ago.

In Tikker?!?!

ps, I totally nailed Hylissa back in highschool omg

Hylissa · Post by **Hylissa** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:31 pm

lol FU

Phlegm · Post by **Phlegm** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:33 pm

Hylissa wrote:lol FU

So it's true?

Hylissa · Post by **Hylissa** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:35 pm

lol

I don't believe we were in the same circles in high school

Phlegm · Post by **Phlegm** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:37 pm

Hylissa wrote:lol

I don't believe we were in the same circles in high school

You're in the hot chick circle and Tikker was in the retarded short bus riding circle?

Hylissa · Post by **Hylissa** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:40 pm

Phlegm wrote:
Hylissa wrote:lol

I don't believe we were in the same circles in high school

You're in the hot chick circle and Tikker was in the retarded short bus riding circle?

/shrug ... I was in the pot-smoking, leather jacket wearing circle ... and he ... was not =D And since I always had a car, he COULD have been on said bus .... :rofl:

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 8:51 pm

Hylissa wrote:
Phlegm wrote:
Hylissa wrote:lol

I don't believe we were in the same circles in high school

You're in the hot chick circle and Tikker was in the retarded short bus riding circle?

/shrug ... I was in the pot-smoking, leather jacket wearing circle ... and he ... was not =D And since I always had a car, he COULD have been on said bus ....

Tikker · Post by **Tikker** » Wed Jan 31, 2007 9:12 pm

I was a football/hockey/rugby/wrestling superstar

she begged me omg