Hello!

[Dylan]

Step in and put a cock in her mouth, probably will fix all.

[Insanityfair]

How evil are you willing to get Jay?

Oh no you don't!

[Ginzburgh]

How about just call the cops then? If he is really THAT concerned he can drop an anonymous tip and hope she'll admit it when they ask her.

[Jay]

Right.

Here is how it would go if I had a friend in a similar predicament:

Friend, "This guy raped me and I am still friends with him"
Ginz, "Hmm...Maybe that isn't a good idea. You probably shouldn't talk to him anymore"
Friend, "I've got it under control"
Ginz, "okey dokey...anyway <insert a different conversation here>"

Then it would never be spoken of again. I certainly wouldn't come on an internet message board looking for ideas to launch an elaborate scheme to remove the guy from her life. That is what can be commonly referred to as, "looking for trouble". Or "meddling" in the Scooby Doo tongue.

Leave it alone.

Or how about maybe the guy was young and stupid, had a weak moment, took advantage of a young girl in a way he shouldn't have and now it haunts him every day...which is why he has been trying to make ammends all these years.

Either way, Jay shouldn't be involved unless she asks him to be, which it seems like she doesn't.

I guess I worded it wrong. I'm not trying to set up an elaborate series of events or anything, I just want her to confront her problems. I see what you're saying and I even said that I know it's not really my problem but the reason we're close is because we don't have families to turn so we just support each other. I've had issues that she's "meddled" in and in the end I came out of them better because she did. My journey to where I am now would have been either extremely more difficult or wouldn't have happened had she not been around.

Also, I see it like this, I can either sit there and listen to her cry about how she keeps ruining her relationships and tell her over and over again that it'll be all right, or I can convince her to make it happen. In the end if she chooses not to do anything then I can always turn my back but until then I have to at least try to positively influence the situation. I assume that as my responsibility as a friend since I've already agreed to be there for her like she was for me.

Yeah I know it's voluntarily engaging myself in drama, but I choose to protect the few close people I have in my life and watching her suffer for the entire time or losing her as a friend entirely would suck more than voicing my frustration on the subject and urging her to find a solution.

[10sun]

Right.

Here is how it would go if I had a friend in a similar predicament:

Friend, "This guy raped me and I am still friends with him"
Ginz, "Hmm...Maybe that isn't a good idea. You probably shouldn't talk to him anymore"
Friend, "I've got it under control"
Ginz, "okey dokey...anyway <insert a different conversation here>"

Then it would never be spoken of again. I certainly wouldn't come on an internet message board looking for ideas to launch an elaborate scheme to remove the guy from her life. That is what can be commonly referred to as, "looking for trouble". Or "meddling" in the Scooby Doo tongue.

Leave it alone.

Or how about maybe the guy was young and stupid, had a weak moment, took advantage of a young girl in a way he shouldn't have and now it haunts him every day...which is why he has been trying to make ammends all these years.

Either way, Jay shouldn't be involved unless she asks him to be, which it seems like she doesn't.

I guess I worded it wrong. I'm not trying to set up an elaborate series of events or anything, I just want her to confront her problems. I see what you're saying and I even said that I know it's not really my problem but the reason we're close is because we don't have families to turn so we just support each other. I've had issues that she's "meddled" in and in the end I came out of them better because she did. My journey to where I am now would have been either extremely more difficult or wouldn't have happened had she not been around.

Also, I see it like this, I can either sit there and listen to her cry about how she keeps ruining her relationships and tell her over and over again that it'll be all right, or I can convince her to make it happen. In the end if she chooses not to do anything then I can always turn my back but until then I have to at least try to positively influence the situation. I assume that as my responsibility as a friend since I've already agreed to be there for her like she was for me.

Yeah I know it's voluntarily engaging myself in drama, but I choose to protect the few close people I have in my life and watching her suffer for the entire time or losing her as a friend entirely would suck more than voicing my frustration on the subject and urging her to find a solution.

Stick it in her butt.

[Jay]

Right.

Here is how it would go if I had a friend in a similar predicament:

Friend, "This guy raped me and I am still friends with him"
Ginz, "Hmm...Maybe that isn't a good idea. You probably shouldn't talk to him anymore"
Friend, "I've got it under control"
Ginz, "okey dokey...anyway <insert a different conversation here>"

Then it would never be spoken of again. I certainly wouldn't come on an internet message board looking for ideas to launch an elaborate scheme to remove the guy from her life. That is what can be commonly referred to as, "looking for trouble". Or "meddling" in the Scooby Doo tongue.

Leave it alone.

Or how about maybe the guy was young and stupid, had a weak moment, took advantage of a young girl in a way he shouldn't have and now it haunts him every day...which is why he has been trying to make ammends all these years.

Either way, Jay shouldn't be involved unless she asks him to be, which it seems like she doesn't.

I guess I worded it wrong. I'm not trying to set up an elaborate series of events or anything, I just want her to confront her problems. I see what you're saying and I even said that I know it's not really my problem but the reason we're close is because we don't have families to turn so we just support each other. I've had issues that she's "meddled" in and in the end I came out of them better because she did. My journey to where I am now would have been either extremely more difficult or wouldn't have happened had she not been around.

Also, I see it like this, I can either sit there and listen to her cry about how she keeps ruining her relationships and tell her over and over again that it'll be all right, or I can convince her to make it happen. In the end if she chooses not to do anything then I can always turn my back but until then I have to at least try to positively influence the situation. I assume that as my responsibility as a friend since I've already agreed to be there for her like she was for me.

Yeah I know it's voluntarily engaging myself in drama, but I choose to protect the few close people I have in my life and watching her suffer for the entire time or losing her as a friend entirely would suck more than voicing my frustration on the subject and urging her to find a solution.

Stick it in her butt.

I tried to when we first met but she wasn't down and she ended up being my friend instead.

[Tossica]

Shazam... Jay got put in the friend zone.

[Jay]

It worked out better since I hit up a few of her friends.

[Tae-Bo]

send her my way... i'll fix her up

[Lueyen]

How evil are you willing to get Jay?

Oh no you don't!

It was just a question.

[araby]

Jay I think it's great that you care so much. Seems as though one of my longest/best friends won't talk to me. She's lucky you're there, even if she doesn't know it. Good luck.

[Insanityfair]

How evil are you willing to get Jay?

Oh no you don't!

It was just a question.

Hah, I'll just bet.

[Lueyen]

<<< me

[Insanityfair]

You may fool other people, but not me sir! I'm on to you!

[Jay]

Update.

We had a talk about it and basically she got pissed at me and told me I'm not in charge of who she can and can't have in her life and if I want to leave then go. So I did, then she called me up crying like a few days later because she confronted the guy about it and he said she was making it up in her head and that it never happened and that she's acting crazy. Now she's out for blood and wants to report him and she's trying to get her friends to back her on it. CA has a 10 year statute of limitations on child pedophilia she found out and this would be the 8th year. I'll link the newspaper article when this guy gets convicted.

[Ginzburgh]

Or the newspaper article covering her murder.

[Mop]

Seriously? wtf. I just don't get the attraction of fucking a kid. Well cept Jessica Alba when she was on the TV show Flipper, but i was 12 at the time so np.

[Tacks]

Seriously? wtf. I just don't get the attraction of fucking a kid. Well cept Jessica Alba when she was on the TV show Flipper, but i was 12 at the time so np.

That's probably a good thing that you don't "get it".

[Trielelvan]

Glad she is going to oust the guy. Hopefully, that will give her some much needed closure. Think her friends will back her up?

... and yeah, that's one of those things that's safer not understanding.

[kinghooter00]

........Nasty fucks. That guy is a real asshole, unless she's lying.

[Mop]

if she is this over the place over it I dont think she is lying.

[kinghooter00]

if she is this over the place over it I dont think she is lying.

i'm sorry, what?

[Jay]

all^

[Jay]

all^