So my friend asked me a tough question...

Jay · Post by **Jay** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:27 pm

Now that I think of it, if I were dead I'd tell my friend that as long as he was good he should tap that ass.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:32 pm

As I am reading some of the comments, I am changing my mind a bit. Jose is dead, let them get together.
Fair game, I agree.

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:34 pm

Darcler wrote:As I am reading some of the comments, I am changing my mind a bit. Jose is dead, let them get together.
Fair game, I agree.

Stop thinking with your penis you incensitive ape...................

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:46 pm

Would you like to touch my penis?

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:51 pm

I would like to touch your insensitive ape penis. BrokebackMountain style.

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:52 pm

Oh my............

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:57 pm

No silly, I do not have an ape's penis. This one is my own.

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:03 pm

I have two.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:05 pm

Are they made of rubber and live in your bedside table?

The Kizzy · Post by **The Kizzy** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:13 pm

yes...........have you been pilfering through my drawers again?

Donnel · Post by **Donnel** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:21 pm

include("joke about her hands having only been in HER own pants");

Yamori · Post by **Yamori** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:27 pm

Think it depends on what the nature of their relationship was, and how close a friend he was to your friend.

Moving in after a serious romantic relationship with a good friend that you truly cared for would probably be a bad thing (unless you wanted a serious romantic relationship also).

If the two were more or less just screwing around (2-3 months makes this sound at least likely) and the two guys weren't particularly close friends - just buddies, it's a different story... imo.

Darcler · Post by **Darcler** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:33 pm

Yamori wrote:Think it depends on what the nature of their relationship was, and how close a friend he was to your friend.

Moving in after a serious romantic relationship with a good friend that you truly cared for would probably be a bad thing (unless you wanted a serious romantic relationship also).

If the two were more or less just screwing around (2-3 months makes this sound at least likely) and the two guys weren't particularly close friends - just buddies, it's a different story... imo.

Jose is still dead. Is he going to get mad because someone is dating his still living girlfriend?

Xaiveir · Post by **Xaiveir** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:39 pm

I think she is not suppose to date anyone. She is suppose to die alone, because Jose would want it that way...............

kaharthemad · Post by **kaharthemad** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:42 pm

Erodalak wrote:
The Kizzy wrote:I will agree with Martrae on all but one point. I think that if he did pursue a serious relationship with her, it would not be a bad thing. His friend loved this girl, and I am sure that the deceased would be pleased in knowing that he is taking care of her, even after he is gone.

Well, I wouldn't say that they were in love, but they were working in that direction. They hadn't been together long enough to be love. Jose was with her like...2 or 3 months ish.

dude if they were just a steady fuck bend her over the bannister and go at it.

kaharthemad · Post by **kaharthemad** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:46 pm

Xaiveir wrote:
The Kizzy wrote:I don't agree, Tikker, I feel he is betraying his friend.

His friend that is Dead and probably doesnt give a shit?

I dont think the relationship will work, her being dead and all. Unless it snows and you need something to grit the pathway with.

Red Dwarf

Jesus · Post by **Jesus** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 5:03 pm

I still think she is a nutjob and this will all end poorly.

Post by **Martrae** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 5:18 pm

It's got nothing to do with the dead guys feelings, but about respect.

If you didn't respect your friend and wanna treat his possessions like garbage, go ahead.

Foutty · Post by **Foutty** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:09 pm

His possessions? Maybe she has a free will and doesnt feel like she is still owned by the ghost of Jose

Is this girl still 19? If so, there is a 99% chance she is retarded anway

brinstar · Post by **brinstar** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 7:10 pm

did he die of AIDS? if so then i would suggest he back off a bit

Minrott · Post by **Minrott** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:44 pm

My girlfriend is a widow. Her husband was best friends with one of my friends, and a whole bunch of aqaintences(wtf sp). But I never knew him. There were times in the beginning that were fairly uncomfortable, and I never asked for anyone's "approval" because all that mattered to me was what she thought. However, we were together maybe 2 months when the congruent friend said he was happy she was with me. Of course, I wasn't just looking for some ass.

If all your friend is looking for is some play, gtfo. There's plenty of action without going there. But if they dig each other, it's cool. That's how I see it anyway.

Diekan · Post by **Diekan** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:08 pm

Xaiveir wrote:I doubt very seriously Mr. Jose is going to haunt anyone that decided to date or fuck a girl he was interested in.

He is dead................

I doubt he cares...............

Remeber the dead, dont live your life scared of what the deceased will think. You have to live YOUR life.

If he was looking down, he would probably be happy that his friend was hooking up with someone he was interested in. If they get together and have a good relationship then Jose would be comforted in knowing that his death had a purpose, and that said lady would be happy and well taken care of.

Jesus this is a dumb question, some people amaze me with their sniveling ........oh thats not right, Jose would not have wanted that. Its not fucked up, its not bad morales, its not deceitful, its not harmful in any way. There is NO issue.

Hook it up.

Diekan · Post by **Diekan** » Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:14 pm

Minrott wrote:My girlfriend is a widow. Her husband was best friends with one of my friends, and a whole bunch of aqaintences(wtf sp). But I never knew him. There were times in the beginning that were fairly uncomfortable, and I never asked for anyone's "approval" because all that mattered to me was what she thought. However, we were together maybe 2 months when the congruent friend said he was happy she was with me. Of course, I wasn't just looking for some ass.

If all your friend is looking for is some play, gtfo. There's plenty of action without going there. But if they dig each other, it's cool. That's how I see it anyway.

Also a good point.

I can understand feeling uncomfortable in the beginning - but at least you didn't go out of your way to get approval.

The way I see it, having a relationship with a widow / widower is no one's business but the two people involved.

That's a completely different situation than if a couple break up after having been in a serious relationship and either he or she asks her friends not to chase the person they broke up with.

If one of my friends happens to kick the bucket and his wife/girlfriend/whatever wants to hook up with me some months down the road. Yeah, I'd be a little uncomfortable about it at first - but I'm sure it's something that I could get over with time.

However, if one my friends (while still alive) gets a divorce or breaks up with his chick and asks me not to chase her... well... what can you do but respect his wishes?

Harrison · Post by **Harrison** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 1:51 am

However, if one my friends (while still alive) gets a divorce or breaks up with his chick and asks me not to chase her... well... what can you do but respect his wishes?

Fuck. No.

If my best friend ever told me he doesn't want me dating one of his former girlfriends...I'd laugh in his face.

It doesn't cut it in my eyes. If the woman is going to be happy with me, to hell with his "wishes". He had his time/chance/swing, he either blew it, or called it off by himself.

Project DARC · Post by **Project DARC** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 7:34 am

if he's been dead longer than they dated, tag and take it home for dinner.